So you’re implying the reason I don’t find God is either because I haven’t looked hard enough or because I refuse to accept Him without question. But I’m 45, I’ve studied history, I’ve listened to arguments across religions, and I’m here giving you a chance to convince me.
Try the perspective I am not implying anything, especially not when it comes to you. What I have been saying is that the reason I found God was the teaching, "Seek and you shall find." I also have a habit of pointing to another teaching, "Blessed are those who believe without seeing...." Seeing comes with its own weight.
Also, I have no desire to convince you. We are simply having a conversation where two perspectives are being presented, so I pass on the chance to convince you.
As far as spending a lot of time listening to arguments across religions...for me that would be like listening to arguments about why I should dig up my herbs and plant roses. I'd rather learn more about herbs.
Why should anyone accept something without question? That’s dangerous advice. If I say to you sniff this powder, would you do it because I said so. I certainly hope not.
Are your questions pertinent or are they argumentative? For example when I teach math the question is always, "Why do I have to do math! My parents tell me they don't use much math besides arithmetic in their adult lives." Sure I could go through all the benefits of math which would be ignored if they were even listened to. So I use one of two approaches: You are in middle school. Do you want to go to high school? The answer is always yes, so I point out to go on to high school they need to learn middle school math. The other tact I take (especially with athletes), "Do you like to run sprints or long distances?" They admit they don't particularly like that, but understands it builds the muscle so they perform better in their chosen sport. I point out that math gives the brain a similar workout.
My point is are your questions formed to forge a path (excuse/reason) to wiggle out of belief or seeking God, or are your questions in search of information you do not yet have?
So tell me, what’s the threshold? When do you think someone has searched ‘enough’? And how do you measure that without moving the goalposts?
That depends on how vital this is to you, personally. As for me, I haven't a lot of patience, get distracted easily, and enjoy wild goose chases. So it took a decade or more. Later, even after that, I spent four years praying for something I knew was in line with what God would want to give me, yet nothing seemed to happen. When it did, I could look back in hindsight and pinpoint exactly where God's fingers had touched my life to bring about the result for which I had been searching.