Survey: Sexual Orientation (9 Options)

[Bonzi]

sounds like you need to move to get your "fantasy come true" - I'd love to see you come to Jesus, instead, but if won't, you should live in the world and do at it takes to make your fleshly dreams come true....

Often times, our fantasies are more satisfying when they remain fantasies.

I've found that to be true. The reality is never as good as the fantasy. I wonder why?

Simple enough I think. In our fantasies we don't have to wear condoms or worry about getting naything icky. Fantasies are perfect in every way. Reality, we're lucky and having a pretty darned good day if 1 or 2 things we imagine in a fantasy are in play.

why do people even deal with the "real world" then?

Conditioning. Most uncomfortable with masturbation have simply been conditioned to view other people as the means to their own satisfaction. I was raised to rely upon myself for my sexual pleasure. And while I also enjoyed other people, it was never my first choice.

I've always felt people who got horny and went to a singles bar or found a less than ideal partner elsewhere were fundamentally weak. If your pleasure is dependent upon another person's willingness, you're making yourself very weak indeed. So much simpler, quicker, cheaper to take 30 mins and satisfy those urges on your own. Then reassess if you're really interested in someone once the sexual aspect has been suppressed.

I don't think it's a weakness as much as a preference. I think (like you said, I believe) it's all determined based on early childhood experiences and "imprinting".... I have known men that "resent" having to masturbate. I just am not sure if that is physical or psychological (primarily).

 

[Delta4Embassy]

Often times, our fantasies are more satisfying when they remain fantasies.

I've found that to be true. The reality is never as good as the fantasy. I wonder why?

Simple enough I think. In our fantasies we don't have to wear condoms or worry about getting naything icky. Fantasies are perfect in every way. Reality, we're lucky and having a pretty darned good day if 1 or 2 things we imagine in a fantasy are in play.

why do people even deal with the "real world" then?

Conditioning. Most uncomfortable with masturbation have simply been conditioned to view other people as the means to their own satisfaction. I was raised to rely upon myself for my sexual pleasure. And while I also enjoyed other people, it was never my first choice.

I've always felt people who got horny and went to a singles bar or found a less than ideal partner elsewhere were fundamentally weak. If your pleasure is dependent upon another person's willingness, you're making yourself very weak indeed. So much simpler, quicker, cheaper to take 30 mins and satisfy those urges on your own. Then reassess if you're really interested in someone once the sexual aspect has been suppressed.

I don't think it's a weakness as much as a preference. I think (like you said, I believe) it's all determined based on early childhood experiences and "imprinting".... I have known men that "resent" having to masturbate. I just am not sure if that is physical or psychological (primarily).

Consider it 'getting to' in how I live alone. When I'm horny, I can alleviate that at will. So I can't empathize very well with those who have a problem masturbating. Much as I hate the cliche', if you have an itch don't you scratch it?

I think masturbation is still very much taboo, despite the porn industry. I've always had the impression despite all the porn and suggestive clothing and entertainments, we still don't regard such things as masturbaiton-material. It's like when porn was still being shown in theatres (since VCRs hadn't been invented yet.) Did they really expect people to just sit there and watch people having sex and NOT masturbate? That wasn't very realistic.

 

[Bonzi]

I've found that to be true. The reality is never as good as the fantasy. I wonder why?

Simple enough I think. In our fantasies we don't have to wear condoms or worry about getting naything icky. Fantasies are perfect in every way. Reality, we're lucky and having a pretty darned good day if 1 or 2 things we imagine in a fantasy are in play.

why do people even deal with the "real world" then?

Conditioning. Most uncomfortable with masturbation have simply been conditioned to view other people as the means to their own satisfaction. I was raised to rely upon myself for my sexual pleasure. And while I also enjoyed other people, it was never my first choice.

I've always felt people who got horny and went to a singles bar or found a less than ideal partner elsewhere were fundamentally weak. If your pleasure is dependent upon another person's willingness, you're making yourself very weak indeed. So much simpler, quicker, cheaper to take 30 mins and satisfy those urges on your own. Then reassess if you're really interested in someone once the sexual aspect has been suppressed.

