The 11 Differences Between Dating a European Man vs an American Man.

[Mindful]

What is wrong is that this "virginity" thing has been dumped on women for so long, just because of some obsession that men have, and we have borne the brunt of it, even though it does nothing for us. How many women and girls have wasted their time being yapped at by priests when they could have been out having some fun.`

What is wrong is that this virginity stuff has been marketed to women and girls in terms of "right" and "wrong," while we have established that there are no questions of "right" and "wrong," "morality," and "religion" actually in play.

Women might want to know where a man's penis has been before they partake. Also, women might like to try out a few before picking one for good. It works both ways.

Do you think the women’s liberation movement has a role in the destruction of the traditional family?

Of course it does. From women not staying virgins to women working, these things have changed the way we live.

There may be some bad things that happen because of this. For example the mom being controlled by the husband. Now that she works she isn’t so dependent on the man. And she’s not home raising the kids if she’s working. These things have changed our society for the worse. Kids aren’t being raised right.

But I’m sure women love being independent.

So women won’t go back to staying virgins till marriage. I don’t think it’s a good thing that she’s had multiple other dicks inside her.

And divorce isn’t good but women love having the option.

The only people who can make a success or failure of a family and child-raising are its two adult heads, both partners.The onus should not be on the woman, when they are both present.

Your statement about people and their genitalia is just plain grossly disgusting, totally shallow, and reflects a repulsive notion that women are somehow less than men and the man is marrying an inferior being.

It also reflects an attitude that sex is somehow dirty and shameful. Many Americans seem to feel this way, as do their counterparts in the Middle East. I wish that these people would not try so hard to wreck heterosexual relationships.

If you love and respect a person, you accept who he or she is currently, which involves the sum total of their past experiences. If one cannot accept this simple concept, this person has no respect and should not marry.

People who’ve had sex with other people before marriage tend to have sex with others after marriage too.

And they divorce at higher rates.

We seem to have veered off the cultural differences:


Ten Basic Differences Between the USA and Europe

You misspelled American bashing.

So what?

Are you alright in the head?

 

[ding]

Do you think the women’s liberation movement has a role in the destruction of the traditional family?

Of course it does. From women not staying virgins to women working, these things have changed the way we live.

There may be some bad things that happen because of this. For example the mom being controlled by the husband. Now that she works she isn’t so dependent on the man. And she’s not home raising the kids if she’s working. These things have changed our society for the worse. Kids aren’t being raised right.

But I’m sure women love being independent.

So women won’t go back to staying virgins till marriage. I don’t think it’s a good thing that she’s had multiple other dicks inside her.

And divorce isn’t good but women love having the option.

The only people who can make a success or failure of a family and child-raising are its two adult heads, both partners.The onus should not be on the woman, when they are both present.

Your statement about people and their genitalia is just plain grossly disgusting, totally shallow, and reflects a repulsive notion that women are somehow less than men and the man is marrying an inferior being.

It also reflects an attitude that sex is somehow dirty and shameful. Many Americans seem to feel this way, as do their counterparts in the Middle East. I wish that these people would not try so hard to wreck heterosexual relationships.

If you love and respect a person, you accept who he or she is currently, which involves the sum total of their past experiences. If one cannot accept this simple concept, this person has no respect and should not marry.

People who’ve had sex with other people before marriage tend to have sex with others after marriage too.

And they divorce at higher rates.

We seem to have veered off the cultural differences:


Ten Basic Differences Between the USA and Europe

You misspelled American bashing.

So what?

Are you alright in the head?

Yes, I’m not the one who equivocated cultural differences with American bashing. That was all you.

The question should be is mindful right in the head. Because I am starting to believe you are seriously fucked up in the head.

 

[Mindful]

The only people who can make a success or failure of a family and child-raising are its two adult heads, both partners.The onus should not be on the woman, when they are both present.

Your statement about people and their genitalia is just plain grossly disgusting, totally shallow, and reflects a repulsive notion that women are somehow less than men and the man is marrying an inferior being.

It also reflects an attitude that sex is somehow dirty and shameful. Many Americans seem to feel this way, as do their counterparts in the Middle East. I wish that these people would not try so hard to wreck heterosexual relationships.

