College gal films porn in campus library

[Jarlaxle]

If I had a boyfriend who didn't care about who saw my body and wanted to just "show me off" I would think he really didn't love me at all. I am just "for show"

She's got all kinds of men looking at her and jerking off to her, men old enough to be her grandpa. She's gross to me.

Yeah, I'm sure she has aroused quite a few men. Some women like that. And since there is no actual physical contact, there is no actual harm. Consenting adults, remember?

And how many of the men she aroused used that arousal to please their wife or girlfriend? So, in fact, this girl could have had a positive effect on some couples out there. It is about the fantasy, not actual sex.

I wouldn't want sex with a man who needs to be turned on by looking at other women. LOL. I would leave him.

And he would probably be happier for it...................

 

[Jarlaxle]

the sex is so much better when you fantasize about each other instead of others.

If that is what makes you click, go for it. However, psychologists have said that fantasy is not only harmless, but actually good for a relationship.

And as for the girl in the OP, she might be making a good living with her webcam show, and never touching another person. I mean, since we are speculating.

Like I SAID, if that is the kind of women that you like, I don't care. My point stands.

What point? That she is a disgusting ho? That she is an attention whore? That fantasies (while in a relationship) are bad, despite most psychologists saying quite the contrary?

Hey, if that's the kind of relationship you want, more power to you. That is not what I would want. I would want my man to be thinking about MY body and me while we are having sex. I think MOST people would agree.

I feel that if my man NEEDS to fantasize about other women, then I'm not doing it for him, and I would move on to a man who appreciates me and my body.

No, I think most people would disagree. In fact, most people do fantasize on occasion, while having sex with their partners.

And most that do not...are lying!

 

[Syriusly]

Why is she a skank? Why the negative?

How did she harm anyone? She enjoys her sexuality. Why is that bad? She looked like she was careful to avoid being seen by others in the library. What exactly did she do wrong? Is it that she didn't wait until her wedding night to do anything sexual?

Let's put it to you this way. Would you want a girlfriend/wife who shared her body with every other man on the planet? Or would you like that to be just for you?

I enjoy women who enjoy their sexuality. I have no interest in a virgin, since they likely have no clue what they are doing.

Do you want a man who had zero experience?

I said nothing of virgins. Lol. It's the idea that all kinds of other men have seen your girlfriend/wife nude and masturbate over her. That's okay with you? If so, then whatever, but I think most men would not really appreciate that, and I can't say that I would blame them one bit.

Eh, to each their own. I see this woman doing no harm to anyone. She made a choice to do something she enjoyed. And now you label her a "skank". If you don't want to watch porn, don't watch it.

Well, if you were to be completely honest, I think you would agree.

What an ironic thing to say in a post.

If you were to be completely honest, I think you would agree that you are turned on by her performance and that makes you really, really uncomfortable.

I mean if we are going to go around telling others what they would say if they were being really, really honest......

 

[buddhallah_the_christ]

Ha, she's ridiculously cute. And my problem with the whole thing in these charges is - if NOBODY actually saw her nude and complained, how can she be charged at all? Who was 'injured' where legal action needs to be taken to balance the scales?

 

[rcfieldz]

Being attracted to another person sexually when in a marriage is a sinful act.

 

[QuickHitCurepon]

The only way a man would know about her video is if he frequented porn sites. And a man who watches enough porn to remember a specific woman in a single video is certainly in no position to judge her for doing it. Hell, he might like it.

Or if she gets caught, or he learns about it from a mutual friend.

 

[WinterBorn]

The only way a man would know about her video is if he frequented porn sites. And a man who watches enough porn to remember a specific woman in a single video is certainly in no position to judge her for doing it. Hell, he might like it.

Or if she gets caught, or he learns about it from a mutual friend.

He'll probably want to see the video.

 

[QuickHitCurepon]

I know several of my girlfriend's former boyfriends. I haven't seen any of them laugh. Two of them have tried to rekindle things, but that certainly isn't laughing. In fact, most are either glad sheis happy or are jealous of what I have.

Okay, but that's a little different than having your girlfriend/wife nudity on the internet. Like I said before too, her future husband, future children could easily see it too.
You probably just like her giant milk jugs.

No, I simply don't judge someone based on such trivial things.

And I am more of an ass man than a fan of "giant milk jugs". But the most important part of sex is her mind, not her genitals or tits.

Okay, that would be entirely up to you. Most men would not want a relationship with a woman like that and would only want her for one reason. Most people don't want to share their lover with everyone else. They like to feel special and like the "only one." They don't women who spread themselves around because it is indicative of loose morals. You know, things are the way they are for a reason. Women are discouraged from behaving in this manner for a reason. Society looks down upon them for a reason.

You can be as open-minded as you want, but don't be surprised when your girlfriend screws you over.

LMAO!! If you knew the relationship my girlfriend and I have, you would understand how funny that is.

The only way a man would know about her video is if he frequented porn sites. And a man who watches enough porn to remember a specific woman in a single video is certainly in no position to judge her for doing it. Hell, he might like it.

