Mr. H.
Diamond Member
I'd "known" a few gals over the years. Don't get me wrong, I truly loved this person but she had major baggage. I've even got a photo of our first argument... 20 seconds after we were married and walking down the aisle and out the Church. It was downhill after that. 13 years and three kids later, I bailed. If not, I would be dead.I see no cons in waiting to get married. The pros are that one remains disease free. One is more likely to see the true deep character of a prospective suiter and not circum to infatuation. God's word tells us that this is how couples should behave. There is no fear of a have to wedding. One has saved one's self for that special someome --- the best gift of all one can share with the person one marries. I feel that the person who waits is far less likey to regret getting married or becoming confused with one's own sexuality.
First marriage was to a gal that earned the right to wear white. That was a freakin' disaster. I think you gotta go around the block before you're ready to commit to a monogomist life... which eventually degrades into a celibate life.
It's ironic that premarital sex would be taken more seriously than pregnancy.
Were you a virgin also, or was it just the gal you first married?