I disagree.
Human instincts are not limited by family.
Originally, for millions of years, raising children was tribal.
The whole "nuclear family" thing is only in the last 100 years or so.
Any society that is not involved with the general welfare of its children, will fail.
Children are the future, and are an important investment by the whole society.
All societies that invest in children, like public schools, are better than those that do not.
The need for tribal collectiveness for the purpose of safety, food, shelter is nothing like today’s needs/wants. Only going back a mere 40 years ago and most things: socially, occupational needs and choices, educational pursuits all dramatically different. Too many stark differences to list.
AI? 40 years back most would have rolled their eyes about what has transpired. There were more men than females in college and now that’s flipped. Few would have seen that coming back in the ‘80s. Or much else, considering that the rate of technology has accelerated to the point of exponential growth. That was not the case in the 80’s nor even late 90’s. It is said that going back 40 years in time equates to the number of advancements we’ll see within 10 years, or less. Think about that!
So as you see, I cannot agree with your stance that society needs a community to raise a child. That was indeed the case until relatively recently.
Now, if we’re talking south Sudan or many other countries outside the US that aren’t so extremely dangerous as Sudan region, absolutely every community/village needs to stand together to even survive.
I am sure that you are right that certain areas within the US, particularly rural areas, have maintained a larger sense of a communal collectivism.
I appreciate where you’re coming from, and a good neighbor will always watch out for a neighbor’s kid, particularly when safety is a concern.
Many, if not most who live in the US, communicate with people who live from all over the world on a daily basis. This forum, for instance, allows for such conversations. At the same time, there are many people choosing to have tight-knit circles, while others choose to have isolated living conditions. Most Americans don’t seek out face-to-face conversations for information or as part of their social life. This is the saddest part hands-down. As creatures of habit, most won’t venture out of their comfort zone.
I apologize for any redundancy that you detect in the above paragraphs. I thought I’d erased half of it by mistake and ended up repeating myself.