What do you think is the reason for me not being able to find a boyfriend

[The Duke]

You should rethink Mortimer. You are both the same level of boring.

You understand that, don't you? People, men and women are looking for the exciting and dynamic. Someone who posts online and daydreams about pointless stuff is never going to find a partner. Boring oozes out of you and it leaves a scent.

I'm not trying to be nasty or hurt you. Just be realistic. Change if you want someone.

Naw, I'm looking for a good meal, house kept well, and a blowjob when I get home.
And sleeping spooned up with my hand on a titty.
That's all. - kids
If there's kids? The ***** better not be neglecting them.

No really if the woman is not doing right by the children, she's got to go.
I'm almost at the upper end of that happening, I sure would like it to. I messed up with that 6'3" girl with the small yet nice titties. A couple others, too. This cracker has made some mistakes.
I boned the hell out of this pretty girl in some kinda class, but then I saw this boy and the way he looked at her, and knew I had to let hem be.
If I woulda denied this boy his love, I woulda been a dickhead. I never said anything. Probably still have nail marks on my back, oh, she was passionate.
Had to let that go. I do what I think is right. Doesn't always work out to my sexual gratitude, but IDGAF.

 

[JustAnotherNut]

That's very obvious though. If I were a guy and a girl asked me that, I'd know she wants my dick.

What's obvious, is why you don't have a boyfriend.

 

[MayorQuimby]

Where are you looking?

Right now, I am not looking, but am seriously considering moving to another town where there are more of the types of guys I want to date.

Naw, I'm looking for a good meal,

That's what I have heard a lot. How important is it to a guy that the woman can cook? I feel that I would make a pretty decent wife except in the kitchen area. I simply cannot cook anything more elaborate than boiled asparagus.

I messed with that 6'3" girl with the small yet nice titties.

Not sure why any man would date a 6 foot 3 woman unless he is 7 foot 1 himself.

What's obvious, is why you don't have a boyfriend.

Really? How so sir? Explain to me please.

 

[Dr.Destructo]

Aside from my looks, which, really aren't terrible. I am not saying I am hot, I am not, but I really don't think I am hideous, either. So I don't think it has to do with my looks.

So, based on the way I act, do you think there is something about me that puts men off? What do you think of me and my behaviors/personality? If you have any advice for me, what will it be? If I were an OK-looking woman in real life, would you date me based on my personality?

Thanks in advance

Don't know anything about you.........so this is just basic sense stuff.

Be you, not who you think they want you to be.
Be a friend first, if anything happens later on.......you can deal with it then.
Men like to talk about the world and whats going on in it. Most men don't like talking about feelings, emotions, marriage, dating, and intimate stuff when just meeting. This kind of stuff is what happens when both of you think its getting "serious".
You can talk about you, but also ask about HIM.....hobbies, sports, cars/trucks, his job.........those usually give an indication of what type of guy he is.
If just meeting or going on a first date, don't give "girl answers" to his questions. The all dreaded "where do you want to go or where do you want to eat"..........give him options to choose from that won't break the bank. Or just go someplace that sells nibbles and munchies that both of you can get on your own.

Don't expect anything.
Also, don't deny a good talk doesn't outweigh his looks or physique. It takes time to get to know another person. This is why America has the highest divorce rate on earth. Nobody gets to know each other FIRST. They just bang one out and then move in together........or get married........and then it all turns to shit because they never took the time to get to know each other.

 

[Crepitus]

Right now, I am not looking, but am seriously considering moving to another town where there are more of the types of guys I want to date.

What types of guy do you want to date? (I'm not offering myself, Miya and I are happy together)

 

[Crepitus]

Not sure why any man would date a 6 foot 3 woman unless he is 7 foot 1 himself.

At 5'8" i have dated a number of women taller than me.

 

[BothWings]

Thank you sir and it was very well-written. I can tell you must be a very intelligent person.