If you love and respect a person, you accept who he or she is currently, which involves the sum total of their past experiences. If one cannot accept this simple concept, this person has no respect and should not marry.

People who’ve had sex with other people before marriage tend to have sex with others after marriage too.

And they divorce at higher rates.

We seem to have veered off the cultural differences:


Ten Basic Differences Between the USA and Europe

You misspelled American bashing.

So what?

Are you alright in the head?

Yes, I’m not the one who equivocated cultural differences with American bashing. That was all you.

The question should be is mindful right in the head. Because I am starting to believe you are seriously fucked up in the head.

Believe it then.

It's your problem. Don't worry about it. Just don't let it keep you up at nights.

 

[ding]

People who’ve had sex with other people before marriage tend to have sex with others after marriage too.

And they divorce at higher rates.

We seem to have veered off the cultural differences:


Ten Basic Differences Between the USA and Europe

You misspelled American bashing.

So what?

Are you alright in the head?

Yes, I’m not the one who equivocated cultural differences with American bashing. That was all you.

The question should be is mindful right in the head. Because I am starting to believe you are seriously fucked up in the head.

Believe it then.

It's your problem. Don't worry about it. Just don't let it keep you up at nights.

Nope. It’s your problem. At any point in your life you are the sum of your choices.

It takes no great leap of logic to see how the disorder in your life leads you to seek out conflicts.

 

[Mindful]

We seem to have veered off the cultural differences:


Ten Basic Differences Between the USA and Europe

You misspelled American bashing.

So what?

Are you alright in the head?

Yes, I’m not the one who equivocated cultural differences with American bashing. That was all you.

The question should be is mindful right in the head. Because I am starting to believe you are seriously fucked up in the head.

Believe it then.

It's your problem. Don't worry about it. Just don't let it keep you up at nights.

Nope. It’s your problem. At any point in your life you are the sum of your choices.

It takes no great leap of logic to see how the disorder in your life leads you to seek out conflicts.

You think?

We truly have deep cultural differences. Because most of the time I don't know what you are talking about.

 

[ding]

You misspelled American bashing.

So what?

Are you alright in the head?

Yes, I’m not the one who equivocated cultural differences with American bashing. That was all you.

The question should be is mindful right in the head. Because I am starting to believe you are seriously fucked up in the head.

Believe it then.

It's your problem. Don't worry about it. Just don't let it keep you up at nights.

Nope. It’s your problem. At any point in your life you are the sum of your choices.

It takes no great leap of logic to see how the disorder in your life leads you to seek out conflicts.

You think?

We truly have deep cultural differences. Because most of the time I don't know what you are talking about.

Correct. You just think you do.

 

[mudwhistle]

I think the difference might have to do more with European women, rather than American males.

European women are sluttier than American women. So naturally European males being in Europe have more to chose from. Whereas American males only have a few to choose from.

Oh come on you know American women are sluttier. No virgins at 18. Giving bjs at 15. Get real.

But I will agree with this. It is the woman’s fault. Guys do whatever works with women. If it didn’t work on women guys wouldn’t do it.

Need an example? It’s black womens fault black men wear their pants low and their underwear sticking out. If that shit didn’t work with the ladies they’d pull their pants up immediately

Nope.
Blacks wore their pants down like that to advertise in prison. That's faggot shit.

 

[ABikerSailor]

I think the difference might have to do more with European women, rather than American males.

European women are sluttier than American women. So naturally European males being in Europe have more to chose from. Whereas American males only have a few to choose from.

Oh come on you know American women are sluttier. No virgins at 18. Giving bjs at 15. Get real.

But I will agree with this. It is the woman’s fault. Guys do whatever works with women. If it didn’t work on women guys wouldn’t do it.

Need an example? It’s black womens fault black men wear their pants low and their underwear sticking out. If that shit didn’t work with the ladies they’d pull their pants up immediately

Nope.
Blacks wore their pants down like that to advertise in prison. That's faggot shit.

Actually, it was first used as a way to show gang affiliation.

 

[mudwhistle]

I think the difference might have to do more with European women, rather than American males.