My problem with this whole thing is the idea that women should be selective and men should try and score as much as they can. While you did not espouse that idea, it is the basis for the whole "loose woman" idea.

Sorry, I'm really sick today and kind of of out of it.

Regarding your last statements, that IS the way things are, like it or not. Men are not suddenly going to accept loose women as serious companions. It's just not going to happen. I'm a woman, and I really don't have a problem with that. Most women do NOT want to share their body with every Tom, Dick and Harry anyways. It's disgusting!

Unless she grows up and out of it and improves herself a great deal.

 

[WinterBorn]

Okay, but that's a little different than having your girlfriend/wife nudity on the internet. Like I said before too, her future husband, future children could easily see it too.
You probably just like her giant milk jugs.

No, I simply don't judge someone based on such trivial things.

And I am more of an ass man than a fan of "giant milk jugs". But the most important part of sex is her mind, not her genitals or tits.

Okay, that would be entirely up to you. Most men would not want a relationship with a woman like that and would only want her for one reason. Most people don't want to share their lover with everyone else. They like to feel special and like the "only one." They don't women who spread themselves around because it is indicative of loose morals. You know, things are the way they are for a reason. Women are discouraged from behaving in this manner for a reason. Society looks down upon them for a reason.

You can be as open-minded as you want, but don't be surprised when your girlfriend screws you over.

LMAO!! If you knew the relationship my girlfriend and I have, you would understand how funny that is.

The only way a man would know about her video is if he frequented porn sites. And a man who watches enough porn to remember a specific woman in a single video is certainly in no position to judge her for doing it. Hell, he might like it.

My problem with this whole thing is the idea that women should be selective and men should try and score as much as they can. While you did not espouse that idea, it is the basis for the whole "loose woman" idea.

Sorry, I'm really sick today and kind of of out of it.

Regarding your last statements, that IS the way things are, like it or not. Men are not suddenly going to accept loose women as serious companions. It's just not going to happen. I'm a woman, and I really don't have a problem with that. Most women do NOT want to share their body with every Tom, Dick and Harry anyways. It's disgusting!

Unless she grows up and out of it and improves herself a great deal.

Or unless she finds a man who shares her interests and they both enjoy themselves.

 

[QuickHitCurepon]

The only way a man would know about her video is if he frequented porn sites. And a man who watches enough porn to remember a specific woman in a single video is certainly in no position to judge her for doing it. Hell, he might like it.

Or if she gets caught, or he learns about it from a mutual friend.

He'll probably want to see the video.

Yea, he might want to get deeply involved.

 

[QuickHitCurepon]

No, I simply don't judge someone based on such trivial things.

And I am more of an ass man than a fan of "giant milk jugs". But the most important part of sex is her mind, not her genitals or tits.

Okay, that would be entirely up to you. Most men would not want a relationship with a woman like that and would only want her for one reason. Most people don't want to share their lover with everyone else. They like to feel special and like the "only one." They don't women who spread themselves around because it is indicative of loose morals. You know, things are the way they are for a reason. Women are discouraged from behaving in this manner for a reason. Society looks down upon them for a reason.

You can be as open-minded as you want, but don't be surprised when your girlfriend screws you over.

LMAO!! If you knew the relationship my girlfriend and I have, you would understand how funny that is.

The only way a man would know about her video is if he frequented porn sites. And a man who watches enough porn to remember a specific woman in a single video is certainly in no position to judge her for doing it. Hell, he might like it.

My problem with this whole thing is the idea that women should be selective and men should try and score as much as they can. While you did not espouse that idea, it is the basis for the whole "loose woman" idea.

Sorry, I'm really sick today and kind of of out of it.

Regarding your last statements, that IS the way things are, like it or not. Men are not suddenly going to accept loose women as serious companions. It's just not going to happen. I'm a woman, and I really don't have a problem with that. Most women do NOT want to share their body with every Tom, Dick and Harry anyways. It's disgusting!

Unless she grows up and out of it and improves herself a great deal.

Or unless she finds a man who shares her interests and they both enjoy themselves.

I kinda agree with what was suggested earlier that she did it for a publicity stunt.

 

[QuickHitCurepon]

But the idea that a woman should forego her own pleasure and avoid doing something she wants to do, because it mind bother some future romantic partner is simply tragic in its nature. She is 19. While the criminal record might haunt her, I doubt the rest will unless she runs for public office. Look at the number of celebrities who have had sex tapes get out. Do you think those are all the celebs who had sex tapes? Do you think this is really going to ruin this girl?

Won't she have to register as a sex offender? I thought you had to even if they arrest you for urinating in public.

 

[ChrisL]

Let's put it to you this way. Would you want a girlfriend/wife who shared her body with every other man on the planet? Or would you like that to be just for you?

I enjoy women who enjoy their sexuality. I have no interest in a virgin, since they likely have no clue what they are doing.

Do you want a man who had zero experience?

