The 11 Differences Between Dating a European Man vs an American Man.

[Mindful]

I never thought that the cultural background of a dating prospect would make much of a difference when it came to relationships. However, since living in New York, I’ve had the opportunity to meet many different people from various backgrounds and it’s become clear that there are definite cultural norms specific to European men versus American men (especially New Yorkers). I’m not to judge that one is better than the other, and mind you, my observations are based on my own experiences as well as a group of women I’ve interviewed in the last two years. The below is a list of some of the themes and commonalities observed. Now, when I discuss the differences between European and American, I’m referring to a mindset.

You can very well be born in America but have a more “European” mindset and vice versa.

The 11 Differences Between Dating a European Man vs an American Man - JustMyTypeMag

So, an article that is nothing more than American bashing based upon the generalities of a very small minority of the men in the USA.

Are we to be impressed?

No way is it American bashing.

The second sign of insecurity is denying insecurity.

Could be.

There really is no defense something which paints an unbalanced picture where only the negative aspects are discussed without showing the other side of the coin. So when someone like you defends the indefensible it is literally an example of your insecurity of your cognitive abilities. Rather than admit it was stereotyping and not a complete picture you double down on stupid because you are so insecure that you are incapable of admitting you are wrong.

You think so?

 

[ding]

I never thought that the cultural background of a dating prospect would make much of a difference when it came to relationships. However, since living in New York, I’ve had the opportunity to meet many different people from various backgrounds and it’s become clear that there are definite cultural norms specific to European men versus American men (especially New Yorkers). I’m not to judge that one is better than the other, and mind you, my observations are based on my own experiences as well as a group of women I’ve interviewed in the last two years. The below is a list of some of the themes and commonalities observed. Now, when I discuss the differences between European and American, I’m referring to a mindset.

You can very well be born in America but have a more “European” mindset and vice versa.

The 11 Differences Between Dating a European Man vs an American Man - JustMyTypeMag

So, an article that is nothing more than American bashing based upon the generalities of a very small minority of the men in the USA.

Are we to be impressed?

No way is it American bashing.

Sure, you roll with that.

It was totally American bashing. Most stereotypical analyses are. Rather than showing the full picture, negative aspects are cherry picked to justify a bias.

Don't make me tell you.

If only you could you would but you can’t so you think any reply is a valid reply. It’s not.

 

[Mindful]

I never thought that the cultural background of a dating prospect would make much of a difference when it came to relationships. However, since living in New York, I’ve had the opportunity to meet many different people from various backgrounds and it’s become clear that there are definite cultural norms specific to European men versus American men (especially New Yorkers). I’m not to judge that one is better than the other, and mind you, my observations are based on my own experiences as well as a group of women I’ve interviewed in the last two years. The below is a list of some of the themes and commonalities observed. Now, when I discuss the differences between European and American, I’m referring to a mindset.

You can very well be born in America but have a more “European” mindset and vice versa.

The 11 Differences Between Dating a European Man vs an American Man - JustMyTypeMag

So, an article that is nothing more than American bashing based upon the generalities of a very small minority of the men in the USA.

Are we to be impressed?

If anything it shows their preoccupation with Americans and shows just how insecure they are themselves since they have to tear down others to make themselves feel superior. Sad really.

Are you weeping yet?

Why should I? I’m not the one rationalizing a stereotypical argument as being valid representation of a distribution. You are.

 

[EvilCat Breath]

I think the difference might have to do more with European women, rather than American males.

European women are sluttier than American women. So naturally European males being in Europe have more to chose from. Whereas American males only have a few to choose from.

Typical Ding post.

You have not addressed the issue of goal orientation.

Free full body massage with happy ending and g-spot focus work, just to get to know each other better.

Your ideal woman.

 

[EvilCat Breath]

European men are looking to score just as much as American men. They just lie about it better. American women will believe anything told to them in a tantalizing foreign accent.

 

[Mindful]

European men are looking to score just as much as American men. They just lie about it better. American women will believe anything told to them in a tantalizing foreign accent.

You're probably right. They just take longer.

The primal urge transcends all cultures.

 

[ding]

European men are looking to score just as much as American men. They just lie about it better. American women will believe anything told to them in a tantalizing foreign accent.

For any given thing there will be a distribution. I doubt there are significant differences within western civilization. So, yeah. They are.

