And if you can get 51% of the population to agree with you on that, that's the way it should be.
There should be no need for this, it is a basic human right, something that is lost on many right wingers.
This is one of those things both Right and Left don't get.
As George Carlin once opined, there are no "rights". Any fool who thinks he has rights should look up "Japanese-Americans, 1942" on Wiki.
We don't have "rights". We have privilages the majority of our fellow citizens accept that we have, even begrudgingly. Get us scared enough or angry enough, and rights vanish pretty quickly for the people we are scared of.
When you get 51% to agree that gays should have the privilage to call their relationship a "marriage", then and only then should it happen. If you sneak it in through the courts, people will never accept it entirely. Look at
Roe v. Wade as an example. People are still mad about that, even though legislatively, things were going in that direction, anyway.
Personally, I think that gays should be allowed to get married. But win that fight at the ballot box, not the court house.