You obviously did not read my post. I blame ignorance. That aside, there is a such thing as an alpha female and they do not bear the hallmarks of liberal Marxist inspired feminism. They portray feminism via the Wollstonecraft/Palin model, not the culturally Marxist and anti-capitalist bell hooks model.
How is Feminism conservative in any way? Wouldn't the conservative position be to preserve(conserve) traditional gender roles?
Very good question! The answer is by definition yes, by ideology no. The conservative version of feminism is that a woman should be able to choose the life she leads as an individual without a demand that governments subsidize her for he natural differences. The liberal version asserts that a woman should be an affirmative action case by virtue of the male/female differences that nature wickedly bestowed upon their person. In other words, objectivity should take a back seat to equality.
For example, an objective employer would not hire a woman who is pregnant. Liberal feminism dictates that this is wrong and unjust.
An objective school would see that men play sports more than women and allocate most of the funds to the men. Liberal feminism dictates that if they have one they must have the other.
An objective employer would look at a woman resume and notice the giant work gap during her days of having and raising children. He would then pay her less as she has less work experience than a man who has consistently been working. Liberal feminism dictates that this is a violation of social justice.
An objective government would understand that it is a woman choice to have a child and if she has the child she should be responsible for taking care of it. Liberal feminism dictates that she should have free childcare at the expense of others by no other virtue than by her decision to crap a child so she can remain competitive in the work place.
The main difference is the following: Liberal feminism believes the market is structurally discriminatory, and thus, governments should intervene so as to promote social justice. Conservative feminists recognize that they are individuals subject to their own life choices and no one owes them for those decisions.
Liberal feminists are much more likely to become angry and violent as in order for their model to win out they must bring shame and condemnation to those who won't march lockstep by their model. In the end it's really a struggle for power of the sexes. Conservative feminists want natural equality, liberal feminists want the natural status of men despite natures shortcomings. There is much more to it but you get he picture.
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