dmp
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Mariner said:Can anyone here explain the enormous decline in the popularity of giving a child up for adoption?
Selfishness. Dr. Spock. Me-First. Instant-gratification. Liberals to some extent.
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Mariner said:Can anyone here explain the enormous decline in the popularity of giving a child up for adoption?
Mariner said:It's not easy to draw the line between fetus and "unborn baby."
Mariner said:I like Hillary Clinton's line--abortion should be safe, legal... and rare.
Mariner.
Mariner said:..." I like Hillary Clinton's line--abortion should be safe, legal... and rare.
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Hobbit said:In Georgia, you can't buy or use fireworks (until a recent loophole was discovered) or buy alcohol on Sunday. In Nevada, casino gambling is legal, as is prostitution in certain situations. In Arkansas, all forms of public gambling are illegal except for the dog track and the horse track, and no person may come anywhere near a voting facility on the day of the election unless they intend to vote. In Florida, it is always illegal to stop anywhere in an intersection, without the usual exception for those planning to turn left. Not all states use the death penalty. The age of consent and the minimum marrying age with parental consent vary, usually between 16 and 18, from state to state. The drinking age used to vary between states, though most have now switched over to 21.
Many laws vary from state to state. In fact, the states have the most law enforcement power, which is why murder cases are named things like "Miranda vs. Arizona," or "Simpson vs. California." In fact, before the Civil War, people considered the United States to be plural (i.e. "The United States are" as opposed to "The United States is"), and at one time, most states had their own state religions and currency.
In the Constitution, there's even a section that specifically states that all powers not explicitely given to the federal government by the Constitution rightfully belong to the states. However, the feds have continually attempted to stretch those powers, which is why so many people think of the fed as the end all be all, when the power really lies with the states.
liberalogic said:I'm not arguing whether or not "leaving it up to the states" is within the constitution: I'm aware that it is. I am criticizing the idea (I don't think that much should be left up to the states), I'm not debating its existence.
I just think that if we are one country, why shouldn't all (or at least most) laws be the same on "hot" issues?
Mariner said:I wish that [abortion] could become rare via a cultural shift rather than a legal one. I have no idea how such a shift might come about, but I doubt it could be forced...
Mariner said:and unfortunately, our natural interest in sex makes it the best sales tool for business of every type (why exactly do women in bikinis sprawl over cars, motorcycles, and boats on the magazine racks?).
Working with children, I've watched childhood be sexualized earlier and earlier, to the point that old-fashioned childhood, where one could care less how one looks, seems forever changed. I've met too many glamourous nine year olds recently.
In some ways, it seems contraception and the availability of abortion let a genie out of the bottle, making sex a form of recreation rather than a sacred thing... But isn't the cheapening of sex part of the pursuit of happiness in America? I think some basic values bump up against each other here.
Mariner said:Yes, I know it was Bill Clinton's line originally, but Hillary has been using it to good effect recently in her attempts to stake out a moderate position for '08.
Mariner said:As for dividing fetus from "unborn baby"--there has to be a division somewhere, Musicman.
Mariner said:Nature spontaneously aborts many fetuses--perhaps 90% off them. Many would be viable. Should we try to catch them all and implant them? After all, they're all "unborn babies."
Mariner said:Life, Liberty... yes, but there's the mother's life to consider too, and the life of an unwanted child. One of the leading theories for the large reductions in crime in the past three decades is that the future criminals were aborted. Most criminals have histories of severe abuse and neglect, which is presumably how they came to not care for others. I'm not sure life itself is such a gift, when the child in question is likely to be mistreated and/or unloved.
Mariner said:Conservatives need to do some thinking about when family values don't work, and how we can help these families.
Mariner said:Shredding the social safety net isn't helping.
Mariner.
http://blackgenocide.org/sanger.html
(This article first appeared in the January 20, 1992 edition of Citizen magazine)
How Planned Parenthood Duped America
At a March 1925 international birth control gathering in New York City, a speaker warned of the menace posed by the "black" and "yellow" peril. The man was not a Nazi or Klansman; he was Dr. S. Adolphus Knopf, a member of Margaret Sanger's American Birth Control League (ABCL), which along with other groups eventually became known as Planned Parenthood.
Sanger's other colleagues included avowed and sophisticated racists. One, Lothrop Stoddard, was a Harvard graduate and the author of The Rising Tide of Color against White Supremacy. Stoddard was something of a Nazi enthusiast who described the eugenic practices of the Third Reich as "scientific" and "humanitarian." And Dr. Harry Laughlin, another Sanger associate and board member for her group, spoke of purifying America's human "breeding stock" and purging America's "bad strains." These "strains" included the "shiftless, ignorant, and worthless class of antisocial whites of the South."
Not to be outdone by her followers, Margaret Sanger spoke of sterilizing those she designated as "unfit," a plan she said would be the "salvation of American civilization.: And she also spike of those who were "irresponsible and reckless," among whom she included those " whose religious scruples prevent their exercising control over their numbers." She further contended that "there is no doubt in the minds of all thinking people that the procreation of this group should be stopped." That many Americans of African origin constituted a segment of Sanger considered "unfit" cannot be easily refuted.
While Planned Parenthood's current apologists try to place some distance between the eugenics and birth control movements, history definitively says otherwise. The eugenic theme figured prominently in the Birth Control Review, which Sanger founded in 1917. She published such articles as "Some Moral Aspects of Eugenics" (June 1920), "The Eugenic Conscience" (February 1921), "The purpose of Eugenics" (December 1924), "Birth Control and Positive Eugenics" (July 1925), "Birth Control: The True Eugenics" (August 1928), and many others.
Mariner said:I honestly don't think churches can or should do it alone--this marginalizes people who hate the church for whatever reason (Christian or not), and it leaves holes in the safety net.
Mariner.
Mariner said:Can anyone here explain the enormous decline in the popularity of giving a child up for adoption?
dmp said:Selfishness. Dr. Spock. Me-First. Instant-gratification. Liberals to some extent.
Mariner said:approve of abortion used as birth control, yet I feel that it must be left to an individual woman's conscience--because it is a highly invasive thing to force someone to endure a pregnancy, and it would be very difficult--impossible really--to force someone to take proper care of that pregnancy (doctors appointments, prenatal vitamins, avoiding mercury, stopping drinking, stopping smoking, stopping drugs). Spend a little time with children who had Fetal Alcohol Syndrome, and you'll see what I mean.
I'm all in favor of societal change that increases peer and social pressure to bear children and give them up for adoption.
The main point I'm trying to make is that prolife can't just mean antiabortion. It ought to mean pro-quality-life. Which means vastly expanded help for those many mothers who have used abortion as a way to avoid having a family they cannot take care of. I never said I approved of this (i.e. am a eugenicist). I said that we should take these social realities into account when discussing the subject.
Other social realiities count too: how about a young woman who will be beaten or punished if her parents find out she has been having sex? Abusive families are incredibly common. We've had lots of time before Roe v. Wade when abortion was illegal--the reality was that thousands of women died. Being pregnant at the wrong time was such a dire predicament it was worth risking death by hemorrhage or infection. There are Catholic countries in South America thinking about making abortion legal--even though their entire populace is theoretically pro-life--for this exact reason.
Mariner.
Kagom said:Alright, I have to say that I am pro-life. I think abortion is disgusting and very unfair to life.
But I have to ask all you other pro-lifers a question that's been bugging me: Why do you want to get rid of institutionalized abortion?
It's simple.. a culture that kills and sanctions killing it's most precious and helpless is barbaric and uncivilized, and nowhere in our contsitution does it stipulate it's okay to do so.