I am a doctor...not a therapist, counselor, or someone who pretends to know the answer to relationships, nor am I a woman who has been in repeated abusive and failed relationships...but I see this a lot - a woman who continuously ends up in emotionally or physically abusive relationships.
And the question that always comes into my mind is: why continue trying?
If a woman continues trying to establish a relationship and continues to find a pattern of abuse, then she should come to the conclusion that there is some sort of flaw in her ability to choose a partner. What exactly that is...I don't know? A psychologist might get into issues from childhood (which could be the problem) but I don't understand that concept enough to deal with it.
So, my thought is always: why don't you just forget about a partner? Why not focus on your children...your family...your friends? If you search for a partner, there is a chance it will end up the same.
But I never ask these questions...
And the question that always comes into my mind is: why continue trying?
If a woman continues trying to establish a relationship and continues to find a pattern of abuse, then she should come to the conclusion that there is some sort of flaw in her ability to choose a partner. What exactly that is...I don't know? A psychologist might get into issues from childhood (which could be the problem) but I don't understand that concept enough to deal with it.
So, my thought is always: why don't you just forget about a partner? Why not focus on your children...your family...your friends? If you search for a partner, there is a chance it will end up the same.
But I never ask these questions...