I would like to hear from both sides on this.
My definition of a modern day liberal is someone that wants a big intrusive controlling government, someone who wants wealth and income redistribution, someone who wants abortion on demand but does not want the 2nd amendment upheld, someone who wants to punish success and reward failure, someone who is comfortable being a slave to the government and wants an active thought and speech police.
...... So how come you ask for "both sides" -- and then immediately pollute the debate with a slanted diatribe? You notice how long it took for Godwin's Law to arrive? The next post.
That whole mantra about "big government" was something the Reaganites invented. "Big government" has never been a goal of anybody; not in this country anyway. Just another facile pandering pseudoargument to demonize the opposition in the licentious quest for personal power. There is no point to "big government", unless you're a top-down hierarchy like the Soviet Union.
The rest of your laundry list is just reactionary bullshit not based on even a wisp of philosophy, a cherry-pick of hot-button issues of strictly recent vintage, signifying nothing philosophically. You've polluted your own discussion before it starts, which renders the whole thing worthless, as your pretentious claim to want "both sides" is a joke.
For what it's worth, liberal means liberty. That means freedom of expression and livelihood. The entire "Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness" sentiments, drawing off the Rousseau and Voltaire ideas of the time, are eminently liberalism. It's the cloth the United States is made from. "Nothing in America's founding, or the creation of the United States, was of a conservative nature" -- John Dean,
Conservatives Without Conscience, p. 12
If you want an honest discussion you'll have to present it more honestly than you have here. This isn't even close.