I am indeed. Thangyew. Thangyew vurra much.
No, I am the realistic one. You want to bury your head in the sand and deny that there are real "social" problems with ONE particular religion pretty much everywhere it seems.
I do deny that it applies to "ONE particular religion", yes. That makes me the one with his head OUT OF the sand.
That's because I don't just swallow every meme the media tries to sell me without putting it through a smell test.
An approach you might be well advised to try.
And it does not go unnoticed that your last two words are "it seems". "It seems" just ain't good enough.
Well if you deny that most of the honor killing violence you hear about is not usually related to ONE particular religion, then I am going to call you "ostrich boy."
Dear
ChrisL
With the honor killings, how many of these come out of Pakistani families?
I asked a Muslim friend of mine, and he said it is tied to Pakistani culture.
I would compare "honor killings" to equally tragic reports from India
of women burned alive on the funeral pyres of their husbands
Yes, it's illegal to do this.
But "some people" are still carrying out old traditions, because of their social conditioning.
For these illegal acts coming out of India, is it fair to blame this on "Hinduism"?
It may be part of the old CULTURE,
but of course it isn't part of the law or religious beliefs that are AGAINST such acts.
If you are looking for an easy answer to blame it on,
I don't think this is going to solve the problem.
The conditioning goes deeper.
Burning a widow on the funeral pyre of her husband is DEFINITELY a rite linked to
Hinduism. I have never met a HINDU who denied that fact. I have known lots of educated hindus-----it has been made illegal in India and was probably restricted to
WEALTHY UPPER CLASS hindus even in ancient times. Lots of hindu girls find it
"romantic" There is a belief that burning together will give the couple ---eternal togetherness in the reincarnation game. Muslims who deny that FGM is
linked to islam are lying. There have been a few cases of hindu wives PREVENTED from jumping on the funeral pyre who committed suicide in order
to accomplish the custom. "BLAME"??? why say "blame" an honest
evaluation is the answer. ---------sati >>>HINDU FGM >>> islam -----out dated
and in some places illegal. Sati is illegal and-----seems to be not done in India---
FGM is done in Pakistan-----and thruout the Islamic world ----in some places
it is illegal. Anthropology is a real social science-----liars do it poorly
Dear
irosie91
Why is it that some of the people who BLAME the slavery of blacks in America
on either Christian or Government laws
can FORGIVE and SEPARATE the practice of slavery FROM the
proper practice of Christianity and democratic govt.
While others CANNOT and keep BLAMING Christianity and govt for having instituted slavery in the past?
Now, I happen to be one of the people who can SEPARATE
the founding and the past applications of govt that did institute slavery
FROM the CORRECT practices of Christianity and Constitutionalism that PRECLUDE slavery
which is ultimately against Christian and Constitutional principles and spirit.
Why can't the same be done with Islam and Hinduism, even Atheism --
ANY belief system that gets targeted and blamed as a class?
Some of the traditions tied to religions may be as bad or worse
than Slavery that used to be part of American society.
If we can separate the bad from the good in that case,
why can't we do the same with any other case where this has happened?
Do we really benefit from finding an "easy target to blame this on"
Does is really do a thing to stop slavery today
to "blame it on" Christians or Constitutional founders for practicing it in the past?
Does it stop the people doing "honor killings" by blaming all Muslims?
Doesn't that dilute and misdirect the blame, so the wrongdoers get away with it
by distracting attention from the real problems with these people justifying attacks on women?
If the solution is using spiritual healing from Christianity to cure the generational ills
causing this behavior, then let's be specific about that. Let's study and prove the cure for these ills.
Not just run around blaming and not fixing the real cause of the problems.
How is that going to solve anything?
I find it's not a simple answer of "blaming Islam" or "blaming Hinduism"
The key difference I find is whether some person or some group
takes a RETRIBUTIVE approach or a RESTORATIVE approach to justice.
The common factor I find in acts of murder, abuse, criminal attacks, etc.
is Unforgiveness expressed as RETRIBUTION, out of ILL WILL for the person/group being TARGETED.
The common factor I find in people who DON'T abuse others is
FORGIVENESS and compassion/inclusion of all people in SOLVING the root problem for mutual benefit of all.
So this is beyond just religious labels.
irosie91 you are not going to get your answer
by targeting one group, thinking finding the right label to blame it on is going to solve these problems.
OTHERWISE WE'D BE DONE BY NOW
Of course it isn't clear cut by group label.
Nobody and nothing would have to change, if all we had to do is find one group to blame it on.
Clearly the BEHAVIOR must change.
And the real key, the real wisdom here is seeing that every person
in every group has some of this divisive retributive behavior and ILL WILL
that is equally fueling the fire. And we must ALL eliminate this ill will,
and negative projection back and forth if we are going to address and resolve the REAL problems
we share across cultures and nations.
It isn't just one group we can neatly label and blame.
The same problem must be uprooted and removed wherever it is found.
It takes all of us to do that, not just pointing to one group and demanding change outside ourselves.
Not so easy, why do you think the world suffers so much war?
People still think the problem is "that other person" "that other group" that needs to change.
So that's why we stay stuck.