My personal experience is with the black men that dated or married my oldest sister. She dated or married in the 70's so that might be part of it.
Basically every black man that dated my sister and the one that married her all abused her. I had to stop her husband from punching her one day.
I have no problem with whom dates whom. More power too ya, but my limited experience is not a good one when it comes to how black men in the 70's treated women in General.
My wife is Filipino so color is no problem for me.