Can the love of God be underestimated? He redeemed all the world, so how likely is it he wants to eschew millions rather than gather the lost to himself? Those who embrace Jesus as the Son of God--the Word of God--receive in this life the blessings and grace on the most difficult part of our journey. I wonder how many--upon entering heaven--muse, "My life could have been so much easier, so much better had I followed Jesus--or followed him more closely." God loves us.
To me the love of God is tied in a knot to obedience and consequences. It is tied into that knot because
God has tied our love to him to obedience and consequences.
Jesus came in doing the exact same thing saying...
If ye keep my commandments, ye shall abide in my love; even as I have kept my Father's commandments, and abide in his love. -John 15:10
Love is the essence of 2 Thessalonians 2:10-12 as well. God says they would not receive the love of the truth that they might be saved. Then God states their judgment in verses 11 and 12. With God our love back to him is based on obedience and consequences. God is not eschewing anyone. God gave everyone the chance to believe, to get saved, to accept Jesus, etc...
as well as each one's appointed time to do so. The people "eschewed" God and His love of the truth. God follows that up with their consequences.
10 And with all deceivableness of unrighteousness
in them that perish; because
they received not the love of the truth, that they might be saved.
11 And for this cause God shall send them strong delusion, that they should believe a lie:
12 That they all might be damned
who believed not the truth, but had pleasure in unrighteousness.
People are quick to say, "God loves us"
but God says, I love them that love me... We show forth our love to God through our obedience to God. From Abraham, to all of the prophets, to Mary the mother of Jesus, to the disciples, etc... they all had to show forth their love to God by obeying God.
Proverbs 8:17 I love them that love me; and those that seek me early shall find me.