SweetSue92
Diamond Member
Short version ... If your world view is consumed by racism ... That's all you are ever going to find ...
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Short version. You are white and have no clue.
If you think me being white makes a difference ...
You have just proven what I stated was correct ...
Whether or not you have a clue what either of us is talking about ...
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If you think being white doesn't make a difference, yo suffer from psychosis. No one is consumed by racism. But this is the fake news whites like you must tell yourselves because the truth you can't or don't want to handle.
I think it makes a difference. I do.
But I really think we just don't listen to each other enough. White people, we don't listen to black people tell us about their experience. And black people, they often don't listen to us tell them that, nope, we really don't feel that way either.
We bring barrels full of assumptions and junk into every encounter. We don't listen.
My point was as long as a bunch of people want to talk about race and racism ...
They are going to have a problem with who thinks who is listening.
The difference comes in what you do ... Not what you say.
Get to doing things the way they should be done ...
And leave the people that want to wallow in the if's, could's, and should's to the misery they insist on surrounding themselves with.
Racism exists ... Play with it, pander to it, make it a part of your life, if you feel the need.
Just don't bitch about it if that is what you choose to do.
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Oh I agree. Whatever you make the center of your life--for good or ill--that will be it. You will find it then wherever you go. We do make a lot of our own reality. There is the way people react to us, and the people that we are. I really think in 2018, in America, almost all people are about the people we are more than race, etc. But if you don't believe that, you won't experience it. You'll never know.