European women are sluttier than American women. So naturally European males being in Europe have more to chose from. Whereas American males only have a few to choose from.

Oh come on you know American women are sluttier. No virgins at 18. Giving bjs at 15. Get real.

But I will agree with this. It is the woman’s fault. Guys do whatever works with women. If it didn’t work on women guys wouldn’t do it.

Need an example? It’s black womens fault black men wear their pants low and their underwear sticking out. If that shit didn’t work with the ladies they’d pull their pants up immediately

Nope.
Blacks wore their pants down like that to advertise in prison. That's faggot shit.

Actually, it was first used as a way to show gang affiliation.

Yeah....right.....the Huggies vs the Bare Buttcheek clans.

 

[ABikerSailor]

I think the difference might have to do more with European women, rather than American males.

European women are sluttier than American women. So naturally European males being in Europe have more to chose from. Whereas American males only have a few to choose from.

Oh come on you know American women are sluttier. No virgins at 18. Giving bjs at 15. Get real.

But I will agree with this. It is the woman’s fault. Guys do whatever works with women. If it didn’t work on women guys wouldn’t do it.

Need an example? It’s black womens fault black men wear their pants low and their underwear sticking out. If that shit didn’t work with the ladies they’d pull their pants up immediately

Nope.
Blacks wore their pants down like that to advertise in prison. That's faggot shit.

Actually, it was first used as a way to show gang affiliation.

Yeah....right.....the Huggies vs the Bare Buttcheek clans.

Wrong.

FACT CHECK: Sagging Pants

The most intriguing aspect of the “trolling for gay sex” rumor lies not in its veracity, but in its acceptance as gospel by those who encounter it and who are then moved to pass it along to others. While the combination of two facts (homosexuality in prison and falling-down pants worn by inmates) accounts for the origin of the belief that links the one to the other, its spread is attributable to the prevailing dislike of the fashion. Those who choose to wear their pants this way cite comfort as their motive and so find justification for this imitation of rap stars and felons, two groups perceived as toughly self-sufficient and therefore worthy of emulation; those who do not follow this fashion see only the crotches of jeans hanging at or above the knee, hobbling their wearers in a goofy manner. (One can walk in sagging pants. But one can’t run in them.)


The rumor becomes a way of passing along one group’s disdain for another’s sartorial practice. Communicating that the saggers are unwittingly offering their backsides to all takers when they think they are mimicking admired rappers and identifying with tough guys no sensible person would mess with becomes a way of saying “The joke is really on them.” This same sense of surreptitious delight over being in on a prank someone looked down upon is unknowingly playing on himself fuels another urban legend that involves medallions flaunted by society matrons or Chinese character-emblazoned sweaters proudly worn by their knitters and even some of the “misunderstood souvenir” tales told about globe-trotting tourists.

 

[mudwhistle]

I think the difference might have to do more with European women, rather than American males.

European women are sluttier than American women. So naturally European males being in Europe have more to chose from. Whereas American males only have a few to choose from.

Oh come on you know American women are sluttier. No virgins at 18. Giving bjs at 15. Get real.

But I will agree with this. It is the woman’s fault. Guys do whatever works with women. If it didn’t work on women guys wouldn’t do it.

Need an example? It’s black womens fault black men wear their pants low and their underwear sticking out. If that shit didn’t work with the ladies they’d pull their pants up immediately

Nope.
Blacks wore their pants down like that to advertise in prison. That's faggot shit.

Actually, it was first used as a way to show gang affiliation.

Yeah....right.....the Huggies vs the Bare Buttcheek clans.

Wrong.

FACT CHECK: Sagging Pants

The most intriguing aspect of the “trolling for gay sex” rumor lies not in its veracity, but in its acceptance as gospel by those who encounter it and who are then moved to pass it along to others. While the combination of two facts (homosexuality in prison and falling-down pants worn by inmates) accounts for the origin of the belief that links the one to the other, its spread is attributable to the prevailing dislike of the fashion. Those who choose to wear their pants this way cite comfort as their motive and so find justification for this imitation of rap stars and felons, two groups perceived as toughly self-sufficient and therefore worthy of emulation; those who do not follow this fashion see only the crotches of jeans hanging at or above the knee, hobbling their wearers in a goofy manner. (One can walk in sagging pants. But one can’t run in them.)


