Just wandering by to say hello.
So. Hello.
Gracie!!!! Hello! Where are you? Did you move?
I am living in...cough...Paradise Ca. Google it. Very pretty...VERY HOT. It is 101 today and at "home" it is 61. Which is why I miss my beach. But..that life is over. Time to get over it, I tell myself. Sometimes it works, sometimes not.
Been in a deep dark hole but a very kind friend tossed me a rope ladder. I am about 1/4th of the way up. Gonna take awhile to get back to where I used to be.
Inlaws are on their way to Pearce Az tomorrow for a permanent move. They wanted us to come with. I said not only hell no, but HAYELL no. However, I learned recently that one should never say never. For now...we are surviving ok. Can't beat the medical and dental offered here..which is why Northern Calif is better than central calif.....minus the awful weather. I don't know how people survive here. Summers are horrid. I am eager for fall..and yes....winter.
So the apartment fell through? Or you decided to stay in Paradise? Are you still with the hoarder or did you move in with the lady with the dogs?
Oh I just now saw your other post re the apartment. But am hoping your circumstances in Paradise have improved.
We have the back of the house now. MrG has the original room, and I moved in to the one next to it that Housemate was using as his "office"..meaning..its full of crap. That crap is now where my bed used to be in MrGs room and I don't have a closet because its full of his moms clothes he refuses to donate to Salvation Army because he claims its worth month. Um, nobody wants old polyester pants, sweaters that fall apart if you touch them because they are so old, and old vintage shoes, hats, gloves that all stink something fierce. I sprayed the hell out of the closet with febreeze, which helped a bit, then I covered the closet doors with a wall hanging. Its cramped, but mine alone.
The rest of the house smells awful but there is nothing I can do about it because he refuses to acknowledge his house smells like a garbage can. MrG and I stay in our rooms until we have to leave them..like to cook in his smelly crowded dirty kitchen I have to scour every time I cook due to fear of bacteria, and the laundry room that stinks of mildew so we have to hold our breath when we go in there so we don't inhale mold spores.
Tomorrow I plan to call around and see what the waiting list is like up here and see if we can find our own little cottage or apartment. In essence, we are stuck here..unless we want to go back to living in our cars which we do not want to do. At least our rooms smell good, and I keep them clean. The rest of the house is like living at the local garbage dump and I should buy hazmat suits for us but then Housemate may get offended and kick us out. So...we stay in our rooms as often as possible. Or, MrG stays in his room and I am outside until the heat drives me in. Right now, its about 90 degrees out there and in the rest of the house it is about the same. In our rooms, it is about 75-80 due to our air conditioner we bought for the window in MrGs room that has to work double hard to cool both rooms.
The lady with the dogs wanted us to move in, but she is too flakey. I don't trust her decisions because she moves people in and 2 weeks later complains to me about them and then kicks them out. I don't want that happening to us, so we declined her numerous offers. I wouldn't mind too terribly much if we had to stay in this area for another couple of years...I just don't want to live in this nasty house that long, so I need to get my ass in gear and start the hunt again for our own place here until "home" calls in a few years that a unit is ready.