I don't think it's a weakness as much as a preference. I think (like you said, I believe) it's all determined based on early childhood experiences and "imprinting".... I have known men that "resent" having to masturbate. I just am not sure if that is physical or psychological (primarily).

Consider it 'getting to' in how I live alone. When I'm horny, I can alleviate that at will. So I can't empathize very well with those who have a problem masturbating. Much as I hate the cliche', if you have an itch don't you scratch it?

I think masturbation is still very much taboo, despite the porn industry. I've always had the impression despite all the porn and suggestive clothing and entertainments, we still don't regard such things as masturbaiton-material. It's like when porn was still being shown in theatres (since VCRs hadn't been invented yet.) Did they really expect people to just sit there and watch people having sex and NOT masturbate? That wasn't very realistic.

I don't think it's taboo (the act) - I think it does have a "stigma" attached to it (patheticness) - but I think most people do it - they just don't like talking about it (or are not comfortable talking about it) -mostly because they are afraid of what others will think of them.....

 

[sealybobo]

Please feel free to expand/explain or go into detail.

Straight. Tab A to Slot A, as nature prefers.

If we were in prison or a deserted island for ten years my tab a would end up in your b slot. But you better not get erect from me doing it because that'd be gay.

Nay. You would either be tossed from the upper deck, or utilized as a chum line.

Oh there would be tossing going on. My salad

 

[sealybobo]

Simple enough I think. In our fantasies we don't have to wear condoms or worry about getting naything icky. Fantasies are perfect in every way. Reality, we're lucky and having a pretty darned good day if 1 or 2 things we imagine in a fantasy are in play.

why do people even deal with the "real world" then?

Conditioning. Most uncomfortable with masturbation have simply been conditioned to view other people as the means to their own satisfaction. I was raised to rely upon myself for my sexual pleasure. And while I also enjoyed other people, it was never my first choice.

I've always felt people who got horny and went to a singles bar or found a less than ideal partner elsewhere were fundamentally weak. If your pleasure is dependent upon another person's willingness, you're making yourself very weak indeed. So much simpler, quicker, cheaper to take 30 mins and satisfy those urges on your own. Then reassess if you're really interested in someone once the sexual aspect has been suppressed.

I don't think it's a weakness as much as a preference. I think (like you said, I believe) it's all determined based on early childhood experiences and "imprinting".... I have known men that "resent" having to masturbate. I just am not sure if that is physical or psychological (primarily).

Consider it 'getting to' in how I live alone. When I'm horny, I can alleviate that at will. So I can't empathize very well with those who have a problem masturbating. Much as I hate the cliche', if you have an itch don't you scratch it?

I think masturbation is still very much taboo, despite the porn industry. I've always had the impression despite all the porn and suggestive clothing and entertainments, we still don't regard such things as masturbaiton-material. It's like when porn was still being shown in theatres (since VCRs hadn't been invented yet.) Did they really expect people to just sit there and watch people having sex and NOT masturbate? That wasn't very realistic.

I don't think it's taboo (the act) - I think it does have a "stigma" attached to it (patheticness) - but I think most people do it - they just don't like talking about it (or are not comfortable talking about it) -mostly because they are afraid of what others will think of them.....

I'm going to look at each of the three women I work with and imagine them masterbating. That's hot. Now imagine me asking them about it. Can you imagine?

 

[Delta4Embassy]

Anyone else wondering who the 'bisexual' is?

 

[Bonzi]

Anyone else wondering who the 'bisexual' is?

I thought it was you....

 

[Delta4Embassy]

Anyone else wondering who the 'bisexual' is?

I thought it was you....

Mine was 'other' and explained in a reply as just 'sexual' with asexual tendencies.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

I don't as a rule believe in the various x-sexualities as real things. Thing they're just figures of speech others use to persecute those of whatever sexuality they don't like.

In the ancient world everybody just had sex. Wasn't gay or straight or anything else. Sex was sex. Find that model much more inclusive and accurate given the ease with which we change our preferences based on situation, inebriation, incarceration, etc.

Cultural standards and definitions play a part too in how sexual orientations are defined. What's gay and straight to us in the US isn't the same as in say Brazil.

 

[mudwhistle]

It really depends on the partner.