The rumor becomes a way of passing along one group’s disdain for another’s sartorial practice. Communicating that the saggers are unwittingly offering their backsides to all takers when they think they are mimicking admired rappers and identifying with tough guys no sensible person would mess with becomes a way of saying “The joke is really on them.” This same sense of surreptitious delight over being in on a prank someone looked down upon is unknowingly playing on himself fuels another urban legend that involves medallions flaunted by society matrons or Chinese character-emblazoned sweaters proudly worn by their knitters and even some of the “misunderstood souvenir” tales told about globe-trotting tourists.

Snopes is full of shit.
Plain and simple.

 

[ABikerSailor]

Oh come on you know American women are sluttier. No virgins at 18. Giving bjs at 15. Get real.

But I will agree with this. It is the woman’s fault. Guys do whatever works with women. If it didn’t work on women guys wouldn’t do it.

Need an example? It’s black womens fault black men wear their pants low and their underwear sticking out. If that shit didn’t work with the ladies they’d pull their pants up immediately

Nope.
Blacks wore their pants down like that to advertise in prison. That's faggot shit.

Actually, it was first used as a way to show gang affiliation.

Yeah....right.....the Huggies vs the Bare Buttcheek clans.

Wrong.

FACT CHECK: Sagging Pants

The most intriguing aspect of the “trolling for gay sex” rumor lies not in its veracity, but in its acceptance as gospel by those who encounter it and who are then moved to pass it along to others. While the combination of two facts (homosexuality in prison and falling-down pants worn by inmates) accounts for the origin of the belief that links the one to the other, its spread is attributable to the prevailing dislike of the fashion. Those who choose to wear their pants this way cite comfort as their motive and so find justification for this imitation of rap stars and felons, two groups perceived as toughly self-sufficient and therefore worthy of emulation; those who do not follow this fashion see only the crotches of jeans hanging at or above the knee, hobbling their wearers in a goofy manner. (One can walk in sagging pants. But one can’t run in them.)


The rumor becomes a way of passing along one group’s disdain for another’s sartorial practice. Communicating that the saggers are unwittingly offering their backsides to all takers when they think they are mimicking admired rappers and identifying with tough guys no sensible person would mess with becomes a way of saying “The joke is really on them.” This same sense of surreptitious delight over being in on a prank someone looked down upon is unknowingly playing on himself fuels another urban legend that involves medallions flaunted by society matrons or Chinese character-emblazoned sweaters proudly worn by their knitters and even some of the “misunderstood souvenir” tales told about globe-trotting tourists.

Snopes is full of shit.
Plain and simple.

Not my fault you want to continue to believe the bullshit someone else told you. I have watched many prison documentaries, as well as have looked into this fad when it first started. No matter how much you wish it was gay people and not gang members, it's not true.

 

[bodecea]

> 1. European men aren’t just aiming to score. American men on the other hand, tend to be goal oriented, with the aim of getting laid. Perhaps this ‘score mentality’ is for bragging rights, perhaps it’s for validation so they can feel wanted and desired, or perhaps it’s a pure ego play. American men will rush to get you in bed as quick as possible, while European men don’t appear to have the same rush (or desperation).

Desperation indeed. Just look at the whole INCEL movement.

 

[mudwhistle]

Nope.
Blacks wore their pants down like that to advertise in prison. That's faggot shit.

Actually, it was first used as a way to show gang affiliation.

Yeah....right.....the Huggies vs the Bare Buttcheek clans.

Wrong.

FACT CHECK: Sagging Pants

The most intriguing aspect of the “trolling for gay sex” rumor lies not in its veracity, but in its acceptance as gospel by those who encounter it and who are then moved to pass it along to others. While the combination of two facts (homosexuality in prison and falling-down pants worn by inmates) accounts for the origin of the belief that links the one to the other, its spread is attributable to the prevailing dislike of the fashion. Those who choose to wear their pants this way cite comfort as their motive and so find justification for this imitation of rap stars and felons, two groups perceived as toughly self-sufficient and therefore worthy of emulation; those who do not follow this fashion see only the crotches of jeans hanging at or above the knee, hobbling their wearers in a goofy manner. (One can walk in sagging pants. But one can’t run in them.)


