Being a good neighbor makes you safer than being a dick with a gun.
The last 4 words of your post are very revealing..in a couple of ways.
When I was on the job in Texas I was armed on-duty and at home. Didn't make me think I was safer though. Just made me think of the weapon every time something went bump in the night instead of "just a bump in the night." When you have a weapon handy it occupies every hypothetical that arrises instead of simply shrugging it off. That's no way to live.
You make a lot of generalizations about how people ought to live, and what their mindsets should be regarding potential for violence in their own personal situations.
You should stick to your humorous perv posts.
People who spend a great amount of time imagining the worst will very likely find it someday. But statiscally it's unlikely. But when you're armed you tend to look for occasions to use it, or all that preparation isn't justified.
Bad things happen to good people.
Statisically, odds are my house won't burn down, but I still have homeowners insurance.
Statistically, it's unlikely I'll die this year, but I'll pay my life insurance premium just the same.
And, statistically speaking, the chances I'll get a flat today are extremely low, but I won't be removing my spare tire from the back of the pickup.
Like insurance and spare tires...I'd rather have a gun and not need it, than need it and not have it.