I said nothing of virgins. Lol. It's the idea that all kinds of other men have seen your girlfriend/wife nude and masturbate over her. That's okay with you? If so, then whatever, but I think most men would not really appreciate that, and I can't say that I would blame them one bit.

Eh, to each their own. I see this woman doing no harm to anyone. She made a choice to do something she enjoyed. And now you label her a "skank". If you don't want to watch porn, don't watch it.

Well, if you were to be completely honest, I think you would agree.

What an ironic thing to say in a post.

If you were to be completely honest, I think you would agree that you are turned on by her performance and that makes you really, really uncomfortable.

I mean if we are going to go around telling others what they would say if they were being really, really honest......

Oh yes, that must be it. It couldn't be that I think it's really dumb.

 

[ChrisL]

But the idea that a woman should forego her own pleasure and avoid doing something she wants to do, because it mind bother some future romantic partner is simply tragic in its nature. She is 19. While the criminal record might haunt her, I doubt the rest will unless she runs for public office. Look at the number of celebrities who have had sex tapes get out. Do you think those are all the celebs who had sex tapes? Do you think this is really going to ruin this girl?

Won't she have to register as a sex offender? I thought you had to even if they arrest you for urinating in public.

Interesting question.

 

[ChrisL]

If I had a boyfriend who didn't care about who saw my body and wanted to just "show me off" I would think he really didn't love me at all. I am just "for show"

She's got all kinds of men looking at her and jerking off to her, men old enough to be her grandpa. She's gross to me.

Yeah, I'm sure she has aroused quite a few men. Some women like that. And since there is no actual physical contact, there is no actual harm. Consenting adults, remember?

And how many of the men she aroused used that arousal to please their wife or girlfriend? So, in fact, this girl could have had a positive effect on some couples out there. It is about the fantasy, not actual sex.

I wouldn't want sex with a man who needs to be turned on by looking at other women. LOL. I would leave him.

And he would probably be happier for it...................

Hey, I'm just happy not to be in a relationship with a guy like you. There are nice guys out there.

 

[ChrisL]

That's fine. Most men wouldn't be interested in a woman with such loose morals. Most men (and women) want a partner who saves their body for only them. That is what makes it special. If you share it with everyone else, it isn't so special anymore.

This sums up my thoughts nicely...

Well I see you in the morning
Putting on your pretty clothes
And I watch you do your makeup
Like they do in all those fashion shows
Then you turn to me so that I can see
If you put your self together right
Then you go away and you're gone all day
But I know you're coming home tonight
And when you're home, darling all you've got to be is you
But when in Rome, do as the Romans do

??? Get lost weirdo.

 

[ChrisL]

Sorry if some of you find it offensive that I would want my man to be fantasizing about me and to have some standards, but that is just the way it is.

 

[QuickHitCurepon]

That is not all that counts. Maybe in her mind right now at this moment, but I'm quite sure she is going to regret doing that. Those pictures/videos are online forever. Anyone can access them. People need to have a little more couth and class.

Or they need to quit worrying about what people think so much. Yeah, I think putting the video out there may come back to haunt her. I am forever grateful that my wildest days were long before digital cameras and cell phones.

But the idea that a woman should forego her own pleasure and avoid doing something she wants to do, because it mind bother some future romantic partner is simply tragic in its nature. She is 19. While the criminal record might haunt her, I doubt the rest will unless she runs for public office. Look at the number of celebrities who have had sex tapes get out. Do you think those are all the celebs who had sex tapes? Do you think this is really going to ruin this girl?

Hell, she may be starting a new career in porn.

Do you think that's good? Okay, well obviously, classy doesn't mean much for you. Some guys like women like that, whatever.

I don't judge someone as classy or not based on whether or not they indulge in kinky behaviors.

This was not "kinky" at all. Lol. Just trashy.

You are welcome to your opinion. But this girl didn't do anything to warrant jail time. She was reasonably careful to only expose herself to the webcam when no one else could see. If they did not see the video (posted on a porn site) they would never have known it happened.

It brings new meaning to, "Shhh! Quiet in the library."

 

[WinterBorn]

Sorry if some of you find it offensive that I would want my man to be fantasizing about me and to have some standards, but that is just the way it is.

No need to apologize. I have no problem if you and your man want to be as you say. I just dislike the judgemental nature of some of the posts. Knowing so little about this girl certainly didn't stop some people from making outrageous claims about her motivations and about her character.

 

[ChrisL]

Sorry if some of you find it offensive that I would want my man to be fantasizing about me and to have some standards, but that is just the way it is.

No need to apologize. I have no problem if you and your man want to be as you say. I just dislike the judgemental nature of some of the posts. Knowing so little about this girl certainly didn't stop some people from making outrageous claims about her motivations and about her character.

Everything I said was the truth. I said MOST men would not want a serious relationship with a woman who is nude all over the internet, or a woman who would do that, and I think that is the truth. Not to say that NO men would be with her. Let's be honest here.