- Feb 13, 2013
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- Wandering Nomad
Make sure your bros are there as back up if he is threatening you with a 45. And yes...you may have to defend yourself. This guy is dangerous now. Watch yourself.Sorry, Gracie, this is my home and I will not move to suit him. My brothers would more than gladly come back and beat him senseless. I've mentioned moving the goats to a friends place. She is elderly and could use the help. Of course, if I did move, even temporarily, he would "win". He loves "winning". I'm gathering information now and my brother has offered to finance the lawyer. I think I am waiting until after surgery when I will have plenty of time and my brother on site to help out with that project, as well. This ass has to go. I cannot go much longer with the abuse. Any time he doesn't like anything he pulls the passive (progressively) aggressive shit. Winning only encourages him so I am trying to limit the "win" for him until I have all the ducks in a row and can slam-dunk his heinie.Damn, GW!!!!
I agree with the person who said your life is worth more than property. Find a place he won't find you. Of course he knows where you work, but not where you plan to live. Rent it or buy it or whatever. Quietly and in the right time where he isn't, move the critters to the new place and what belongings you want to keep. Get help to do it. Maybe your bros will come back to assist? Once you get settled in another place...TELL NOBODY. Maybe your boss, but nobody else. Then commence to battle it out on who owns what, etc. At least you will be safe, and so will your critters.
Wish I could help but Im pretty much worthless lately. I miss Abby so very much. All I do is cry for her. I thought I was done being so attached to animals when Karma died. Guess not. Im so damn lonely, and my pets gave me such comfort since I really don't have family. MrG..well...nothing affects him much, and I refuse to let him see me so down. So I stay buried in my room when not browsing the net. Staying pretty quiet and just reading. Im so sorry you are experiencing this crap with your partner..or rather...ex partner. I hope it gets resolved soon. Maybe youll luck out and he will stroke out again. That sounds really bad, but Id rather that happen than him harming you in one of his tantrums.