Because it's something Taz wants to do. If he/she wanted to beat children, he/she would be insisting that the fact that the laws don't completely stop such behavior, there shouldn't be any laws at all.
That really is not the crux of that statement and there really is a problem there. Something that the pro-life position must address (and does in a few ways).
If abortion becomes illegal do you prosecute women that have an abortion? If you do, then how do you do so or even know that it was an abortion and not a miscarriage? If not, then why make it illegal in the first place?
Those are, IMHO, real questions that the pro-life position has to struggle with as there is not a good answer to them both even if there is a
best answer.
That really IS the crux of the discussion I was in, but thank you so much for inserting yourself and telling me how I "have to" be having a completely different discussion.
In MY never-humble opinion, you need to ASK me if I would like to discuss what the laws should be in the event of an abortion ban, not TELL me that I HAVE to discuss it.
No, I really don't have to ask you anything. That is the beauty of freedom - I can demand that answer from you and you can continue to not give it
But in the end, 'you' was less specific and more generalized to anyone holding a pro life position. The lot of you can ignore those questions to your hearts content but that is not how you change minds and policy will not move without changing minds.
Yes, well, I did make the silly assumption that you would actually want an answer, rather than simply wanting to issue useless demands and be told to piss off. I do beg your pardon for assuming sensibility where it was not.
It isn't that we "ignore" your questions. It's that we recognize that A) they aren't anywhere close to being issues needing resolution, since abortion is nowhere close to being universally banned, B) that the people who ask those questions are NOT doing so because getting the answers will change anything, but are merely doing so as a deflection, and C) that even if we consented to discuss those issues, the people asking wouldn't be listening to the answers seriously, anyway.
I love how Old Lady's refusal to answer the ridiculous questions you posed is a "deflection" but her posing questions which you find uncomfortable and have no answers for, is her being demanding, and you're not going to play.
There isn't a single legal or moral basis for banning abortion. Forcing women to bear children they don't want and can't afford, will never pass muster with the Supreme Court.
Every jurisdiction which has banned abortion, has moved on to question and place under suspicion all women who have miscarriages. Especially those jurisdictions, where women are prosecuted for abortion. Especially if the miscarriage is deemed "fortuitous". Where there were circumstances where the impending birth was less than a "blessed event".
The whole notion that the only purpose of sex is for procreation is false, and that those who don't want children, should remain celebate. Given that more than half the women who have abortions are either married or in a committed relationship with the father of the child, telling married couples sleeping in the same bed not to have sex is ridiculous.
According to the drug companies who manufacture them, birth control pills are 99.9% effective when taken "optimally". That mean's taking the pill at exactly the same time of day, in the exact same manner, every single day, while healthy. Missing the time of day, even by a hour, or two, can lower the effectiveness of the pill. If you become ill, drugs for your illness may interact negatively with your BC and reduce your effectiveness, so that in the real world, the actual failure rate of birth control pills, is 9%.
Reproductive health and abortion statistics show that of the 90% of women who are married or cohabitting with their male partner (the women who are the most sexually active, and most at risk of getting pregnant in a given year) are using birth control. 68% of these high risk women are using consistently their birth control and correctly, and still 5% of these women who are living moral lives and taking birth control very seriously, will have an unintended pregnancy.
Of the other 32% of women who are married or cohabitting, most are using birth control, but not in the optimal manner, their rate of pregnancy will me much higher, so much so that the majority of women having abortions fall into the category of "married or in a committed relationship". An even larger percentage already have more than one child.
Contraceptive Use in the United States
Conservatives need to stop lying about who and why women are getting abortions.