ChrisL
Diamond Member
You have to have a lot of acceptance in a relationship because people change regularly and often make mistakes.
This is part of why I think polyamorous relationships are better for some people. No mistakes.
Perhaps, but those are a small portion of society. Most people aren't into that stuff. Most people get jealous and don't want to share their mate, and I think that's normal human behavior, don't you?
I don't concern myself with with others consider "normal". My life is not ruled by such notions or fears.
That said, yes, jealousy can be an issue. Poly is not for everyone. But sharing fantasies is perfectly normal, by most standards.
You can have fantasies and they don't have to involve other people, but each other. You just need to learn how to make yourself the object of your lovers fantasies, I think. You have to be sexy. Lol.
Variety is the spice of life. Just because you appreciate the beauty of another person, or are aroused by them, does not mean you have less attraction to your primary mate.
Mmm, hmmm. Sure.