 

[sealybobo]

Our President spray tans and colors his hair. We have a whole subset of Americans, mostly from East coast big cities, that would consider this normal behavior. It's pretty frowned upon, conversely, by the men who are a bit more brute, and less posh.

Two different cultural norms there, in terms of personal up-keep, same Country.

Ease up. Most people in "East coast big cities" don't do this, including me. The folks in the "heartland" seems to have fallen in love with the spray tan and the hair color.

IMHO there is no American man, neither there is a European man.
Same for women. No stereo type fits really.
I'm pretty sure there are women which are not just grave digging like a friend of mine classify women.

But we are straying. I find European men much more attractive, intelligent, prepared, mannerly, civilized, sexy, etc.

Oh I don't know. There's nothing like those Canadian lumberjacks.

Hmm. Never considered them. I must take a look!

I think the difference might have to do more with European women, rather than American males.

European women are sluttier than American women. So naturally European males being in Europe have more to chose from. Whereas American males only have a few to choose from.

Oh come on you know American women are sluttier. No virgins at 18. Giving bjs at 15. Get real.

But I will agree with this. It is the woman’s fault. Guys do whatever works with women. If it didn’t work on women guys wouldn’t do it.

Need an example? It’s black womens fault black men wear their pants low and their underwear sticking out. If that shit didn’t work with the ladies they’d pull their pants up immediately

I was a virgin at 18. My daughter is a virgin and she's older than that, and no she isn't snowballing me, I would know. And she is a beautiful girl who cuts down cads the likes of which we see here from a mile away. She's had customer service jobs, you see, so she's had a lot of practice. I adore my girl.

My two sister in laws were virgins before marriage. That’s a lost art.

Just what is the deal with virginity, anyway? It is evident from the fact that men don't practice it that it doesn't have anything to do with morality. So what's the deal?

A guy wants to know he’s the only one that’s ever been inside his wife’s vagina. Is there anything wrong with wanting that? No.

But he would regret himself never trying other vaginas.

 

[sealybobo]

Our President spray tans and colors his hair. We have a whole subset of Americans, mostly from East coast big cities, that would consider this normal behavior. It's pretty frowned upon, conversely, by the men who are a bit more brute, and less posh.

Two different cultural norms there, in terms of personal up-keep, same Country.

Ease up. Most people in "East coast big cities" don't do this, including me. The folks in the "heartland" seems to have fallen in love with the spray tan and the hair color.

IMHO there is no American man, neither there is a European man.
Same for women. No stereo type fits really.
I'm pretty sure there are women which are not just grave digging like a friend of mine classify women.

But we are straying. I find European men much more attractive, intelligent, prepared, mannerly, civilized, sexy, etc.

Oh I don't know. There's nothing like those Canadian lumberjacks.

Hmm. Never considered them. I must take a look!

I think the difference might have to do more with European women, rather than American males.

European women are sluttier than American women. So naturally European males being in Europe have more to chose from. Whereas American males only have a few to choose from.

Oh come on you know American women are sluttier. No virgins at 18. Giving bjs at 15. Get real.

But I will agree with this. It is the woman’s fault. Guys do whatever works with women. If it didn’t work on women guys wouldn’t do it.

Need an example? It’s black womens fault black men wear their pants low and their underwear sticking out. If that shit didn’t work with the ladies they’d pull their pants up immediately

I was a virgin at 18. My daughter is a virgin and she's older than that, and no she isn't snowballing me, I would know. And she is a beautiful girl who cuts down cads the likes of which we see here from a mile away. She's had customer service jobs, you see, so she's had a lot of practice. I adore my girl.

My two sister in laws were virgins before marriage. That’s a lost art.

Just what is the deal with virginity, anyway? It is evident from the fact that men don't practice it that it doesn't have anything to do with morality. So what's the deal?

You know, if a woman tells me that she's a virgin, that is generally a deal breaker for me. I've been with 2 virgins in my life, and most women have a fantasy built up in their head as to what their first time should be like, and I don't want the pressure and responsibility of being their first.

If you don’t want to be with them forever you shouldn’t be the one to take it.

Unless they want to lose it to you.

 

[sealybobo]

I think the difference might have to do more with European women, rather than American males.

European women are sluttier than American women. So naturally European males being in Europe have more to chose from. Whereas American males only have a few to choose from.

Oh come on you know American women are sluttier. No virgins at 18. Giving bjs at 15. Get real.

