Look up "Dar al Harb" and "Dar al Islam" and get back with me. ..According to your banner, your location is in Dar al Harb. Remind me what State is that in?
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Look up "Dar al Harb" and "Dar al Islam" and get back with me. ..According to your banner, your location is in Dar al Harb. Remind me what State is that in?
Look up "Dar al Harb" and "Dar al Islam" and get back with me. ..According to your banner, your location is in Dar al Harb. Remind me what State is that in?
Your OP is a fake story; .....that much is obvious.Look up "Dar al Harb" and "Dar al Islam" and get back with me. ..According to your banner, your location is in Dar al Harb. Remind me what State is that in?
Sorry, I don't follow third world thinking. And, I certainly do not want third world advice on first world problems. Again, thank you for you helpful postings.
Your OP is a fake story; .....that much is obvious.Look up "Dar al Harb" and "Dar al Islam" and get back with me. ..
Sorry, I don't follow third world thinking. And, I certainly do not want third world advice on first world problems. Again, thank you for you helpful postings.
You came here to spread you homo agenda under the guise of a non existent nephew.
Even Stevie Wonder could see thru your deception.
Why don't you go back to your LGBT forum and troll for another homo hook up fag boy.
Plus it would make your boyfriend jealous.I am not going to waste my time in a pissing contest you. There is nothing to be gained by it.
Incorrect Poindexter.......You have lost your credibility with me. You have not posted a single fact to support your anti-gay rhetoric. You can take partial credit for turning me into a gay rights believer. You comments about STD's are totally unsubstantiated hate preach. My God, you aren't even an American, you clearly have no idea what is going on in the Western culture. However, thank you for your postings. I could not have arrived at my conclusions without you.
I am a 5th generation born American and a US Army veteran. ..
Here is the straight (OUTDATED) dope from PubMed.gov/NCBI (National Center for Biotechnology Information)
Comparative prevalence rates of sexually transmitted diseases in heterosexual and homosexual men.
This study compared prevalence rates of most common sexually transmitted diseases (STD) in heterosexual and homosexual men who made respectively 12,201 and 5324 visits to an STD clinic over 18 months.
Overall, homosexual men were significantly (p < 0.001) more likely than heterosexual men to have gonorrhea (30.31% vs. 19.83%), early syphilis (1.08% vs. 0.34%) and anal warts (2.90% vs. 0.26%) but less likely to have nongonococcal urethritis (NGU) (14.63% vs. 36.40%, p < 0.001), herpes genitalis (0.93% vs. 3.65%, p < 0.001), pediculosis pubis (4.30% vs. 5.35%, p < 0.005), scabies (0.42% vs. 0.76%, p < 0.02), and genital warts (1.68% vs. 6.69%, p < 0.001).
In most cases the differences in rates remained significant (p < 0.05) when corrected for age and race. It is speculated that higher rates of gonorrhea and syphilis result from a larger mean number of sexual contacts, more potential sites of infection, and more hidden and asymptomatic disease, while the lower rates of the other STD result from a lesser susceptibility of anal mucosa to the causative agent(s) of NGU, herpes genitalis, and venereal warts or from a lack of pubic apposition (pediculosis pubis).
Comparative prevalence rates of sexually tran... [Am J Epidemiol. 1980] - PubMed - NCBI
According to your banner, your location is in Dar al Harb. Remind me, again what State is that in?
Your link is 1980, clearly 33 years old. Wouldn't you call your information out-of-date? 1980 was the peak of the global Aids crisis. It was hardly a typical year to review.
I have politely indicated that I have considered your postings, and made up my mind to move in a direction different than you have chosen. Thank you for your contribution to this thread.
Outdated computer, outdated thinking!
I'm sorry.I'm surprised you haven't been called a homophobe for not allowing your nephew to share a room in your home.
Seriously, good luck with all that.
Devout Christians make me hurl.
I'm so sorry, Beachboy. You have a good heart to want to fix the problems, but your sister likely feels betrayed right now. She may get over it or not, but if she does, it will be in her own time. The nephew seems happy enough with his own friends, and his writing all your sisters friends wasn't about her, it was about him calling his own shots and feeling empowered by his new-found honesty. I don't think he did it to intentionally humiliate any one as much as to say that he is now a man, has made choices, and is willing to live with the consequences with the hopes he can be accepted by everyone as much as his school accepts him with their own belief system.You know, damn it, I am angry with everyone. My wife has wanted plantation shutter blinds for a long time. Our dining room gets too hot in the late afternoon so it is an uncomfortable place to eat supper. We have wanted to replace the drapes for something better insulated for some time.
The plantation shutter blind man could make the blinds operate on motors with a timer that would open the blinds automatically in the morning, and close them before the late afternoon sun while we were at work. The house would be cooler when we got home. It is small thing, not important in the scheme of the current family problems, but now does not seem like a good time to spend $2,700 on motorized blinds when I could be picking up the cost of my nephews college education this fall. At least we can buy the blinds that could be converted to motorized later.
So, let's see what the price is I have paid today just today because my sisters twenty year old wants to suck some....... make love differently than most of us.