The rumor becomes a way of passing along one group’s disdain for another’s sartorial practice. Communicating that the saggers are unwittingly offering their backsides to all takers when they think they are mimicking admired rappers and identifying with tough guys no sensible person would mess with becomes a way of saying “The joke is really on them.” This same sense of surreptitious delight over being in on a prank someone looked down upon is unknowingly playing on himself fuels another urban legend that involves medallions flaunted by society matrons or Chinese character-emblazoned sweaters proudly worn by their knitters and even some of the “misunderstood souvenir” tales told about globe-trotting tourists.

Snopes is full of shit.
Plain and simple.

Not my fault you want to continue to believe the bullshit someone else told you. I have watched many prison documentaries, as well as have looked into this fad when it first started. No matter how much you wish it was gay people and not gang members, it's not true.

Gang members get tattoos and learn hand-signals.....not advertise their backsides for their cellmate's pleasure. This is called keeping it on "The Down Low". Anal sex with your buddies when you know you're not going to get any pussy for months or even years. A large percent of blacks end up behind bars....so getting fucked in prison is pretty common....and one of the reason blacks love anal so much.

 

[sealybobo]

I think the difference might have to do more with European women, rather than American males.

European women are sluttier than American women. So naturally European males being in Europe have more to chose from. Whereas American males only have a few to choose from.

Oh come on you know American women are sluttier. No virgins at 18. Giving bjs at 15. Get real.

But I will agree with this. It is the woman’s fault. Guys do whatever works with women. If it didn’t work on women guys wouldn’t do it.

Need an example? It’s black womens fault black men wear their pants low and their underwear sticking out. If that shit didn’t work with the ladies they’d pull their pants up immediately

Nope.
Blacks wore their pants down like that to advertise in prison. That's faggot shit.

Actually, it was first used as a way to show gang affiliation.

Yeah....right.....the Huggies vs the Bare Buttcheek clans.

Wrong.

FACT CHECK: Sagging Pants

The most intriguing aspect of the “trolling for gay sex” rumor lies not in its veracity, but in its acceptance as gospel by those who encounter it and who are then moved to pass it along to others. While the combination of two facts (homosexuality in prison and falling-down pants worn by inmates) accounts for the origin of the belief that links the one to the other, its spread is attributable to the prevailing dislike of the fashion. Those who choose to wear their pants this way cite comfort as their motive and so find justification for this imitation of rap stars and felons, two groups perceived as toughly self-sufficient and therefore worthy of emulation; those who do not follow this fashion see only the crotches of jeans hanging at or above the knee, hobbling their wearers in a goofy manner. (One can walk in sagging pants. But one can’t run in them.)


The rumor becomes a way of passing along one group’s disdain for another’s sartorial practice. Communicating that the saggers are unwittingly offering their backsides to all takers when they think they are mimicking admired rappers and identifying with tough guys no sensible person would mess with becomes a way of saying “The joke is really on them.” This same sense of surreptitious delight over being in on a prank someone looked down upon is unknowingly playing on himself fuels another urban legend that involves medallions flaunted by society matrons or Chinese character-emblazoned sweaters proudly worn by their knitters and even some of the “misunderstood souvenir” tales told about globe-trotting tourists.

I’m just worried about the day tight bulging crotches that show everything become the popular thing. Or speedos. I’m glad I don’t live in Europe. I have a small penis.

 

[sealybobo]

Actually, it was first used as a way to show gang affiliation.

Yeah....right.....the Huggies vs the Bare Buttcheek clans.

Wrong.