But I will agree with this. It is the woman’s fault. Guys do whatever works with women. If it didn’t work on women guys wouldn’t do it.

Need an example? It’s black womens fault black men wear their pants low and their underwear sticking out. If that shit didn’t work with the ladies they’d pull their pants up immediately

I was a virgin at 18. My daughter is a virgin and she's older than that, and no she isn't snowballing me, I would know. And she is a beautiful girl who cuts down cads the likes of which we see here from a mile away. She's had customer service jobs, you see, so she's had a lot of practice. I adore my girl.

My two sister in laws were virgins before marriage.

How do you know?

You can tell. In the small metro Detroit Greek community you’d know if she had dated someone else seriously. And my sister in law never spent the night at their now husbands places until they were married.

Could I be wrong? Sure but I’d be shocked. Then no ones a virgin if they weren’t.

 

[sealybobo]

I think the difference might have to do more with European women, rather than American males.

European women are sluttier than American women. So naturally European males being in Europe have more to chose from. Whereas American males only have a few to choose from.

Oh come on you know American women are sluttier. No virgins at 18. Giving bjs at 15. Get real.

But I will agree with this. It is the woman’s fault. Guys do whatever works with women. If it didn’t work on women guys wouldn’t do it.

Need an example? It’s black womens fault black men wear their pants low and their underwear sticking out. If that shit didn’t work with the ladies they’d pull their pants up immediately

I was a virgin at 18. My daughter is a virgin and she's older than that, and no she isn't snowballing me, I would know. And she is a beautiful girl who cuts down cads the likes of which we see here from a mile away. She's had customer service jobs, you see, so she's had a lot of practice. I adore my girl.

My two sister in laws were virgins before marriage.

How do you know?

It’s an old Greek tradition. Women go into the bedroom the wedding nite and stick a knife up the woman’s vagina. If it doesn’t bleed she’s a whore.

 

[Billy_Kinetta]

I think the difference might have to do more with European women, rather than American males.

European women are sluttier than American women. So naturally European males being in Europe have more to chose from. Whereas American males only have a few to choose from.

Oh come on you know American women are sluttier. No virgins at 18. Giving bjs at 15. Get real.

But I will agree with this. It is the woman’s fault. Guys do whatever works with women. If it didn’t work on women guys wouldn’t do it.

Need an example? It’s black womens fault black men wear their pants low and their underwear sticking out. If that shit didn’t work with the ladies they’d pull their pants up immediately

I was a virgin at 18. My daughter is a virgin and she's older than that, and no she isn't snowballing me, I would know. And she is a beautiful girl who cuts down cads the likes of which we see here from a mile away. She's had customer service jobs, you see, so she's had a lot of practice. I adore my girl.

My two sister in laws were virgins before marriage.

How do you know?

You can tell. In the small metro Detroit Greek community you’d know if she had dated someone else seriously. And my sister in law never spent the night at their now husbands places until they were married.

Could I be wrong? Sure but I’d be shocked. Then no ones a virgin if they weren’t.

Fair enough, just checking. I grew up for a time in a small community like that. Everyone knew what everyone else was doing.

Thankfully, we moved before my high school years.

 

[Billy_Kinetta]

I think the difference might have to do more with European women, rather than American males.

European women are sluttier than American women. So naturally European males being in Europe have more to chose from. Whereas American males only have a few to choose from.

Oh come on you know American women are sluttier. No virgins at 18. Giving bjs at 15. Get real.

But I will agree with this. It is the woman’s fault. Guys do whatever works with women. If it didn’t work on women guys wouldn’t do it.

Need an example? It’s black womens fault black men wear their pants low and their underwear sticking out. If that shit didn’t work with the ladies they’d pull their pants up immediately

I was a virgin at 18. My daughter is a virgin and she's older than that, and no she isn't snowballing me, I would know. And she is a beautiful girl who cuts down cads the likes of which we see here from a mile away. She's had customer service jobs, you see, so she's had a lot of practice. I adore my girl.

My two sister in laws were virgins before marriage.

How do you know?

It’s an old Greek tradition. Women go into the bedroom the wedding nite and stick a knife up the woman’s vagina. If it doesn’t bleed she’s a whore.

Riding horses before one's wedding night could be a problem, then.

