Relationship Discussions Thread

[Bonnie]

She's not 'basing' a relationship on sex...she's saying something like:

"the only difference between a lover and a friend is 'passion'. If couples don't have passion, they may as well simply be roommates."

Sex and or intimacy is vital to a marriage relationship.

Absolutely vital!! The difference seems to be that couples who make sure their relationship is good outside the bedroom, will have a great steamy realtionship in the bedroom. Both kind of feed off each other.

 

[Joz]

Where 'none' exists, there's nothing to rob. I think it's better than living days on end w/o any sort of 'release'...I know plenty of guys who have gone months without...their wives - one wife in particular - who has simply said she no longer wants or will allow for sex with him. He's not big on divorce; and he can't see moving to POVERTY this state's child-support Nazis invoke...so he lives with her...miserable...and praying for change.

He's a better man than I.

I know a man whose first wife died. This woman he now has, has not had sex with him for 10 years. She has no desire to go to the doctor or therapy or any other solution; she doesn't want to have sex with Everett. She tells him to go into the bathroom with a magazine. I find her to be a hateful woman.
He says he out lived the first wife, he'll out live this one. He has no intentions of letting her take any of his hard earned money/pension. So he lives in misery. Seems to now cry "victim" because of the situation. But it's his choice.

The shame is that women grab a man by his b*lls and the courts squeeze. I believe a man has a responsibility to his children...no matter how much he hates their mother. There are plenty of "dead-beat dads", really scummy men. But that doesn't make the woman always right, either. When does the man get a break?

 

[dmp]

I know a man whose first wife died. This woman he now has, has not had sex with him for 10 years. She has no desire to go to the doctor or therapy or any other solution; she doesn't want to have sex with Everett. She tells him to go into the bathroom with a magazine. I find her to be a hateful woman.
He says he out lived the first wife, he'll out live this one. He has no intentions of letting her take any of his hard earned money/pension. So he lives in misery. Seems to now cry "victim" because of the situation. But it's his choice.

The shame is that women grab a man by his b*lls and the courts squeeze. I believe a man has a responsibility to his children...no matter how much he hates their mother. There are plenty of "dead-beat dads", really scummy men. But that doesn't make the woman always right, either. When does the man get a break?

I do suppose we could have a lengthy thread about 'child support = riches for mom, poverty for dad" in some cases...sorry to steer your thread that way..

re: the Widdower...

Yeah - honestly? if my kids were grown, or we had never had kids, I doubt my wife would be my wife today. But Everett is to be applauded...for 'better or WORSE' right?

 

[Joz]

Absolutely vital!! The difference seems to be that couples who make sure their relationship is good outside the bedroom, will have a great steamy realtionship in the bedroom. Both kind of feed off each other.

I still don't know why this is so hard to understand. The engery bounces back and forth. Sometimes the scales tip one way more than the other, but needs of all sorts are constantly being met. The theory is very simple. Accomplishing it is a great task.

 

[Joz]

I do suppose we could have a lengthy thread about 'child support = riches for mom, poverty for dad" in some cases...sorry to steer your thread that way..

Hey, start your own thread.

Yeah - honestly? if my kids were grown, or we had never had kids, I doubt my wife would be my wife today. But Everett is to be applauded...for 'better or WORSE' right?

For better or for worse? I would agree if this woman had a chronic illness, sick from the treatment, that when she wan't in bed she was hanging her head in a toilet. This is not the case. She doesn't have the slightest concern for Everett. She has broken the marriage covenant many years ago.

 

[Joz]

A boy has a penis and a girl has a vagina!

Gee, I don't know how we made it this far into the thread without you.

 

[Trinity]

A boy has a penis and a girl has a vagina!

 

[Shattered]

A boy has a penis and a girl has a vagina!

Reeeeeeaaaaaaallllllllllyyyyy.. That's outstanding.. Now, do you know where babies come from?

 

[Mr. P]

Reeeeeeaaaaaaallllllllllyyyyy.. That's outstanding.. Now, do you know where babies come from?

The Stork of course..

 

[dmp]

o re: Women who 'refuse sex' to their husbands...

I think it can be because women like to 'brag' about not having sex w/ their mates. There's a sense of power and control there. Today, especially women, are taught to not be 'dependant' and a man who is 'dependant' on a woman has 'issues'. I say marriage is ALL about co-dependancy to a point. I have to depend on my wife for keeping the house running; she depends on me to keep 'employed'. I depend on her for love and affection. She depends on me for spiritual support/guidance, etc...

 

[dmp]

Now, do you know where babies come from?

www.ebayKids.com ?

 

[Trinity]

and--------------------??????? lets get to the juicy stuff, MOM. :rotflmao:

You'll have to wait for the juicy stuff, Mom4 is still sitting on the soccer fields!

 

[Joz]

o re: Women who 'refuse sex' to their husbands...

I think it can be because women like to 'brag' about not having sex w/ their mates. There's a sense of power and control there. Today, especially women, are taught to not be 'dependant' and a man who is 'dependant' on a woman has 'issues'. I say marriage is ALL about co-dependancy to a point. I have to depend on my wife for keeping the house running; she depends on me to keep 'employed'. I depend on her for love and affection. She depends on me for spiritual support/guidance, etc...

 

[Joz]

www.ebayKids.com ?

This didn't take me where I think you intended.
(I guess that's appropriate in this thread. huh?)

 

[dmp]

This didn't take me where I think you intended.
(I guess that's appropriate in this thread. huh?)

shouldnt take you anywhere...I made it up! lol..didnt check it though.. Hope it's not porn.

 

[Shattered]

Heh.. Guess eBay's looking to expand, huh..

 

[Joz]

shouldnt take you anywhere...I made it up! lol..didnt check it though.. Hope it's not porn.

No, it wasn't porn. But you ought to check out stuff before you link ME to it. I'm fragile. It just said that the domain was reserved.

 

[Nienna]

and--------------------??????? lets get to the juicy stuff, MOM. :rotflmao:

The juicy stuff is private! :

 

[Said1]

o re: Women who 'refuse sex' to their husbands...

I think it can be because women like to 'brag' about not having sex w/ their mates.

I think that's very true of some women, (not me of course!) bizzare really??

 

[Trinity]

The juicy stuff is private! :

Why is the embarrased smilie not surprising although I was expecting to see something more like this......................