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Not once, but 3 times in my life I have "lost all my worldly possessions" in one way or another. The first time occurred when I was only 15. The lesson that I learned was that possessions are replaceable but people are not. As long as you are with the people you love you will survive the loss of "worldly goods". So this is a lesson that I already have experienced and no, it never brought me any closer to "God" but it did teach me to value the time that I have with my nearest and dearest. They are real and so is the love we share. We don't need anything more than that to survive whatever life, or a serpent, throws at us.
Thanks for sharing that and I have had similar experiences with similar conclusions except that I also lost the people I loved. Discovering what's more important than worldly possessions is a positive thing to take from a negative experience and a sign of good mental health but what those experiences and awareness made me question is if that is what Jesus literally meant in those obvious parables about selling or giving away what you own to acquire something of greater value..
I also found that it did not bring me closer to God or give me an awareness of any riches in heaven.
I mean why would God want anyone to become deliberately destitute and what good are riches in heaven if you don't have a pot to piss in and can't help to provide for those people you love on earth?
My conclusion as described before is that the teaching conveyed is not to literally give away everything you own to be deserving of some vague promise of an afterlife, its about ridding your mind of the garbage that you have accumulated like wealth so that it can receive a greater knowledge and experience of conscious life in the here and now.
You can't add new wine to a cup that is already full of old wine without making a mess..
My belated condolences on the loss of your loved ones.
Hard to flush away experience. You are talking about perceptions and habits that have accumulated along with the experience. Certainly I have a bias against people who are inconsiderate drivers. They annoy me and and can even be the cause of road rage and accidents. Must I rid myself of this bias? Or is this on too trivial a level? What must be mentally "decluttered" in order to "receive a greater knowledge and experience of conscious life"?
Yes, you must rid yourself of this bias and no it is not trivial. There could be many reasonable explanations why some people might be driving poorly. they could be old or a new driver. They could have forgotten their glasses at home or they could be distracted by children or any other explanation that would never justify disturbing your peaceful state of mind by being annoyed or degenerating into anger. Would you want someone flipping off your grandmother, daughter or wife because bad drivers piss them off and they were in a hurry?
In some way in your mind there exists a disdain for people in general that becomes focused on bad drivers in particular. The problem is not anyone else's driving, the problem is it having a negative effect on you based on that preexisting disdain.
Could it be your boss, or your debts, or your lover, or the obstinate stupidity of some people in general at the root of the anger you feel justified on ventilating at bad drivers?
If so, wouldn't it behoove you be in better control of your feelings and more appropriately focus them at the right cause where that energy might have a positive effect or at least a better effect then becoming enraged??
Perhaps a better understanding about people in general would cause you to feel concern or empathy for them instead of anger whenever you have to deal with what you might be wrongly assuming are just stupid people in your way?
Wouldn't that be a better approach since you are bound to run into many people driving poorly every day than condemning yourself to feeling poorly every day?
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