FACT CHECK: Sagging Pants

The most intriguing aspect of the “trolling for gay sex” rumor lies not in its veracity, but in its acceptance as gospel by those who encounter it and who are then moved to pass it along to others. While the combination of two facts (homosexuality in prison and falling-down pants worn by inmates) accounts for the origin of the belief that links the one to the other, its spread is attributable to the prevailing dislike of the fashion. Those who choose to wear their pants this way cite comfort as their motive and so find justification for this imitation of rap stars and felons, two groups perceived as toughly self-sufficient and therefore worthy of emulation; those who do not follow this fashion see only the crotches of jeans hanging at or above the knee, hobbling their wearers in a goofy manner. (One can walk in sagging pants. But one can’t run in them.)


The rumor becomes a way of passing along one group’s disdain for another’s sartorial practice. Communicating that the saggers are unwittingly offering their backsides to all takers when they think they are mimicking admired rappers and identifying with tough guys no sensible person would mess with becomes a way of saying “The joke is really on them.” This same sense of surreptitious delight over being in on a prank someone looked down upon is unknowingly playing on himself fuels another urban legend that involves medallions flaunted by society matrons or Chinese character-emblazoned sweaters proudly worn by their knitters and even some of the “misunderstood souvenir” tales told about globe-trotting tourists.

Snopes is full of shit.
Plain and simple.

Not my fault you want to continue to believe the bullshit someone else told you. I have watched many prison documentaries, as well as have looked into this fad when it first started. No matter how much you wish it was gay people and not gang members, it's not true.

Gang members get tattoos and learn hand-signals.....not advertise their backsides for their cellmate's pleasure. This is called keeping it on "The Down Low". Anal sex with your buddies when you know you're not going to get any pussy for months or even years. A large percent of blacks end up behind bars....so getting fucked in prison is pretty common....and one of the reason blacks love anal so much.

If I was in prison for ten years I’d bang one of the sisters after 6 months.

Then I’d be one of the guys who rapes guys like Jeffrey dahmer Jared or Larry nassar. Pedophiles and rapists. Because you have to pay to have sex with the sisters. Lol

 

[Lysistrata]

A guy wants to know he’s the only one that’s ever been inside his wife’s vagina. Is there anything wrong with wanting that? No.

But he would regret himself never trying other vaginas.

What is wrong is that this "virginity" thing has been dumped on women for so long, just because of some obsession that men have, and we have borne the brunt of it, even though it does nothing for us. How many women and girls have wasted their time being yapped at by priests when they could have been out having some fun.`

What is wrong is that this virginity stuff has been marketed to women and girls in terms of "right" and "wrong," while we have established that there are no questions of "right" and "wrong," "morality," and "religion" actually in play.

Women might want to know where a man's penis has been before they partake. Also, women might like to try out a few before picking one for good. It works both ways.

Do you think the women’s liberation movement has a role in the destruction of the traditional family?

Of course it does. From women not staying virgins to women working, these things have changed the way we live.

There may be some bad things that happen because of this. For example the mom being controlled by the husband. Now that she works she isn’t so dependent on the man. And she’s not home raising the kids if she’s working. These things have changed our society for the worse. Kids aren’t being raised right.

But I’m sure women love being independent.

So women won’t go back to staying virgins till marriage. I don’t think it’s a good thing that she’s had multiple other dicks inside her.

And divorce isn’t good but women love having the option.

The only people who can make a success or failure of a family and child-raising are its two adult heads, both partners.The onus should not be on the woman, when they are both present.

Your statement about people and their genitalia is just plain grossly disgusting, totally shallow, and reflects a repulsive notion that women are somehow less than men and the man is marrying an inferior being.

It also reflects an attitude that sex is somehow dirty and shameful. Many Americans seem to feel this way, as do their counterparts in the Middle East. I wish that these people would not try so hard to wreck heterosexual relationships.

If you love and respect a person, you accept who he or she is currently, which involves the sum total of their past experiences. If one cannot accept this simple concept, this person has no respect and should not marry.

People who’ve had sex with other people before marriage tend to have sex with others after marriage too.

And they divorce at higher rates.

We seem to have veered off the cultural differences:


Ten Basic Differences Between the USA and Europe

Turning back to cultural differences. I haven't spent all that much time in Europe, but I do have a favorable impression of a lot of areas there. I particularly like English villages.