 

[Lysistrata]

Our President spray tans and colors his hair. We have a whole subset of Americans, mostly from East coast big cities, that would consider this normal behavior. It's pretty frowned upon, conversely, by the men who are a bit more brute, and less posh.

Two different cultural norms there, in terms of personal up-keep, same Country.

Ease up. Most people in "East coast big cities" don't do this, including me. The folks in the "heartland" seems to have fallen in love with the spray tan and the hair color.

IMHO there is no American man, neither there is a European man.
Same for women. No stereo type fits really.
I'm pretty sure there are women which are not just grave digging like a friend of mine classify women.

But we are straying. I find European men much more attractive, intelligent, prepared, mannerly, civilized, sexy, etc.

Oh I don't know. There's nothing like those Canadian lumberjacks.

Hmm. Never considered them. I must take a look!

I think the difference might have to do more with European women, rather than American males.

European women are sluttier than American women. So naturally European males being in Europe have more to chose from. Whereas American males only have a few to choose from.

Oh come on you know American women are sluttier. No virgins at 18. Giving bjs at 15. Get real.

But I will agree with this. It is the woman’s fault. Guys do whatever works with women. If it didn’t work on women guys wouldn’t do it.

Need an example? It’s black womens fault black men wear their pants low and their underwear sticking out. If that shit didn’t work with the ladies they’d pull their pants up immediately

I was a virgin at 18. My daughter is a virgin and she's older than that, and no she isn't snowballing me, I would know. And she is a beautiful girl who cuts down cads the likes of which we see here from a mile away. She's had customer service jobs, you see, so she's had a lot of practice. I adore my girl.

My two sister in laws were virgins before marriage. That’s a lost art.

Just what is the deal with virginity, anyway? It is evident from the fact that men don't practice it that it doesn't have anything to do with morality. So what's the deal?

A guy wants to know he’s the only one that’s ever been inside his wife’s vagina. Is there anything wrong with wanting that? No.

But he would regret himself never trying other vaginas.

What is wrong is that this "virginity" thing has been dumped on women for so long, just because of some obsession that men have, and we have borne the brunt of it, even though it does nothing for us. How many women and girls have wasted their time being yapped at by priests when they could have been out having some fun.`

What is wrong is that this virginity stuff has been marketed to women and girls in terms of "right" and "wrong," while we have established that there are no questions of "right" and "wrong," "morality," and "religion" actually in play.

Women might want to know where a man's penis has been before they partake. Also, women might like to try out a few before picking one for good. It works both ways.

 

[sealybobo]

Our President spray tans and colors his hair. We have a whole subset of Americans, mostly from East coast big cities, that would consider this normal behavior. It's pretty frowned upon, conversely, by the men who are a bit more brute, and less posh.

Two different cultural norms there, in terms of personal up-keep, same Country.

Ease up. Most people in "East coast big cities" don't do this, including me. The folks in the "heartland" seems to have fallen in love with the spray tan and the hair color.

IMHO there is no American man, neither there is a European man.
Same for women. No stereo type fits really.
I'm pretty sure there are women which are not just grave digging like a friend of mine classify women.

But we are straying. I find European men much more attractive, intelligent, prepared, mannerly, civilized, sexy, etc.

Oh I don't know. There's nothing like those Canadian lumberjacks.

Hmm. Never considered them. I must take a look!

Oh come on you know American women are sluttier. No virgins at 18. Giving bjs at 15. Get real.

But I will agree with this. It is the woman’s fault. Guys do whatever works with women. If it didn’t work on women guys wouldn’t do it.

Need an example? It’s black womens fault black men wear their pants low and their underwear sticking out. If that shit didn’t work with the ladies they’d pull their pants up immediately

I was a virgin at 18. My daughter is a virgin and she's older than that, and no she isn't snowballing me, I would know. And she is a beautiful girl who cuts down cads the likes of which we see here from a mile away. She's had customer service jobs, you see, so she's had a lot of practice. I adore my girl.

My two sister in laws were virgins before marriage. That’s a lost art.

Just what is the deal with virginity, anyway? It is evident from the fact that men don't practice it that it doesn't have anything to do with morality. So what's the deal?

A guy wants to know he’s the only one that’s ever been inside his wife’s vagina. Is there anything wrong with wanting that? No.

But he would regret himself never trying other vaginas.

