Happily I was raised to believe that a lack of knowledge does not aid understanding. What I find sad is your pride in your lack of knowledge and baseless fears.
What seems to you like pride is merely a rebuttal. The OP was picking a fight, as he is wont to do, when he asked 'does this disturb you'. I answered as honestly as possible. It does disturb me. Why women would feel it necessary to pack heat in their kitchen over coffee and conversation.
I am curious....do you think that home invasions actually happen? Do you think that women are attacked in their homes? Do you think that the women who are attacked, and raped and murdered in their homes...knew that they were going to be attacked and raped when they woke up that day?
And here...
Is it better that they be raped and murdered, then that they use a gun to stop the rape and the murder?
I don't believe that home invasions are imminent nor common. Like house fires, they do exist. I also believe that being motivated by improbable fear also creates an atmosphere of undue paranoia. Add a firearm and tragic incidents can occur where a misunderstanding spins out of control.
Fear is a strong motivation for gun lovers. I chose to live in awareness, but not fear.
They do happen though...right? Can you tell us exactly where and when they are going to happen?
So far, the only ones motivated by fear are you and the other anti-gunners on this thread......you have a deep seated fear of normal people carrying guns....
Fear is a strong emotion....putting a gun on your hip for gun owners is just about the same as clipping on a cell phone. I personally doubt I will be a victim of a violent crime, living where I do...but I understand that it happens...and criminals target people where they think they can get away with their crimes......
Do you think Dr. Petit, the Tates, the Labianca's thought that the day they were brutally murdered was the day they would be brutally murdered? And these families didn't live in democrat city hell holes......and yet...their homes were invaded by monsters.....
Add a firearm and tragic incidents can occur where a misunderstanding spins out of control.
this notion, that normal, law abiding people will commit murder simply because they have a gun and get into an argument is not backed up by facts, reality or statistics.....as pointed out, those who commit actual murder, even from arguments....90% of the time they have long histories of crime and violence, going back to their teen years and earlier, and more than likely cannot buy, own or carry the gun they use......
You rely on people being "normal" a lot. In my experience, normality ain't all it's cracked up to be.
James Madison said, "If men were angels, there would be no need for government."
The other qualifier you often cite is the "law abiding citizen". Yet another mask of normality. It could be argued that a citizen is a law abiding citizen, right up to the point he brandished a firearm during an argument.
Some see fists and baseball bats and knives as deadly weapons, as deadly as a handgun. But consider the designed uses for baseball bats and knives and fists. Then consider the designed purpose of a gun. Can this comparison then be taken seriously?
Of course there will be murders and murderers. Abel down through today bears this out. But I ask, how many of your personal acquaintances have been victims of home invasion? Then think of how many of your personal acquaintances have been the unfortunate victims of a house fire. I know of a few who have suffered fire, and one of my nieces died in a fire. But no one in my experience has been the victim of violent crime, of a home invasion, of a murder by any means.
That's my experience and I know that it only serves as anecdotal evidence. But as I said at the start, my home never had guns, nor did anyone celebrate guns. Are we woefully unprepared for violent crime? Without the presence of that threat and without the constant dread it may befall us, I firmly believe that your level of preparedness would cause us more hazard than the abstract fear itself.