• But I do see some trends among Americans that I dislike:
• Being too damned loud. Some Americans seem to have trouble modulating their voices.
• Being bombastic, and failing to remember that other people should have a turn to speak, while one who has already spoken or is waiting to speak should sit and take their turn at listening.
• Being unfamiliar with some of the basics of "American culture" and our institutions, like our Constitution and our great authors and musicians, while talking up these things that they know nothing about.
• Being, frankly, physically uncoordinated and sort of dumpy and sloppily dressed.
• Being unwilling to try anything new.
• Showing a lack of imagination and appreciation of imagination.

End of rant for now. I'm a sort of quiet person (although known to dance at concerts), and I like to read, hold long conversations about interesting things, and I love people with a quietly deadly sense of humor, so I'm filtering this through my own tastes and experiences. I know that I sometimes buy into the stereotype that Europeans are somehow better at these things.

 

[Mindful]

What is wrong is that this "virginity" thing has been dumped on women for so long, just because of some obsession that men have, and we have borne the brunt of it, even though it does nothing for us. How many women and girls have wasted their time being yapped at by priests when they could have been out having some fun.`

What is wrong is that this virginity stuff has been marketed to women and girls in terms of "right" and "wrong," while we have established that there are no questions of "right" and "wrong," "morality," and "religion" actually in play.

Women might want to know where a man's penis has been before they partake. Also, women might like to try out a few before picking one for good. It works both ways.

Do you think the women’s liberation movement has a role in the destruction of the traditional family?

Of course it does. From women not staying virgins to women working, these things have changed the way we live.

There may be some bad things that happen because of this. For example the mom being controlled by the husband. Now that she works she isn’t so dependent on the man. And she’s not home raising the kids if she’s working. These things have changed our society for the worse. Kids aren’t being raised right.

But I’m sure women love being independent.

So women won’t go back to staying virgins till marriage. I don’t think it’s a good thing that she’s had multiple other dicks inside her.

And divorce isn’t good but women love having the option.

The only people who can make a success or failure of a family and child-raising are its two adult heads, both partners.The onus should not be on the woman, when they are both present.

Your statement about people and their genitalia is just plain grossly disgusting, totally shallow, and reflects a repulsive notion that women are somehow less than men and the man is marrying an inferior being.

It also reflects an attitude that sex is somehow dirty and shameful. Many Americans seem to feel this way, as do their counterparts in the Middle East. I wish that these people would not try so hard to wreck heterosexual relationships.

If you love and respect a person, you accept who he or she is currently, which involves the sum total of their past experiences. If one cannot accept this simple concept, this person has no respect and should not marry.

People who’ve had sex with other people before marriage tend to have sex with others after marriage too.

And they divorce at higher rates.

We seem to have veered off the cultural differences:


Ten Basic Differences Between the USA and Europe

Turning back to cultural differences. I haven't spent all that much time in Europe, but I do have a favorable impression of a lot of areas there. I particularly like English villages.

• But I do see some trends among Americans that I dislike:
• Being too damned loud. Some Americans seem to have trouble modulating their voices.
• Being bombastic, and failing to remember that other people should have a turn to speak, while one who has already spoken or is waiting to speak should sit and take their turn at listening.
• Being unfamiliar with some of the basics of "American culture" and our institutions, like our Constitution and our great authors and musicians, while talking up these things that they know nothing about.
• Being, frankly, physically uncoordinated and sort of dumpy and sloppily dressed.
• Being unwilling to try anything new.
• Showing a lack of imagination and appreciation of imagination.

End of rant for now. I'm a sort of quiet person (although known to dance at concerts), and I like to read, hold long conversations about interesting things, and I love people with a quietly deadly sense of humor, so I'm filtering this through my own tastes and experiences. I know that I sometimes buy into the stereotype that Europeans are somehow better at these things.

A deadly sense of humour?

You'd love it in England then.

 

[SweetSue92]

Oh I don't know. There's nothing like those Canadian lumberjacks.

Hmm. Never considered them. I must take a look!

My two sister in laws were virgins before marriage. That’s a lost art.

Just what is the deal with virginity, anyway? It is evident from the fact that men don't practice it that it doesn't have anything to do with morality. So what's the deal?

