People who drink alcohol or do drugs are at risk of becoming addicted or other ill effects.
People who consume many different foods are at risk of diabetes, obesity, and many other ill effects.
We are not to gossip. We are not to accuse people based on rumors or the fact we suspect them. We are not to call each other names. We are to love one another. ". . .he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen."
Luke 1:37
Sins of commission, sins of omission. All of us have sinned and fallen short. Who can say that one sin is somehow worse than other sins. Our own sins?
I am not condoning sin. I never have. I won't ever say it's okay. But I won't spend all my time and energy trying to condemn or accuse others who are minding their own business and, if they are harming themselves, then so are the heavy drinkers, smokers, over eaters, swearers, people who fail to exercise or eat properly, etc. etc. etc. etc.
All these are sins.
My gay friends will have to account for their sins. It isn't up to me to require them to do that. I will have to account for my sins and it isn't up to anybody else to require me to do that. We all sin and fall short.
". . .he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen.
Luke 1:37"
Luke 6:37
"Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven."
Luke 6:41
"Why do you look at the speck in your brother's eye, but fail to notice the beam in your own eye?"
John 8:7
"When they continued to question Him, He straightened up and said to them, "Let him who is without sin among you be the first to cast a stone at her."
Romans 2:1
"You, therefore, have no excuse, you who pass judgment on another. For on whatever grounds you judge the other, you are condemning yourself, because you who pass judgment do the same things."
Romans 14:10
"Why, then, do you judge your brother? Or why do you belittle your brother? For we will all stand before God's judgment seat."
Etc. etc. etc.
See? All of us can cherry pick scripture and hold it up as "God's law." I think we have to consider the sum total of scripture, however, to know what God wants and expects of us.