I have a problem with Catholicism and I don't have a problem with it...if that makes any sense. I do not like the rules, praying to saints, Mary or anything other than Christ. I believe the Catholic Church has perverted the word for power over people; but, I realize there are many devout Catholics that are above the nonsense. I do believe, however, the rash of child molesting preachers is spiritual in itself (which is a whole other topic). I can be harsh on Catholicism, and I don't consider it to be Christianity...I think Catholicism is the basis for a lot of backlash to Christianity.
1. What rule(s) don't you like? For example, there is no rule that one must pray to Mary or any Saint (or saint). It is common practice to call on Mary and the Saints to join us in community prayers. Is this what you mean? Not a rule, but the practice?
2. Where (specifically) do you see the Church having power over people?
3. Before teaching I was a journalist. I always encourage people to research this topic. First, there should have been zilch sexual abuse in the Catholic Church. None. In the Church itself there was a lesser percentage of child abuse than any other population--something I will get to in a moment. Again, there should not have been "less", there should have been none.
4. The Church was treating known cases according to psychiatric practices of the time. (Send offender to training, reassign.) Priests at the time were saying, "This is not working." Later, of course, the psychiatric community agreed, and said pedophilia isn't something that can be cured with training and moving people on.
5. While I am glad the news media, (for their own purposes) chose priests to make an example of, they were an absolute failure at revealing the story in the other professions close to me. If people were outraged by the number of Catholic priests being trained and relocated, they should have been rioting over the number of teachers and coaches in the public school arena that were being handled the same way. The research is there, but I never have seen the news media break the story on schools and coaches. Of course, no profession is/was without its offenders. Because the news media chose Catholic priests as their target, the Catholic Church has been able to do a tremendous amount to correct the problem and insure it does not happen again.
6. The US Conference of Catholic Bishops are still insisting that a few diocese who are holding out get with the program of making sure vestments are donned in separate areas, that any problems are immediately revealed to the diocese at large, etc. The Catholic precautions are now being used as a model for other organizations. Yes, too little, too late for some--and that continues to be tragic.
7. How do you define Christianity, and how does the Catholic Church fails to meet that definition?