What is wrong is that this "virginity" thing has been dumped on women for so long, just because of some obsession that men have, and we have borne the brunt of it, even though it does nothing for us. How many women and girls have wasted their time being yapped at by priests when they could have been out having some fun.`

What is wrong is that this virginity stuff has been marketed to women and girls in terms of "right" and "wrong," while we have established that there are no questions of "right" and "wrong," "morality," and "religion" actually in play.

Women might want to know where a man's penis has been before they partake. Also, women might like to try out a few before picking one for good. It works both ways.

Do you think the women’s liberation movement has a role in the destruction of the traditional family?

Of course it does. From women not staying virgins to women working, these things have changed the way we live.

There may be some bad things that happen because of this. For example the mom being controlled by the husband. Now that she works she isn’t so dependent on the man. And she’s not home raising the kids if she’s working. These things have changed our society for the worse. Kids aren’t being raised right.

But I’m sure women love being independent.

So women won’t go back to staying virgins till marriage. I don’t think it’s a good thing that she’s had multiple other dicks inside her.

And divorce isn’t good but women love having the option.

 

[Lysistrata]

Ease up. Most people in "East coast big cities" don't do this, including me. The folks in the "heartland" seems to have fallen in love with the spray tan and the hair color.
But we are straying. I find European men much more attractive, intelligent, prepared, mannerly, civilized, sexy, etc.

Oh I don't know. There's nothing like those Canadian lumberjacks.

Hmm. Never considered them. I must take a look!

I was a virgin at 18. My daughter is a virgin and she's older than that, and no she isn't snowballing me, I would know. And she is a beautiful girl who cuts down cads the likes of which we see here from a mile away. She's had customer service jobs, you see, so she's had a lot of practice. I adore my girl.

My two sister in laws were virgins before marriage. That’s a lost art.

Just what is the deal with virginity, anyway? It is evident from the fact that men don't practice it that it doesn't have anything to do with morality. So what's the deal?

A guy wants to know he’s the only one that’s ever been inside his wife’s vagina. Is there anything wrong with wanting that? No.

But he would regret himself never trying other vaginas.

What is wrong is that this "virginity" thing has been dumped on women for so long, just because of some obsession that men have, and we have borne the brunt of it, even though it does nothing for us. How many women and girls have wasted their time being yapped at by priests when they could have been out having some fun.`

What is wrong is that this virginity stuff has been marketed to women and girls in terms of "right" and "wrong," while we have established that there are no questions of "right" and "wrong," "morality," and "religion" actually in play.

Women might want to know where a man's penis has been before they partake. Also, women might like to try out a few before picking one for good. It works both ways.

Do you think the women’s liberation movement has a role in the destruction of the traditional family?

Of course it does. From women not staying virgins to women working, these things have changed the way we live.

There may be some bad things that happen because of this. For example the mom being controlled by the husband. Now that she works she isn’t so dependent on the man. And she’s not home raising the kids if she’s working. These things have changed our society for the worse. Kids aren’t being raised right.

But I’m sure women love being independent.

So women won’t go back to staying virgins till marriage. I don’t think it’s a good thing that she’s had multiple other dicks inside her.

And divorce isn’t good but women love having the option.

The only people who can make a success or failure of a family and child-raising are its two adult heads, both partners.The onus should not be on the woman, when they are both present.

Your statement about people and their genitalia is just plain grossly disgusting, totally shallow, and reflects a repulsive notion that women are somehow less than men and the man is marrying an inferior being.

It also reflects an attitude that sex is somehow dirty and shameful. Many Americans seem to feel this way, as do their counterparts in the Middle East. I wish that these people would not try so hard to wreck heterosexual relationships.

If you love and respect a person, you accept who he or she is currently, which involves the sum total of their past experiences. If one cannot accept this simple concept, this person has no respect and should not marry.

 

[sealybobo]

Oh I don't know. There's nothing like those Canadian lumberjacks.

Hmm. Never considered them. I must take a look!

My two sister in laws were virgins before marriage. That’s a lost art.

Just what is the deal with virginity, anyway? It is evident from the fact that men don't practice it that it doesn't have anything to do with morality. So what's the deal?

A guy wants to know he’s the only one that’s ever been inside his wife’s vagina. Is there anything wrong with wanting that? No.

But he would regret himself never trying other vaginas.

