When it started to bother me is when Gays and Lesbians were offered Civil Unions with ALL the rights of a married couple but DEMANDED that they be allowed to 'marry' instead.
Gays and Lesbians were NEVER offered Civil Unions with ALL the rights of Civil Marriage because the 1134 Federal rights, responsibilities and benefits are contingent on Civil Marriage - Civil Unions do not matter.
Secondly, how can Civil Unions have been offered when States were passing State Constitutional Amendments like this one from where I live in Virginia:
"Section 15-A. Marriage.
That only a union between one man and one woman may be a marriage valid in or recognized by this Commonwealth and its political subdivisions. This Commonwealth and its political subdivisions shall not create or recognize a legal status for relationships of unmarried individuals that intends to approximate the design, qualities, significance, or effects of marriage. Nor shall this Commonwealth or its political subdivisions create or recognize another union, partnership, or other legal status to which is assigned the rights, benefits, obligations, qualities, or effects of marriage."
Social Authoritarians were the ones that slammed the door on Civil Unions a decade ago when they barred them also.
Back then full Civil Unions (State and Federal) would have been a good intermediate step, would have probably lasted a generation or two and everyone would have still referred to them as "married" and "spouses" anyway. But it would have made some authoritarians "feel" better while the world moved on. Then quietly the two would have been merged back together in 20-40 years.
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You can not possibly understand how much this topic bores me. I just don't care.
The only thing I care about is the fact that dimocraps are using it for political purposes...... Like they do everything.
You are under the mistaken impression that Gay Marriage has no effects on anyone other than those bound by the marriage.
That is just plain stupidly wrong.
This is it and I'm done here, but....
Marriage is an institution of The State. NOT of Religion...... The State. I'm right about this and if you don't care to study it, I'm not going to bother to explain it to you. Marriage is a LEGAL entity, not a religious one.
The State promotes marriage for its own ends, not for personal or religious ends.
For instance....
Gay marriage in Europe, where it has been extensively practiced for decades, is known to have lowered the dignity and prestige of the institution of marriage. It's not even debatable.
And in Europe, the people there aren't reproducing enough to replace their own population. Which is one reason the pols are allowing the importation of culturally opposite ragheads. Which, I doubt that you follow the news, but they're having a bit of a problem with that right now.
I remember not too long ago when a newly engaged young lady would run around showing everybody she met her new engaement ring.
I remember the Happy Couple's wedding day being the most important day of their lives.
Now that's all going to be diminished.
You don't think so?
Then you're part of the problem.
When this Country, and maybe even civilization itself, implode and you wonder why?
Look in the mirror