I don't know if I've mentioned this before but it's been going on 5 years since (my) Kat passed. Ya know I'm doing quite well now though it was rather rough for a couple of years. But now I've really come to enjoy being unattached with zero interest in becoming attached. Not because I fear losing someone I love again but because I can focus on me all the time without someone else being in the picture. It may be selfish but it's nice.
