Well you are admitting a lot here with the above...
a) "
If you talk to most gay people" have you talked with 'most gay people' and if so how many is "most"?
b) You've evidently NEVER heard of "Social Biology" and the premise that "I've got to be me"...
Massive Study Finds No Single Genetic Cause of Same-Sex Sexual Behavior
A massive study of half a million people finds no single gene behind sexual orientation, adding more evidence that there is no “gay gene”
www.scientificamerican.com
Analysis of half a million people suggests genetics may have a limited contribution to sexual orientation
So tell me again how many of "most gay people" because this study was of 500,000!
and the "I've got to be me"... statement is NOT a nature, i.e. genetic as a real study shows... but "nurture" or learned!
Ask your "most gay" subjects if encouraged, easy to obtain sexual gratification was a prime motivator?
FACTS...
CONSIDERABLE PORTION OF THE population, perhaps the major portion of the male population, has at least some homosexual experience between adolescence and old age. In addition, about
60 per cent of the pre-adolescent boys engage in homosexual activities, and there is an additional group of adult males who avoid overt contacts but who are quite aware of their potentialities for reacting to other males.
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
Easiest way to get sexual gratification.
About 3% of American men—or 1 in 33—have experienced an attempted or completed rape in their lifetime.5; 1 out of every 10 rape victims are male.
Sexual Violence Affects Millions of Americans Younger People Face the Highest Risk of Sexual Violence Women & Girls Experience Sexual Violence at High Rates Millions of Women in the U.S. Have Experienced Rape Young Women are Especially at Risk Read more statistics about campus sexual violence...
www.rainn.org
So I'm not as adamant as you, i.e. "most gay people attracted to same sex" as even though I've PROOF of my premise that
easy sex gratification performing or performed on is EASIER with men on men! NOT a genealogical but LEARNED (NURTURE) behavior! Again I deal with FACTS not guesses!