What do you think is the reason for me not being able to find a boyfriend

[1srelluc]

What I was trying to say is that a 6 foot 3 woman is too tall, for almost all men.

My wife was 6'-2" and I was 6' when we married.....47 years ago.....We are both shorter now.

Of course this thread is worthless without pics.

 

[SweetSue92]

Aside from my looks, which, really aren't terrible. I am not saying I am hot, I am not, but I really don't think I am hideous, either. So I don't think it has to do with my looks.

So, based on the way I act, do you think there is something about me that puts men off? What do you think of me and my behaviors/personality? If you have any advice for me, what will it be? If I were an OK-looking woman in real life, would you date me based on my personality?

Thanks in advance

Hey, if you watch My 600 lb life you will see that those women (and men)! almost invariably have a boyfriend or husband, and when they break up, they just get another one. I am NOT saying overweight people are unattractive, but these people almost never leave the bed, often have issues with personal hygiene, and have strange growths on their legs that boil and weep. I mean just to make the image clear. (HA) So when you say that sometimes looks doesn't have much to do with it you're right!

When I was younger I almost never was approached by men. Hubby said I gave off a very "do not approach" vibe, and I can see that. I'm not just naturally flirty and don't put myself out there, and men pick up on that. Hubby said he knew "wearing me down" would be work but he thought I was worth it. Married 31 years this month and still so happy!

(in short I guess my advice is: work on being friendly and open but some ladies just don't put out "available" vibes. Hope the right one comes along; that's all it takes!)

 

[1srelluc]

When I was younger I almost never was approached by men. Hubby said I gave off a very "do not approach" vibe.

How nature says....DO NOT TOUCH!

 

[Votto]

Lol.

Nothing against Morty, he's a very cute guy, but I kind of want someone a bit hotter.

What if he goes on a diet and begins to lift weights?

 

[EvilCat Breath]

Of what quality?

Every kind of quality there is. The men have always been out there, mine for the choosing.

 

[$ecular#eckler]

Aside from my looks, which, really aren't terrible. I am not saying I am hot, I am not, but I really don't think I am hideous, either. So I don't think it has to do with my looks.

I think it does have to do with your appearance. Not all about your looks, but you are not meeting your own expectations of compatible appearances. Are the men you are interested in meeting concerned about their appearance, or do they wear T-shirts with dopey messages?

So, based on the way I act, do you think there is something about me that puts men off?

Yes. You need to adjust your behavior around men and get rid of the goofy girlfriends who are not doing you any good.

What do you think of me and my behaviors/personality?

You should at least try to describe your personality. Do you understand you?

If you have any advice for me, what will it be?

Do a lot of writing. It will help you understand how you think. Research the personality description tests.

If I were an OK-looking woman in real life, would you date me based on my personality?

Thanks in advance

No. Your personality needs some development. You need to build confidence. Find something you are interested in and do something.

 

[MayorQuimby]

Every kind of quality there is. The men have always been out there, mine for the choosing.

Yes, yes; you are hot-stuff. We all know that by now.

 

[Votto]

I think it does have to do with your appearance. Not all about your looks, but you are not meeting your own expectations of compatible appearances. Are the men you are interested in meeting concerned about their appearance, or do they wear T-shirts with dopey messages?

Yes. You need to adjust your behavior around men and get rid of the goofy girlfriends who are not doing you any good.

You should at least try to describe your personality. Do you understand you?

Do a lot of writing. It will help you understand how you think. Research the personality description tests.

No. Your personality needs some development. You need to build confidence. Find something you are interested in and do something.

Or she could start watching football and learn to cook.

It's really her choice.

 

[Moonglow]

Aside from my looks, which, really aren't terrible. I am not saying I am hot, I am not, but I really don't think I am hideous, either. So I don't think it has to do with my looks.

So, based on the way I act, do you think there is something about me that puts men off? What do you think of me and my behaviors/personality? If you have any advice for me, what will it be? If I were an OK-looking woman in real life, would you date me based on my personality?

Thanks in advance

Pictures, we must have pictures

 

[MayorQuimby]

Pictures, we must have pictures

Lmao!

Sometimes you can be really cute if you choose to, Moon.

 

[Moonglow]

Lol.

Nothing against Morty, he's a very cute guy, but I kind of want someone a bit hotter.

You want them to have a higher temperature than 98.3?

 

[MayorQuimby]

Or she could start watching football and learn to cook.

It's really her choice.

Like, I don't mind pretending that I enjoy watching football, because I can just daydream about other stuff as I force my eyes to remain on the TV screen. But asking me to cook is like.....asking the fish to come out of the water and start climbing a tree.

 

[Hafar1014]

Aside from my looks, which, really aren't terrible. I am not saying I am hot, I am not, but I really don't think I am hideous, either. So I don't think it has to do with my looks.

So, based on the way I act, do you think there is something about me that puts men off? What do you think of me and my behaviors/personality? If you have any advice for me, what will it be? If I were an OK-looking woman in real life, would you date me based on my personality?

Thanks in advance

How much do you weigh ?

 

[Moonglow]

Lmao!

Sometimes you can be really cute if you choose to, Moon.

I have a Jekyll/Hyde going on.

 

[MayorQuimby]

You want the to have a higher temperature than 98.3?

Moon if you got any hotter, I would have to start to get good with computers and then hack into your account.

 

[MayorQuimby]

How much do you weigh ?

A very logical question.

I weigh about 64.5 kg right now, although it fluctuates a bit. My goal weight is 60.

I am 5 foot 6.

 

[Moonglow]

Moon if you got any hotter, I would have to start to get good with computers and then hack into your account.

You like doing the back door trick?

 

[RetiredGySgt]

couldnt say I have read much of your posts,,

even if I did I wouldnt use it as a base line,,

Never seen her posts before at all,

 

[Votto]

Moon if you got any hotter, I would have to start to get good with computers and then hack into your account.

Only if you are into lots of porn.

I wouldn't do that if I were you.

Just say'in.

 

[Woodznutz]

I know that men aren't as solely focused on physicality as we have painted them as, so, if that's the case, what do they look for then? I know that personality is always important. I just want to know how to attract men's attention without having stunningly good looks.

Most men are attracted by good looks and sexuality, so make yourself as good looking and sexually attractive as you can comfortably do. Then put yourself out there where men can see and meet you. This is the time-honored, age-old way to attract the attention of men. After that, personality, character, and compatibility come into play and looks become less important.