And in both cases, people were rejected, either locked out or thrown out. Can you at least be honest enough to acknowledge that Jesus talked frequently about those who were rejected by God and He didn't act like the majority of people will be saved?
I start with the Lord's prayer:
Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. I have had an experience of the unimaginable love God has for us. Holy is that love, Holy is He, and therefore His very name should
always be centered in that great love.
What Jesus is teaching in both cases is not rejection, but expectations. What expectations does our Father have for us? All dads rightfully (and should) have expectations of their children. What are God's expectations of us? Knowing the stories circulating in Jesus' time helps us today understand Jesus' point. One story was about a king who invited people to a wedding feast. He told all to be ready, because did not yet have the day or the time. In this story, many lined up at the entrance gate, ready to celebrate the moment the time was announced. Others went about their daily cares and business. When the time was announced, they rushed to the gates, but the gates were then closed, and all they could do was watch from the outside the celebration, feasting, and party that was going on without them because they had placed their own matters above those of their king. (A case that illustrated those not following the Commandment of putting God first, but putting an idol--self--above God.)
The second story was about a king who gave all his subjects clean robes to wear at a wedding feast. Some took great care of these robes, insuring they remained clean and in good condition. Others wore them everywhere, to places where they would become soiled and/or torn and did not bother to clean or mend them. The day of the feast came, but those who were not properly dressed in clean wedding garments were denied entrance. The moral of this story is that God gives each individual a clean soul when s/he enters the world, and the expectation is that this soul should always be clean and in good shape when God calls them to Him. Again, a Father's expectation.
God's expectations of us are not hidden, they are not unknown. If these expectations are not met, we will not be able to enter the celebration. We will be on the outside looking in.
The teachings: Put God first; take care of one's soul.
Hallowed be thy name... A picture of God throwing people into eternal torture in no way hallows God's name and does not keep it holy. In fact, it tends to place God's name in an extremely bad light, where people are able to disapprove of Him when it is
we, his children, that should have this disapproval.
Jesus' intent is to present us with God's expectations of His children as He has great things planned and He has invited all to participate. He calls on us to prepare, to be ready because we will not want to miss out on what awaits those who are prepared. Put God first; take care of one's soul.
There is no need to give anyone reason to see God as villainous. He is a loving Father who has a father's expectations of his children.
Again, there is a difference between presenting the Father's rejection of His children, and the children's rejection of their Father. You seem to believe it is important to focus on God's rejection, whereas I believe focusing on our own rejection is the better path to teach.
My apologies for the length of this post. I would like my perspective to be better understood. The better question might be not how many God will reject, but how many will reject God. Will all choose God? In what ways are we failing God? God is not failing us. He awaits us. Will we put Him first? Will we arrive with a soul in good condition?