You hit the nail on the head with the "I was more looking for a wife" thing. I think I am the same way. I remember telling people online that I wanted to move to a university town to find a husband and they were like telling me it was the wrong mindset. Said things like how I would scare men away. But anyway, I honestly feel that dating that does not lead to marriage is a huge waste of time. The only reason I would date multiple men is so that I can find one who is the most suitable partner for me, you know, try and cast the net wide. If I ever find one that's the whole package for me, I see no reason to sample the delights of all the rest of them. I just want to settle down, find a guy to share life with, and then move onto the next chapter of my life. I have never understood people who date for the sake of dating. Dating takes up a huge amount of time and energy. Honestly, dating is almost like a chore to me.

A few times after I started getting sort of tight with a woman we suddenly came to the realization how time we were spending together, and it was mutually like "Are we...uhhh.... DATING? Is that was we're doing?? I guess we are. I guess we're dating!"

We had a mutual laugh over it. Actually, all or most of my relationships got started like that, and then there was just a shrug of content acceptance and we got on with doing the things that enamored people do together.

I think consecutive monogamy is important, and casting a wide net will just force to have to sort out a whole lot of people and their stuff, and likely convince the more serious ones that you are not in fact serious yourself. I have occasionally been with the same people twice. One time it was twice in about 3 years with a short relationship in between. There should always be periods of rest and celibacy between relationships, for reflection and cleansing on multiple levels, IMO.

Another time I worked with a woman with whom I had a powerful chemistry . Things weren't quite "right" at the time so we kind of turned away from each other but remained friendly and met from time to time. Maybe the feelings were too intense for both of us initially. Seven whole years later we finally started mingling again and that time it erupted into a fairly passionate affair. But it was again a little too much. She was a sweet and affectionate playgirl with a heart of gold, a great friend, but who was terrified of conscious long term commitment. And I was (and still am) somewhat chill and easygoing on the outside but very serious and goal-oriented on the inside, which makes itself evident eventually when challenged. Each of our personalities had architecture which was the reverse of each other, but not "opposite" in the traditional sense. Anyway, she was the last relationship I had before I took my last hiatus before meeting my wife of the last 17 years. And there was even a time when I was first getting to my wife and we had our first "fight". Within days I mysteriously met that ex who bumped into me at a supermarket one day, which was nice. We had a gold chat. And in an act of desperation I started to pursue her again. Within a week I scared her away forever as she realized I would ALWAYS be a very serious man under the surface. And a few days later my wife (then just a friend) resumed our relationship and it slowly became what it is today.

Most importantly I think there is a true karmic, dharmic, intelligent, fateful kind of storyline which we are only partly in control of. Finding yourself romantically is like origami. There's a very specific way it has to unfold for you, hopefully without tearing the paper in the process. Little by little it opens up step by step and you see what it really looks like. It's very important to recognize the steps and the people involved without jumping to conclusions about who or what they are. It took about 7 relationships ranging from several 2-to-3 year relationships and including 1 one-night stand to unfold who I was. They were all important to my evolution. I know it now and I also knew it then.

 

[The Duke]

Right now, I am not looking, but am seriously considering moving to another town where there are more of the types of guys I want to date.


That's what I have heard a lot. How important is it to a guy that the woman can cook? I feel that I would make a pretty decent wife except in the kitchen area. I simply cannot cook anything more elaborate than boiled asparagus.



Not sure why any man would date a 6 foot 3 woman unless he is 7 foot 1 himself.


Really? How so sir? Explain to me please.

