No one is advocating abusing the system. But, your claim of irresponsibility as far as how many children are in a family pre-supposes those children were conceived after the layoff. That's not always the case, is it?
Lots of families work very hard and try their damnedest to keep their heads above water. When the circumstances outside their control dictate help is needed, it is certainly the right thing to do in assuring such help happens. All the partisan shouting in the world never put a paycheck in a family's account or a meal on the table.
But it can rub salt in the wounds, can't it? Maybe that's what brings the most joy to Conservatives. Smug condescension.
Just a word of advice....
Coupling all conservatives in the same grouping is no different than comparing your situation with that of some guy that found it best to party all night and collect welfare during the day.
There are as many selfish "non conservatives" as there are selfish conservatives....
This is not a conservative vs liberal issue.
This is a selfish vs selfless issue....and I suggest you start seeing it that way.
Biden gave 3K to charity last year....I personally gave over 5% of my income. I am a conservative, Biden is a liberal.
I am not a politician and I worked the kitchen on Thanksgiving........did Biden? Pelosi?
Sorry....you are making a grave error.