So god is sitting around waiting for people to shack up so he can burn them? But he lets pedophile priests simply move to another parish to make some fresh victims? Kinda weird, no?
We first need to come to terms with God and who He is. God is all loving and good. He is just, which we can take as His commitment that He will right wrongs done to us. He is merciful, which we can take as He will be merciful to us as He also delivers justice to those we have wronged.
Is shacking up the ideal form of love or the ideal good? If it is not, then justice and mercy come into play.
As far as your comment on pedophile priests....you need to move forward several decades. You are living in the past.