You had/have no fun raising a family? No fun in learning, in celebrating anniversaries and rituals? Gardening, storytelling, reading, nature walks, caring for pets, visiting family brought you no fun and therefore no joy? Plays, movies, dance, sports, music recitals, and picnics are simply chores?
You begrudge and judge members of my family whose intake of alcohol doesn't even amount to six small glasses of wine in a year--if that? Is it the LDS position that Jesus drank only grape juice, and that the Bible verse accusing him of being a drunkard is ignored? I can guarantee you Jesus drank more in a year than most Catholics partake today. While I am certain there must be some Catholics who drink to excess, I have never met up with a single one.