I found her quite attractive, and she certainly did me right.
She may have had smaller titties, but her ass and her attitude were on point.
I actually had to run a jerbroni off while she was uhh...servicing my unit with her sweet lips.
She didn't miss a stroke, but I was ready to beat his ass cuz he he was getting rapey.
I'm sure her ass looked good on the other end, but she wasn't into that. And that happened.
I had to run him off. Yeah, that happened, I had to run off a horny young goober that was watching a fine girl giving me head with her ass moving all sexy and all that.. She wasn't down with it. She wanted me. We talked about this somehow.
I got a no, he had to go.
I shoulda done what she wanted later.
About an hour later. Yeah, I regret that, she would have been a good wife.
She married this other guy within a couple months. He was cool too, tbh. I hope they did great.
I liked that guy. He was always OK.
Fuhh.. I remember maybe congratulating him on that. I hope I did. He deserved it.
That was a good woman. I could have had her if I didn't mess up.
Or really if I did mess up her.

 

[The Duke]

Ask fbj he's our resident expert

Aye, I think we may have found fbj soulmate! Oh!

 

[The Duke]

I am thinking more and more that Mortimer may be your guy. . He may not ever release you from his basement/dungeon, but other than the serial killer vibe he seems like a decent dude.

fbj all the way. Yep.

 

[The Duke]

MayorQuimby Would you be OK with a black guy?
I'm seeing it, I swear. That Tony Romo pud puller better thank me forever for this.
Anyway, there's this nice guy here, and I could swear ya'll be good for each other.
His name is fbj
He's black, I hope that's not a problem, as far as I can see, that's the best match for you here.
At least you have one, I do not.
Oh, I gotta stop right now. Yeah, that's it for right now.
He's alright. Maybe a bit nerdy. An alright dude.
I think you 2 are made for each other.

 

[WelfareQueen]

MayorQuimby Would you be OK with a black guy?
I'm seeing it, I swear. That Tony Romo pud puller better thank me forever for this.
Anyway, there's this nice guy here, and I could swear ya'll be good for each other.
His name is fbj
He's black, I hope that's not a problem, as far as I can see, that's the best match for you here.
At least you have one, I do not.
Oh, I gotta stop right now. Yeah, that's it for right now.
He's alright. Maybe a bit nerdy. An alright dude.
I think you 2 are made for each other.

When you said black I thought you might say Im2retarded. Thank God, no. But Fbj is a good dude. Quimby could do worse.

 

[The Duke]

When you said black I thought you might say Im2retarded. Thank God, no. But Fbj is a good dude. Quimby could do worse.

fbj is here too.
It's not all retarded racism 24/7 'round heanh.
No thanks to IM2
That cock-knocker certainly tries to make it be that way

 

[WelfareQueen]

fbj is here too.
It's not all retarded racism 24/7 'round heanh.
Well, they banned one of my favorite negroes 'round heanh.
His name was uh..
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There are good folks from every walk of life. Also, plenty of idiots as well. I have found skin color has little to nothing to do with either condition. :D

There are good folks from every walk of life. Also, plenty of idiots. I have found skin color has little to do with either condition.

 

[The Duke]

Did Cigar ever get over here?

 

[JOSweetHeart]

To me, what makes a relationship stick are the following three things.

1.) You enjoy each other's company.
2.) You agree on whatever is most important to you.
3.) Should you decide to get married, you both understand and respect what being married means.

God bless you always!!!

Holly (a girl who trusts no one that much)

 

[sparky]

So, speaking about yourself, aside from looks, what do you look for in a woman?

compatibility....... ~S~

 

[luiza]

Déjà vu. I have read this same thread many times, but from another member. . . . .

Is it Morticia in yet another of his/her disguises?
If not , they seem like two peas from the same pod .

 

[MayorQuimby]

I have found skin color has little to do with either condition.

But it has everything to do with level of physical attractiveness.

I don't understand how people just gloss over the importance of skin color/physicality. It is important; it is very important.

Is it Morticia in yet another of his/her disguises?
If not , they seem like two peas from the same pod .

Naw; I am sure I don't quite reach Morticia's level of cuteness, lol.

 

[MayorQuimby]

At 5'8" i have dated a number of women taller than me.

What I was trying to say is that a 6 foot 3 woman is too tall, for almost all men.