Do you want to calculate the actual probability on this? We can do it together, it's easy.
First we'll need to answer two questions:
1. Are men and women equally capable and equally trained?
2. Is there any relationship between one crash and the next?
If we have the fraction of women pilots and the total number of pilots (we'll just ignore the transgenders lol), and the total number of flights and crashes, we can compare results from several different models, using several different statistical methods. If we know the date of each crash we can even predict the date of the next one.
To begin with I propose this model:
There is a parameter r, call it the rate of crashes. We would like to do two things in order: first, assume that r is the same for men and women, and estimate it based on the data. Then, assume that r is the rate for men only, and r' is the rate for women only, and estimate them both based on the data. Finally, look at the confidence intervals and see if the second model is any better than the first.