What is wrong is that this "virginity" thing has been dumped on women for so long, just because of some obsession that men have, and we have borne the brunt of it, even though it does nothing for us. How many women and girls have wasted their time being yapped at by priests when they could have been out having some fun.`

What is wrong is that this virginity stuff has been marketed to women and girls in terms of "right" and "wrong," while we have established that there are no questions of "right" and "wrong," "morality," and "religion" actually in play.

Women might want to know where a man's penis has been before they partake. Also, women might like to try out a few before picking one for good. It works both ways.

Do you think the women’s liberation movement has a role in the destruction of the traditional family?

Of course it does. From women not staying virgins to women working, these things have changed the way we live.

There may be some bad things that happen because of this. For example the mom being controlled by the husband. Now that she works she isn’t so dependent on the man. And she’s not home raising the kids if she’s working. These things have changed our society for the worse. Kids aren’t being raised right.

But I’m sure women love being independent.

So women won’t go back to staying virgins till marriage. I don’t think it’s a good thing that she’s had multiple other dicks inside her.

And divorce isn’t good but women love having the option.

The only people who can make a success or failure of a family and child-raising are its two adult heads, both partners.The onus should not be on the woman, when they are both present.

Your statement about people and their genitalia is just plain grossly disgusting, totally shallow, and reflects a repulsive notion that women are somehow less than men and the man is marrying an inferior being.

It also reflects an attitude that sex is somehow dirty and shameful. Many Americans seem to feel this way, as do their counterparts in the Middle East. I wish that these people would not try so hard to wreck heterosexual relationships.

If you love and respect a person, you accept who he or she is currently, which involves the sum total of their past experiences. If one cannot accept this simple concept, this person has no respect and should not marry.

People who’ve had sex with other people before marriage tend to have sex with others after marriage too.

And they divorce at higher rates.

 

[Mindful]

Hmm. Never considered them. I must take a look!
Just what is the deal with virginity, anyway? It is evident from the fact that men don't practice it that it doesn't have anything to do with morality. So what's the deal?

A guy wants to know he’s the only one that’s ever been inside his wife’s vagina. Is there anything wrong with wanting that? No.

But he would regret himself never trying other vaginas.

What is wrong is that this "virginity" thing has been dumped on women for so long, just because of some obsession that men have, and we have borne the brunt of it, even though it does nothing for us. How many women and girls have wasted their time being yapped at by priests when they could have been out having some fun.`

What is wrong is that this virginity stuff has been marketed to women and girls in terms of "right" and "wrong," while we have established that there are no questions of "right" and "wrong," "morality," and "religion" actually in play.

Women might want to know where a man's penis has been before they partake. Also, women might like to try out a few before picking one for good. It works both ways.

Do you think the women’s liberation movement has a role in the destruction of the traditional family?

Of course it does. From women not staying virgins to women working, these things have changed the way we live.

There may be some bad things that happen because of this. For example the mom being controlled by the husband. Now that she works she isn’t so dependent on the man. And she’s not home raising the kids if she’s working. These things have changed our society for the worse. Kids aren’t being raised right.

But I’m sure women love being independent.

So women won’t go back to staying virgins till marriage. I don’t think it’s a good thing that she’s had multiple other dicks inside her.

And divorce isn’t good but women love having the option.

The only people who can make a success or failure of a family and child-raising are its two adult heads, both partners.The onus should not be on the woman, when they are both present.

Your statement about people and their genitalia is just plain grossly disgusting, totally shallow, and reflects a repulsive notion that women are somehow less than men and the man is marrying an inferior being.

It also reflects an attitude that sex is somehow dirty and shameful. Many Americans seem to feel this way, as do their counterparts in the Middle East. I wish that these people would not try so hard to wreck heterosexual relationships.

If you love and respect a person, you accept who he or she is currently, which involves the sum total of their past experiences. If one cannot accept this simple concept, this person has no respect and should not marry.

People who’ve had sex with other people before marriage tend to have sex with others after marriage too.

And they divorce at higher rates.

We seem to have veered off the cultural differences:


Ten Basic Differences Between the USA and Europe

 

[Lysistrata]

Hmm. Never considered them. I must take a look!
Just what is the deal with virginity, anyway? It is evident from the fact that men don't practice it that it doesn't have anything to do with morality. So what's the deal?

A guy wants to know he’s the only one that’s ever been inside his wife’s vagina. Is there anything wrong with wanting that? No.

But he would regret himself never trying other vaginas.