Baby's gotta have a lot of junk.

 

[mudwhistle]

Please feel free to expand/explain or go into detail.

Straight. Tab A to Slot A, as nature prefers.

A trysexual eh?

Is that someone who does it only on a bike?

 

[Bonzi]

Anyone else wondering who the 'bisexual' is?

I thought it was you....

Mine was 'other' and explained in a reply as just 'sexual' with asexual tendencies.

... oh yes, I remember now... well 'twasn't me!

 

[mudwhistle]

Where's the "Only likes rubbing his rhubarb" choice?

 

[Bonzi]

Where's the "Only likes rubbing his rhubarb" choice?

everyone likes that....

 

[sealybobo]

Anyone else wondering who the 'bisexual' is?

Sure I experimented with homosexuality in college a couple times but who didn't, right? RIGHT? Hello? Anyone? LOL

 

[Delta4Embassy]

Anyone else wondering who the 'bisexual' is?

Sure I experimented with homosexuality in college a couple times but who didn't, right? RIGHT? Hello? Anyone? LOL

What happened at college stays at college.

 

[sealybobo]

Anyone else wondering who the 'bisexual' is?

Sure I experimented with homosexuality in college a couple times but who didn't, right? RIGHT? Hello? Anyone? LOL

What happened at college stays at college.

Crabs, drugs, women I hope I never see again, etc. No men though. The only reason I selected bisexual is because if I was in jail for life I'd probably let a guy blow me. Just being honest. Or if I was on a deserted island for over a year and it didn't seem like we would ever be saved. The question is, would I ever be the catcher? I guess it depends on how big his cock is. LOL. OMG I'm weirding myself out.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

Anyone else wondering who the 'bisexual' is?

Sure I experimented with homosexuality in college a couple times but who didn't, right? RIGHT? Hello? Anyone? LOL

What happened at college stays at college.

Crabs, drugs, women I hope I never see again, etc. No men though. The only reason I selected bisexual is because if I was in jail for life I'd probably let a guy blow me. Just being honest. Or if I was on a deserted island for over a year and it didn't seem like we would ever be saved. The question is, would I ever be the catcher? I guess it depends on how big his cock is. LOL. OMG I'm weirding myself out.

Was with a guy once that when I saw his penis I literally said, "Oh. No, no I change my mind." Was pornstar huge. Too much of a good thing. Tried sucking him but got instant jaw fatigue.

 

[sealybobo]

Anyone else wondering who the 'bisexual' is?

Sure I experimented with homosexuality in college a couple times but who didn't, right? RIGHT? Hello? Anyone? LOL

What happened at college stays at college.

Crabs, drugs, women I hope I never see again, etc. No men though. The only reason I selected bisexual is because if I was in jail for life I'd probably let a guy blow me. Just being honest. Or if I was on a deserted island for over a year and it didn't seem like we would ever be saved. The question is, would I ever be the catcher? I guess it depends on how big his cock is. LOL. OMG I'm weirding myself out.

Was with a guy once that when I saw his penis I literally said, "Oh. No, no I change my mind." Was pornstar huge. Too much of a good thing. Tried sucking him but got instant jaw fatigue.

The other day I was at Lifetime Fitness and this guy ran from the shower to his locker as fast as he could because he had a raging hard on. I would have been embarrassed for him if his cock wasn't so big. Lol instead I was jealous. Still what the hell was he hard about?

 

[sealybobo]

Anyone else wondering who the 'bisexual' is?

Sure I experimented with homosexuality in college a couple times but who didn't, right? RIGHT? Hello? Anyone? LOL

What happened at college stays at college.

Crabs, drugs, women I hope I never see again, etc. No men though. The only reason I selected bisexual is because if I was in jail for life I'd probably let a guy blow me. Just being honest. Or if I was on a deserted island for over a year and it didn't seem like we would ever be saved. The question is, would I ever be the catcher? I guess it depends on how big his cock is. LOL. OMG I'm weirding myself out.

Was with a guy once that when I saw his penis I literally said, "Oh. No, no I change my mind." Was pornstar huge. Too much of a good thing. Tried sucking him but got instant jaw fatigue.

If this is true, did you select straight or bi?