Given that, aren't you being a little unfair in asking any potential lady to be a virgin?
i dont think that, im not asking anything, it is just my wish that she is a virgin. no one wants used everyone wants new and it is not like im going around preying on women to bring them into bed, i had only once sex. im a shy, romantic and conservative guy.
i dont think i deserve a slut because i had once sex.
That isn't what anyone has said. What we are saying - and I think it's ALL of us! - is that your attitude is very far from 'right', it is anti-woman, and that you don't 'deserve' ANY woman at all.
Think about it: you've got people of both genders, from at least 3 religions and 'none', people of quite a wide range of sexual experience, from different cultures - and ALL of them are telling you that your attitude is a major obstacle to you ever getting what you wish for!
A prudent person would by now seriously consider the possibility that they've made a mistake somewhere in their thinking......
As one who's been married for 38 years, I must inform you that even with a partner who is very laid-back and secure in himself - a considerable amount of compromise is vital.
And you have shown an extreme stubbornness, a refusal to even consider that something in your 'logic' may be lacking. That bodes extremely ill for your value as a partner - or a co-worker or any other relationship. I'd even suggest you may be more likely to have a poor driving record as well.....