How does one experiment with believing that God condones the existence of Hell, and if you don't believe, that's where you're going; or that someone else can die and thereby take on responsibility for your soul?
If ones is to attempt to resolve the seemingly contradictory belief in a just and benevolent God who condones the existence of hell, one would first understand the subject of hell and then seek evidence of its cause and existence.
It is impossible to resolve the belief in a benevolent God with the eternal after life torture of confused creatures.
My suggestion is to throw everything you have heard about hell being a place of punishment and torment that only the physically dead are at risk of being sent to into the trash heap, the original metaphorical meaning of hell, gehenna, as spoken by Jesus.
Hell is a state of mind, a place of torturous confusion that many people here show signs of being in where hopes are never fulfilled, beliefs are never confirmed, and peace is never attained. It is not a place of punishment that God sends people to, it is a place of confusion and absence of all that is good that people create for themselves.
If you buy into irrational self negating beliefs then you will lose your rational mind and become confused and say and do stupid things that injure yourself and the people that you love .
And if a person loses their rational mind, their soul, with what can they get it back especially when the walls that mark the boundary between heaven and hell have been built by their own professed devotion to the beliefs that are the very cause of their confusion?
People who claim to believe that one God is really three coequal beings that diddled a virgin to become fully human without a human father only to party with sinners and prostitutes and say things that no one understood till he was killed but came back to life only to disappear into the sky find it too hard to believe that they are mistaken. How is it possible to not believe in hell?
Hell is as real as anyone's fantasy life that separates them and prevents them from enjoying the fruits of real life, accessible only to rational beings, by being diverted by those irrational delusions that are nothing more than the mirage of a person dying of thirst in the desert... thorns and thistles.
If you train your ear you will hear the voices of lost souls in hells keeping. They are always on the verge of hysteria shrieking ' you will believe in hell when you feel the flames", 'the end is near', 'we are sinners,' 'Jesus is coming", etc, etc.,
The question shouldn't be why does a benevolent God condone the existence of hell, the answer is obviously because he is benevolent and merciful, The question is why do people perpetuate the existence of hell and condemn their children to it?