Although surada's preterism is completely and obviously false, I do have to disagree with you, if you think the rapture takes place before the tribulation.
When you take a closer look at the Bible, the rapture occurs on the last day of this age, at the second coming of Christ.
I think the problem is that many Christians conflate the words tribulation with wrath. They are not the same thing. The Bible is very clear that God's children will not be appointed to wrath, but it doesn't say that we will not go through the tribulation, in fact it says the exact opposite.
The idea of the pre-tribulation rapture is misleading, which btw is why Hollywood promotes it. That in and of itself should be a clue that it is false, if Hollywood is promoting it. It DOES occur, just not prior to the tribulation.