So, essentially your advice to transgender people who get bullied is, "don't be yourself".
Yeah, your advice to everyone is "conform, be who we demand you are, then we won't bully the crap out of you".
No, that is not "essentially" my advice.
Is your advice to trans kids to avoid being bullied, or to bring it on themselves?
It's like my MAGA hat. I wear it when I need a hat, which is often being a bald man living in Texas. But I don't wear it to work. Sure, I have that free speech right to wear a MAGA hat, especially on "wear a crazy hat" days that we have in school. Why can't I be myself?
Even in Texas, there will be a percent of co-workers who will think that a MAGA hat means that I'm a horrible person. If I wear it and it triggers them, which it will, I won't be able to work with them and my work life will be disrupted. That's bad for the kids, when there is strife over a non-school issue. That is something Democrats lose sight of in their wokeness.
Just like another teacher who wears her "Beto" t-shirt* on days when we celebrate an upcoming election, and carries a large plastic "Beto" keychain all the time. Nobody bullies her, because although conservatives hate Beto, but we don't harangue or co-workers with our politics at work. Democrats do bully people at work about politics. It's not right, but I'm not going to change it, so why make it an issue?
*I don't know if non-Texans know about "Beto." His name is Robert O'Rourke, Dem loser of multiple elections. He's Irish as a leprechaun, but he calls himself "Beto" so that stupid Democrats will think that he's Hispanic.