Your god allegedly made everything so it also made our intelligence.
And I see no evidence that god is love.
This god you speak orders his creations under threat of punishment to love him. Jesus said that to love him is to obey his commands
That is equating servitude under threat of divine retribution to love.
In my religion we do not believe in ex nihilo creation. Yes, some religions do believe that God created everything out of nothing but in my religion we believe that is a false doctrine. We believe that God creates from things that have already existed. We believe that intelligence and matter have always existed and from these things God has made world and living creatures and frankly all things that he has created. We don't believe intelligence or matter is created at all but is used to create other things. I think the following verse says this most clearly:
John 1:1-3
1 In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.
2 The same was in the beginning with God.
3 All things were made by him; and without him was not any thing made that was made.
In verse 3 it clarifies that all things were made by the Word and without him was not any thing made that was made. This verse tells us that the Word, who is Jesus Christ (see John 1:14), that Jesus made all things that were made. In other words, Jesus did not make anything that has always existed, but of things that were made, He made them.
When you say that you see no evidence that God is love, you first have to take the story of Jesus on faith and believe that He was who he said he was, ie the Son of God the Father in the flesh. You would have to have faith that he was the Messiah and that through him the salvation of all mankind occurs. If you can have faith in Christ and his teachings, you would understand that Jesus, who never sinned and was the very Son of God offered himself as a sacrifice for the sins of all the world. Jesus was able to be an acceptable sacrifice because he was the only one who ever lived on earth who never sinned and was a member of the godhead before the foundation of the world. The pain, suffering and death of Jesus was a complete and total unjust act upon him which God the Father would need to recompense. Jesus' recompense for the injustice upon him was to be allowed to forgive mankind of their sins if they would only repent. God the Father so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son so that all of mankind might be saved. Jesus so loved the world that he was willing to sacrifice himself by suffering the pain of all the sins of the world. No ordinary man could do this. But Jesus, being a God could bear the sins of all the world. I can't even fathom going through such pain and suffering which caused him to suffer both body and spirit and made him bleed from every pore of his body. Nobody even comes remotely close to suffering as much as Jesus has and he did it all because of his love for us.
The celestial kingdom, also known as the kingdom of heaven is a kingdom of laws. Only those who love and can abide by the laws of the kingdom will be allowed to live there. Otherwise, if sinners who are not repentant and willing to abide by the law of the kingdom were allowed to live there, then it wouldn't be heaven. It would be no different than living here upon the earth where we all commit sin and break laws. The commandments of God are the law of the celestial kingdom. It is a kingdom where everyone loves one another and will only do unto others as they would want done unto themselves.
The threat of punishment is that if you cannot learn to abide by a celestial law, then you cannot abide in the kingdom of heaven. You must them go to lower kingdoms where you are willing to abide by the laws of that kingdom. The lowest kingdom is outer darkness where those who become anti-Christs will abide. It is also know as the lake of fire and brimstone. Those who go there will have a bright recollection of the desire they had to go to the celestial kingdom before coming to the earth and realize that in they did not obtain the kingdom because of their desire to be Sons of Perdition. This regret will be as a lake of fire and brimstone in their minds. It really all decide based on one's personal free will choices of what kingdom's laws you are willing to obey. Those who love darkness rather than light will end up in outer darkness. All mankind has a free will choice of what manner of mankind they will be and by what laws they are willing to obey. If you love God and his commandments you will be willing to obey the laws of his kingdom. If not you will have to go to another kingdom where you are willing to abide by the laws of that kingdom. God has given us the free will to choose what law we are willing to obey and we choose the kingdom that we are willing to abide by the laws of that kingdom. God's punishment is simply putting you in the place that you are willing to abide the law.