Sunday, only day off with my wife, ruined by argument. Check. Smoking and drinking alcohol after quitting years ago. Check. Blood pressure going up due to people who can not solve their own problems. Check. Solving family problems, that are not mine, on my day off. Check. Falling into the role of "head of the family" after my father because my brother has now weaseled out of it. Check. Selecting new blinds, an experience my wife had been looking forward to together, dampened. Check. A small, fun, motorized practical gimmick out of the picture because I can not afford it due to family members will not act like adults. Check. Not enjoying my internet experience at USMB because of other people and their problems. Check.
Martini's and Marlboros are
not part of the solution, here.
Plus it would make your boyfriend jealous.I am not going to waste my time in a pissing contest you. There is nothing to be gained by it.
Anyone who knows me that I happen to be married, not that it matters. Point is this thread is over. I have learned with the help of most posters here how to handle my nephew. He will be welcomed into our home as family. His privacy will be respected, but his lifestyle will not be facilitated over the next two years until he graduates from college. He will now have to get a job, and he will have responsibilities around our home as long as he is here.
I will thank you for one thing though, you sound just like my narrow-minded sister. You have been showcased in this thread, and are probably the best argument I have seen for gay rights. You are a dinosaur, and I am not laughing. You are beyond deprogramming.
Found this commercial, makes as much sense as you do.
Sunni Man you are on "ignore."
I'm sorry.I'm surprised you haven't been called a homophobe for not allowing your nephew to share a room in your home.
Seriously, good luck with all that.
Devout Christians make me hurl.
I'm so sorry, Beachboy. You have a good heart to want to fix the problems, but your sister likely feels betrayed right now. She may get over it or not, but if she does, it will be in her own time. The nephew seems happy enough with his own friends, and his writing all your sisters friends wasn't about her, it was about him calling his own shots and feeling empowered by his new-found honesty. I don't think he did it to intentionally humiliate any one as much as to say that he is now a man, has made choices, and is willing to live with the consequences with the hopes he can be accepted by everyone as much as his school accepts him with their own belief system.You know, damn it, I am angry with everyone. My wife has wanted plantation shutter blinds for a long time. Our dining room gets too hot in the late afternoon so it is an uncomfortable place to eat supper. We have wanted to replace the drapes for something better insulated for some time.
The plantation shutter blind man could make the blinds operate on motors with a timer that would open the blinds automatically in the morning, and close them before the late afternoon sun while we were at work. The house would be cooler when we got home. It is small thing, not important in the scheme of the current family problems, but now does not seem like a good time to spend $2,700 on motorized blinds when I could be picking up the cost of my nephews college education this fall. At least we can buy the blinds that could be converted to motorized later.
So, let's see what the price is I have paid today just today because my sisters twenty year old wants to suck some....... make love differently than most of us.
Sunday, only day off with my wife, ruined by argument. Check. Smoking and drinking alcohol after quitting years ago. Check. Blood pressure going up due to people who can not solve their own problems. Check. Solving family problems, that are not mine, on my day off. Check. Falling into the role of "head of the family" after my father because my brother has now weaseled out of it. Check. Selecting new blinds, an experience my wife had been looking forward to together, dampened. Check. A small, fun, motorized practical gimmick out of the picture because I can not afford it due to family members will not act like adults. Check. Not enjoying my internet experience at USMB because of other people and their problems. Check.
Best wishes in working things out.
Plus it would make your boyfriend jealous.
Anyone who knows me that I happen to be married, not that it matters. Point is this thread is over. I have learned with the help of most posters here how to handle my nephew. He will be welcomed into our home as family. His privacy will be respected, but his lifestyle will not be facilitated over the next two years until he graduates from college. He will now have to get a job, and he will have responsibilities around our home as long as he is here.
I will thank you for one thing though, you sound just like my narrow-minded sister. You have been showcased in this thread, and are probably the best argument I have seen for gay rights. You are a dinosaur, and I am not laughing. You are beyond deprogramming.
Found this commercial, makes as much sense as you do.
Sunni Man you are on "ignore."
And don't slack off either. Give him an inch and he will take a mile. Trust me....one of my ex roomies were a couple in their 20's. EARLY twenties..like...just turned. They did pretty good cleaning up after themsevles but then got slack..and I let them. Then I put the hammer down and they were all shocked but started doing their own dishes again. Then slacked off again. Hence, them not being here. I rented them a room....I am not their mother nor their housekeeper. They are to clean up after themselves after using the common areas and pay rent on time. They began to do none of the above because I was being "nice".
Do not make the same mistake.
Hope all goes well with you and the young man.
Yes, that would have been the respectful thing to do, sit down and talk to his mother. But you said she is bipolar. Who knows what kind of dysfunctional relationship they've had. Not to be insulting, but if everything you say here is true, sounds like your nephew was saying this to his mother, and who knows, perhaps with good reason:
I have not responded to this thread so far mostly because you have received decent advice (and some horrid advice) so far.
My advice, which I don't think has been mentioned up until now, and based on my experience as a parent (yes, of adults) and the family member of several people are homosexual is:
#1 - Your nephew needs to work out his relationship with his mother. I recommend you stay out of it. I know you care for them both and I suggest you simply keep reminding them of that, then step back.
#2 - Attend parent-of-gays or family-member-of-gays meetings with your nephew. There are definitely support groups for him in your state and, if he isn't already connected, you can probably do the best for him by helping him make those connections. They will have the best advice for you - and him - on how to deal with the mother ...
... because sometimes the best strategy is simply to wait.