I really don't care. I used to work with a man who had the same issues. His port wine stain covered half his face. A nicer guy you would ever want to meet. Always had a smile. He had a wife and six kids. Anathema has a wife. He's not doing too badly.
Sounds like his is about a quarter to a third the size of mine, which covers the entire front hemisphere of my skull.
You’re right, I do well enough for myself and my family. Im not asking for anyone’s pity or charity. I’m fortunate, as was your coworker, compared to many with this type of affliction. That doesn’t mean I (and likely he) haven’t gone through things thst no child or young person should ever have to deal with. Obviously your former coworker deals with it differently than I do. Different strokes for different folks, I guess.