Exactly. That's the part they always ignore.
Yep. Ultimately, if a woman does not want her baby and cannot be dissuaded from abortion, I feel that better she do it in a proper medical setting than some coat-hanger method in a back ally, and yes, she would probably not be the best mother for the unwanted child, still, if they don't want the baby, decide--- at least do it immediately in the first few weeks and don't wait until the third trimester!
But if the pregnancy offers some medical threat to the mother or if there is a major problem with the baby, or it was due to rape, etc., I'm a little less uncomfortable with the decision. Ultimately, wanting and keeping the child is the parent's decision, but there should be some inducement maybe to coax her to have the child then put it up for adoption.
Still, I'd set limits. I'm pushing 70, have been married, wife came from a big family, and have known lots of women yet I've never met or known one that ever had an abortion or didn't want their own child. Especially if you are relying on public funds to pay for it, if a woman gets an abortion, she should know that if she ever calls for another, after the 2nd one, I might see fit with a state law requiring the woman get a hysterectomy or something.
There has to be common sense boundaries against wanton and unlimited pregnancies/abortions--- maybe if there are some serious consequences to too much unwanted pregnancies, some people will make greater efforts not to get pregnant.