Is it wrong to divorce a spouse who becomes ill?

[The Duke]

For better or worse.

In sickness and in health.

Til death do you part.

 

[The Duke]

Considering a 'spouse' is someone who shares a mutual commitment with you, the decision to get a divorce in the face of an illness in one party, is a private decision between the 'husband' and 'spouse.'

What it is is a piece of shit move.

 

[Man of Ethics]

What it is is a piece of shit move.

It depends.

Many men would tolerate an abusive partner if she has high libido. I do not blame abuse victims for staying. I do not blame abuse victims for leaving.


Not taking care of your abuser when she falls sick is not wrong.

 

[The Duke]

It depends.

Many men would tolerate an abusive partner if she has high libido. I do not blame abuse victims for staying. I do not blame abuse victims for leaving.


Not taking care of your abuser when she falls sick is not wrong.

Apparently I am not from the warped world you are.

You are trying to justify the unjustifiable. Ergo you are a turd. A bleached out dog turd.

 

[Man of Ethics]

Apparently I am not from the warped world you are.

You are trying to justify the unjustifiable.

1) No need to insult me.

2) I did not play any part in lobbying for no fault divorce.

3) Most people in Modern American Society agree with you 100%. Only 7% people here agree with me.

I understand that on this issue, my view is in a small minority. But does this make my view warped?

 

[bigrebnc1775]

Gore did the same.

John Edwards remember him?

 

[Man of Ethics]

Men are horrible people. Progressive women agree that we are all rapists.

Almost 50,000 likes so far. Why would a sick Progressive woman need care from such a horrible creatures as men? Why would they desire the company of oppressors?


About 21% of men and 3% of women abandon their spouses in sickness. Here. I guess among Progressives the percentages are much higher.

 

[Centaur]

Please share your thoughts.

No, if the couple are no longer able or willing to participate in sex, then that's legitimate grounds for ending a marriage - whether you quote the Bible or anything else. (In the Bible, for example, it was clearly stated that marital partners had to be sexually available to one another - or else the purpose of marriage would be defeated to begin with).

Likewise, not all weddings have "vows" (nor need they), and adding in silly vows which are impossible or impractical to keep is rather foolish and merely symbolic - it'd be better just to own up to a bad decision and eschew such nonsensical (and unbiblical) vows rather than blindly sticking to a foolish decision which never should've been made to begin with.

 

[Centaur]

Men are horrible people. Progressive women agree that we are all rapists.

Almost 50,000 likes so far. Why would a sick Progressive woman need care from such a horrible creatures as men? Why would they desire the company of oppressors?


About 21% of men and 3% of women abandon their spouses in sickness. Here. I guess among Progressives the percentages are much higher.

Are you an incel? This post sounded very incel.

 

[Man of Ethics]

Are you an incel? This post sounded very incel.

1) I believe Misandry is a huge problem in Modern Society. Some people believe that my harsh criticism of Misandrists makes me a Misogynist. Maybe there is some truth to it.

2) Both Misogyny and Misandry are wrong. I am not proud of the fact that some of my views come across as Misogynist. Nevertheless, in Western World 2022, Misandry is very common, while Misogyny is very rare.

3) I do not subscribe to InCel ideology as it is.

 

[Centaur]

Nevertheless, in Western World 2022, Misandry is very common, while Misogyny is very rare.

Okay, if you say so. Though honestly, I'd say it all depends on where you look.

 

[Man of Ethics]

Okay, if you say so. Though honestly, I'd say it all depends on where you look.

Misandry is extremely common on Mainstream Media and Social Media. It is claimed that all men are rapists and oppressors. Men are dehumanized and compared to lice and bacteria. Anyone who objects to these messages is subject to relentless personal attacks.


Misandry is the only acceptable form of Bigotry in Modern Western World. Racism is still a very significant problem, but at least overt Racism is not accepted and overt Racists suffer severe consequences. Overt Racism and anti-Semitism were acceptable in the previous Centuries.


Misandrist rhetoric leads to escalating discrimination against men. Men accused of Sexual Misconduct are presumed guilty. Men in relationships in Progressive heterosexual couples are subject to relentless mental abuse. Male victims of Domestic Violence are more likely to be arrested then helped. Male get 61% more time for the same offense.


Unfortunately, any bigotry is bound to grow unless it is actively challenged. Sadly, neither Liberals nor Conservatives are willing to challenge Misandry.

 

[Man of Ethics]

One more of hundreds of thousands of examples of Progressive women laughing at men's suffering and receiving hundreds of likes:

Sadly, many Progressive women are extremely toxic and abusive and thus unlovable. Nevertheless, they can easily find a man to cohabit with them.

A relationship not based on love is unlikely to survive hardship.

 

[skye]

I've already answered, some weeks ago .....but 'll answer again....

YES it's wrong.

 

[Man of Ethics]

I've already answered, some weeks ago .....but 'll answer again....

YES it's wrong.

Everyone has his/her Ethics. We can disagree.

Nevertheless, such things as divorce and infidelity are not illegal. Are they wrong?

 

[skye]

Everyone has his/her Ethics. We can disagree.

Nevertheless, such things as divorce and infidelity are not illegal. Are they wrong?

I'm not talking about divorce or infidelity etc.....etc.....

I am saying I would never leave a spouse or parter if he is ill.

That's all I am saying.

 

[Man of Ethics]

I apologize if my opinion offends all women including Conservative Women, but after seeing more Misandry from MSM and Social Media I have to vent.


Progressives who hate men and view men as oppressors deserve to be left alone in sickness. Fortunately, I have a lot of statistical data indicating that the men they are keeping will do exactly that. As for Progressive men, I hope you have courage to leave your ``partners" when they are no longer useful.

 

[Man of Ethics]

Progressive women view men as oppressors and have extreme hatred of men

I understand that most Progressive men are thirsty enough to tolerate any kind of demonization and abuse. I only hope that Progressive men have strength and courage to leave their abusers when their abusers have nothing to offer.

 

[justaschmuck9]

The Bible states it's only OK for having an unfaithful spouse.

wrong.

The Catholic Church, which produced the Bible (chose which Books to add and which not in the 4th century) says that infidelity is NOT a reason for divorce/remarriage. In the Catholic Church you can get divorced but if it is a valid marriage or appears to be, the parties cannot remarry since marriage is for life.

The only way a person can divorce and remarry is if the marriage was not valid in the first place.. and there are myriad reasons why that could be the case.. but infidelity alone is not one.

 

[pknopp]

wrong.

The Catholic Church, which produced the Bible

If you say so.