Woodznutz
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I did.An entire state government to beat. Great.
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I did.An entire state government to beat. Great.
Part of the vows includes intimacy. Ask her what the problem is. If she doesn’t want to talk, she may be having an affair herself.
Why did you marry her and why did she marry you? Why would a woman marry a man and then completely ignore him?
Money
I have not chosen to have an affair mainly because my wife and i have sex just about every night. I guess if you call an adult movie, call girl or strip club an affair. Actually she is very needy and wants too much attention, but that is a good thing. We do everything together, go to vacations on weekends, movies. Overall I been very loyal to her and have had no needs to find another woman.Why do people choose not to have affairs?
I am strongly considering it but it just seems so much like a bad idea. I will just continue being ignored by my wife and feeling pure misery all hours of my life. Eventually, I will die. Staying married and faithful until the end is definitely the best financial decision. Does anybody have any experience with this with the benefit of hindsight? Is it healthy to be in pure misery 100% of the time all day, all week, all month, all year, and for decades on end for the sake of saving your marriage is it better to find someone that thinks you are awesome and views you as a person?
Does anybody know what to do about a wife that doesn't even know that you exist? There are just so many issues to solve at once.
WARNING: I will ignore all cop-out answers. Don't cop out.
I have not chosen to have an affair mainly because my wife and i have sex just about every night. I guess if you call an adult movie, call girl or strip club an affair. Actually she is very needy and wants too much attention, but that is a good thing. We do everything together, go to vacations on weekends, movies. Overall I been very loyal to her and have had no needs to find another woman.
In your situation it sounds like a bad marriage. in your situation I would move on with a divorce and find someone else. I have been through two divorces myself. My third wife is the best wife I have had thus so far.
Does anybody know what to do about a wife that doesn't even know that you exist?
Divorce her.
On what grounds? Adultery? Abuse? Financial misconduct? Ignoring is not grounds for divorce in most traditions.
You were obligated to make personal sacrifices to raise your children.
You did that.
They don't need married parents anymore. They still need a mother and father, but they don't need the two of you to be together anymore.
I was in misery for 13 years in a loveless marriage. I would do it again. And again. And again so I would be there fully to raise my children. And they benefitted from that sacrifice immensely.
But once that responsibility was done... I got out.
And brother, I cannot put into words how happier I am, and how much healthier I am as a person. Physically and mentally. Especially mentally. Being in a bad marriage takes a toll on you. It beats the shit out of you.
I got out and I remarried 7 years ago. My God how happier I am now.
You can be too.
how?How do you get that stuff?
Eventually, but definitely not at first because of the money I made.Is your ex happy too?
It's not that simple. There's other considerations like children and property.You made a vow to be faithful. Either live up to that or divorce her.
100%It's not that simple. There's other considerations like children and property.
Eh .. you’re about to pop in my estimation. What you need is a plan if’n you want to end up with sweet lovin and a sweaty mess real soon.Why do people choose not to have affairs?
I am strongly considering it but it just seems so much like a bad idea. I will just continue being ignored by my wife and feeling pure misery all hours of my life. Eventually, I will die. Staying married and faithful until the end is definitely the best financial decision. Does anybody have any experience with this with the benefit of hindsight? Is it healthy to be in pure misery 100% of the time all day, all week, all month, all year, and for decades on end for the sake of saving your marriage is it better to find someone that thinks you are awesome and views you as a person?
Does anybody know what to do about a wife that doesn't even know that you exist? There are just so many issues to solve at once.
WARNING: I will ignore all cop-out answers. Don't cop out.
It's not that simple. There's other considerations like children and property.