What is wrong is that this "virginity" thing has been dumped on women for so long, just because of some obsession that men have, and we have borne the brunt of it, even though it does nothing for us. How many women and girls have wasted their time being yapped at by priests when they could have been out having some fun.`

What is wrong is that this virginity stuff has been marketed to women and girls in terms of "right" and "wrong," while we have established that there are no questions of "right" and "wrong," "morality," and "religion" actually in play.

Women might want to know where a man's penis has been before they partake. Also, women might like to try out a few before picking one for good. It works both ways.

Do you think the women’s liberation movement has a role in the destruction of the traditional family?

Of course it does. From women not staying virgins to women working, these things have changed the way we live.

There may be some bad things that happen because of this. For example the mom being controlled by the husband. Now that she works she isn’t so dependent on the man. And she’s not home raising the kids if she’s working. These things have changed our society for the worse. Kids aren’t being raised right.

But I’m sure women love being independent.

So women won’t go back to staying virgins till marriage. I don’t think it’s a good thing that she’s had multiple other dicks inside her.

And divorce isn’t good but women love having the option.

The only people who can make a success or failure of a family and child-raising are its two adult heads, both partners.The onus should not be on the woman, when they are both present.

Your statement about people and their genitalia is just plain grossly disgusting, totally shallow, and reflects a repulsive notion that women are somehow less than men and the man is marrying an inferior being.

It also reflects an attitude that sex is somehow dirty and shameful. Many Americans seem to feel this way, as do their counterparts in the Middle East. I wish that these people would not try so hard to wreck heterosexual relationships.

If you love and respect a person, you accept who he or she is currently, which involves the sum total of their past experiences. If one cannot accept this simple concept, this person has no respect and should not marry.

People who’ve had sex with other people before marriage tend to have sex with others after marriage too.

And they divorce at higher rates.

I didn't know that. After reading so many posts on USMB about people going on military tours (and then we know the rest of the story), I'm pretty cynical.

A little story: after my mother died in 1995 after 52 years of marriage, my father was leafing through Washingtonian magazine when he came across the person ads. "MWM, seeks" "SBF seeks," etc. and he asked me what the abbreviations meant. Boy, did his eyebrows ever go up. I asked him what he thought about all these divorces and carrying on, and he said "people just don't mean what they say."

He loved the phrase "tell it like it is."

 

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A guy wants to know he’s the only one that’s ever been inside his wife’s vagina. Is there anything wrong with wanting that? No.

But he would regret himself never trying other vaginas.

What is wrong is that this "virginity" thing has been dumped on women for so long, just because of some obsession that men have, and we have borne the brunt of it, even though it does nothing for us. How many women and girls have wasted their time being yapped at by priests when they could have been out having some fun.`

What is wrong is that this virginity stuff has been marketed to women and girls in terms of "right" and "wrong," while we have established that there are no questions of "right" and "wrong," "morality," and "religion" actually in play.

Women might want to know where a man's penis has been before they partake. Also, women might like to try out a few before picking one for good. It works both ways.

Do you think the women’s liberation movement has a role in the destruction of the traditional family?

Of course it does. From women not staying virgins to women working, these things have changed the way we live.

There may be some bad things that happen because of this. For example the mom being controlled by the husband. Now that she works she isn’t so dependent on the man. And she’s not home raising the kids if she’s working. These things have changed our society for the worse. Kids aren’t being raised right.

But I’m sure women love being independent.

So women won’t go back to staying virgins till marriage. I don’t think it’s a good thing that she’s had multiple other dicks inside her.

And divorce isn’t good but women love having the option.

The only people who can make a success or failure of a family and child-raising are its two adult heads, both partners.The onus should not be on the woman, when they are both present.

Your statement about people and their genitalia is just plain grossly disgusting, totally shallow, and reflects a repulsive notion that women are somehow less than men and the man is marrying an inferior being.

It also reflects an attitude that sex is somehow dirty and shameful. Many Americans seem to feel this way, as do their counterparts in the Middle East. I wish that these people would not try so hard to wreck heterosexual relationships.

If you love and respect a person, you accept who he or she is currently, which involves the sum total of their past experiences. If one cannot accept this simple concept, this person has no respect and should not marry.

People who’ve had sex with other people before marriage tend to have sex with others after marriage too.

And they divorce at higher rates.

We seem to have veered off the cultural differences:


Ten Basic Differences Between the USA and Europe

You misspelled American bashing.