A guy wants to know he’s the only one that’s ever been inside his wife’s vagina. Is there anything wrong with wanting that? No.

But he would regret himself never trying other vaginas.

What is wrong is that this "virginity" thing has been dumped on women for so long, just because of some obsession that men have, and we have borne the brunt of it, even though it does nothing for us. How many women and girls have wasted their time being yapped at by priests when they could have been out having some fun.`

What is wrong is that this virginity stuff has been marketed to women and girls in terms of "right" and "wrong," while we have established that there are no questions of "right" and "wrong," "morality," and "religion" actually in play.

Women might want to know where a man's penis has been before they partake. Also, women might like to try out a few before picking one for good. It works both ways.

Do you think the women’s liberation movement has a role in the destruction of the traditional family?

Of course it does. From women not staying virgins to women working, these things have changed the way we live.

There may be some bad things that happen because of this. For example the mom being controlled by the husband. Now that she works she isn’t so dependent on the man. And she’s not home raising the kids if she’s working. These things have changed our society for the worse. Kids aren’t being raised right.

But I’m sure women love being independent.

So women won’t go back to staying virgins till marriage. I don’t think it’s a good thing that she’s had multiple other dicks inside her.

And divorce isn’t good but women love having the option.

The only people who can make a success or failure of a family and child-raising are its two adult heads, both partners.The onus should not be on the woman, when they are both present.

Your statement about people and their genitalia is just plain grossly disgusting, totally shallow, and reflects a repulsive notion that women are somehow less than men and the man is marrying an inferior being.

It also reflects an attitude that sex is somehow dirty and shameful. Many Americans seem to feel this way, as do their counterparts in the Middle East. I wish that these people would not try so hard to wreck heterosexual relationships.

If you love and respect a person, you accept who he or she is currently, which involves the sum total of their past experiences. If one cannot accept this simple concept, this person has no respect and should not marry.

I have been in a very happy and stable marriage for nearly 25 years. After this lecture on happy and stable heterosexual relationships and what they require, won't you give us your stats?

 

[SweetSue92]

Oh come on you know American women are sluttier. No virgins at 18. Giving bjs at 15. Get real.

But I will agree with this. It is the woman’s fault. Guys do whatever works with women. If it didn’t work on women guys wouldn’t do it.

Need an example? It’s black womens fault black men wear their pants low and their underwear sticking out. If that shit didn’t work with the ladies they’d pull their pants up immediately

Nope.
Blacks wore their pants down like that to advertise in prison. That's faggot shit.

Actually, it was first used as a way to show gang affiliation.

Yeah....right.....the Huggies vs the Bare Buttcheek clans.

Wrong.

FACT CHECK: Sagging Pants

The most intriguing aspect of the “trolling for gay sex” rumor lies not in its veracity, but in its acceptance as gospel by those who encounter it and who are then moved to pass it along to others. While the combination of two facts (homosexuality in prison and falling-down pants worn by inmates) accounts for the origin of the belief that links the one to the other, its spread is attributable to the prevailing dislike of the fashion. Those who choose to wear their pants this way cite comfort as their motive and so find justification for this imitation of rap stars and felons, two groups perceived as toughly self-sufficient and therefore worthy of emulation; those who do not follow this fashion see only the crotches of jeans hanging at or above the knee, hobbling their wearers in a goofy manner. (One can walk in sagging pants. But one can’t run in them.)


The rumor becomes a way of passing along one group’s disdain for another’s sartorial practice. Communicating that the saggers are unwittingly offering their backsides to all takers when they think they are mimicking admired rappers and identifying with tough guys no sensible person would mess with becomes a way of saying “The joke is really on them.” This same sense of surreptitious delight over being in on a prank someone looked down upon is unknowingly playing on himself fuels another urban legend that involves medallions flaunted by society matrons or Chinese character-emblazoned sweaters proudly worn by their knitters and even some of the “misunderstood souvenir” tales told about globe-trotting tourists.

I’m just worried about the day tight bulging crotches that show everything become the popular thing. Or speedos. I’m glad I don’t live in Europe. I have a small penis.

Someone needs to tell you that you say too much, even anonymously. So, consider it done.