It is both for us. We are no longer speaking to some family members and definitely have several former friends due major political view disagreements.
How about you?
I am responding, and yes I did just click respond, and flew over the whole thread, so sorry.
I was a poll taker in 16 in the state of Florida......not that I resided there, but went there as a snowbird every year. (ask Macadoozy, he knows)
I seen that Trump was going to win Florida,(or was relatively sure) and asked other pollsters from the same firm what they were seeing in the states they were canvassing in, most of those states in the South. They could NOT definitively say that Trump was going to win, but they did say that he was much, much, closer than the media was reporting.
In passing, I told my very best friend. He told me I was projecting, I was hoping, and that Trump was.........well, insert a name. I was like.....NO...I am just trying to discuss this with you.
Anyway..........jumping forward, after Trump won, he refused to speak to me for 3 and 1/2 years, until he seen the lead Biden had in 2020 according to the polls............... Biden won, then all was forgiven.
And now........well we do not talk politics any longer, which is probably the smart thing to do.
A friend of mine told me a very sad, sad, truth which I have since took to heart----------->you are NEVER, EVER, going to change someone's mind on politics, because they are predisposed to who/whom they want to win, no matter what. Makes no difference if it is right or left, they are going to take the one thing they are correct on, and shake it like a dog shakes a bone.
My suggestion to all of you is--------->keep politics out of conversations. You aren't going to win, and even if you do, they will insist you didn't, lol. Instead.......find common ground. Find that, and if your candidate is better than theirs, you will win........and so will they!