You can't believe for your children:
Mark 16:16 He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved; but he that believeth not shall be damned.
Mark 16:16 doesn't say, "he that is baptized not shall be damned". It says "He that believeth not shall be damned."
Bible Question: Must we be baptized to be saved?
You are entitled to your opinion, of course.
My Church teaches that baptism is necessary to be saved.
That is a difficult teaching, because it leads to the questions, "What happens to babies who die before they are baptized?"
There is no answer, the Catholic Church does not have an answer.
The concept of Limbo has been rejected.
That is why most Catholics have their babies baptized as soon as possible.
I have three children, and I was ready at the birth of each to baptize them quickly if it looked like they were in peril of dying.
What happens to babies who die before they were baptized? They aren't judged because of the age of accountability which is Biblical. Your rationalization isn't found in the Bible and is just made up on your own authority instead of God's words.
Good questions. What happened to the thief on the cross? The thief on the cross wasn't baptized and Jesus said, "Today you will be with me in paradise".
Jesus is the head of the church. Your church is wrong when it says something that Jesus didn't say.
Baptism means death (Romans 6) so your death doesn't mean life.
Baptism is something you do below. Being born again is something that happens from above because the word means born from above.
1 Corinthians 10:2 And were all baptized unto Moses in the cloud and in the sea;
Still, the only ones allowed to enter into the promised land were Joshua and Caleb and God said he wouldn't allow the others to enter His rest. So you have people being baptized who weren't allowed to enter the promised land.
What happened in Noah's flood? You had eight souls who were saved and the rest were baptized by the flood who died because baptism means death (Romans 6).
You can argue baptism with me in the debate forum but
I have printouts of past debates and files written.
You have to be born from above to enter the kingdom of God and just as you didn't birth yourself in physical birth, you can't birth yourself spiritually by being baptized.