Zone1 Virginity and Sexual Promiscuity

[alang1216]

For some, marriage is definitely a lifetime commitment--nothing less. It's a matter of government deciding that what God joined together, indeed, government can tear asunder. And has.

There is no reason government should be involved in marriage. You can get married anyway you choose, church, mosque, whatever, but it should have no legal status. Legal status would come from a civil union contract that the government would recognize and have rules that govern it.

 

[ding]

There is no reason government should be involved in marriage.

I have been saying this for quite some time. Is this the first thing we have ever agreed upon? If so, I may have to reconsider this.

 

[BreezeWood]

Or maybe the liar is you. Maybe you are a political subversive trying to subordinate Christianity. Maybe everything about you is a lie.

the account is by a liar and is promoted by the same people who choose persecution and victimization of the innocent using false heavenly personification as their justification for what they claim.

that's you bing and your phony christianity -

using the phony commandments madeup by the liar moses, claimed tablets etched in the heavens never read by anyone but him yet found in all three desert bibles of distortions - no wonder your mind is so scrambled, you have no sense of reality whatsoever - just another texas zombie blank wall.

 

[ding]

that's you bing and your phony christianity -

using the phony commandments madeup by the liar moses, claimed tablets etched in the heavens never read by anyone but him yet found in all three desert bibles of distortions - no wonder your mind is so scrambled, you have no sense of reality whatsoever - just another texas zombie blank wall.

Then don't be a Christian. Problem solved.

 

[Blaster]

The number of marriages is declining. There's alot more single people in their 30s and 40s than ever.

I'm 34 and single.

 

[BreezeWood]

Marriage is about bringing God into the covenant of marriage and making a godly commitment to your partner.

no, bear brings their legal document and christian bible as their marriage ... nothing heavenly at all, the consequences of life.

they miss the heavenly 1st century message opening chapter - mary and joseph choose honesty over a document to bind them together and lived everafter happily without moses and their phony commandments and servitude of their documents - choosing true love and its consequences. they were never bound by a church or state, theirs is heavenly.

 

[BreezeWood]

Then don't be a Christian. Problem solved.

no wonder your mind is so scrambled, you have no sense of reality whatsoever -

solved for you ...

jesus was not a christian - they and their message of liberation theology, self determination are forced by those that wrote the 4th century bible in jesus's name to stand against the tyranny that took their life, who did nothing to save them and use their name for their own agenda ...

the brutality of christianity throughout recorded history is bing's pleasure they deliberately sweep under their rug to continue in the dishonesty of all three desert religions.

have they removed - slavery, misogyny, false commandments, hereditary idolatry et al .... from their bibles, written on their foreheads for all to see - - bing the tyrant.

 

[alang1216]

I have been saying this for quite some time. Is this the first thing we have ever agreed upon? If so, I may have to reconsider this.

Don't reconsider, it may the first time you were right about something.

 

[ding]

solved for you ...

jesus was not a christian - they and their message of liberation theology, self determination are forced by those that wrote the 4th century bible in jesus's name to stand against the tyranny that took their life, who did nothing to save them and use their name for their own agenda ...

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the brutality of christianity throughout recorded history is bing's pleasure they deliberately sweep under their rug to continue in the dishonesty of all three desert religions.

have they removed - slavery, misogyny, false commandments, hereditary idolatry et al .... from their bibles, written on their foreheads for all to see - - bing the tyrant.

No. Solved for you. Unless of course you have some other final solution in mind.

 

[ding]

Don't reconsider, it may the first time you were right about something.

Meh. I've only been wrong once in my life and that was when I thought I was wrong and later found out I was right.

 

[Foxfyre]

As a 75 year old man, this subject is far off my normal radar screen, but I occasionally see comms by young adults on the subjects of virginity and sex. Through a process that I missed, I occasionally get "reddit" communications on the topic of "Am I the Asshole?"

When I was growing up in the 50's and 60's, girls and boys were taught that sex outside marriage was sinful, and should be avoided. As a further inducement, it was mentioned that sex often results in pregnancy, and in some cases, even a "social disease." This latter point was merely a footnote, since even if we were fooling around it would not be with people who were promiscuous or who patronized prostitutes. But at the time, there were no birth control pills and abortion was simply not an option. If you got pregnant, you had better come up with a husband, or your father would.

But the basic admonishment, to girls in particular, was, this is sinful, it is immoral, and sex is something you can look forward to when you get married. It was also widely considered that young men might not want to marry a young woman who was not a virgin, and believe me, this was a real concern. It was rare but not unheard of for a marriage proposal to be revoked (or whatever) when the man learned that the woman was not a virgin.

Among my own friends, while few couples were both virgins when they got married, for about half of them their girlfriend/fiance/wife was their first sexual partner. (And last, if you want to know the truth).

Are girls today even told that promiscuous sex is immoral, or sinful, or even unethical? Would a parent today even have a basis for telling his daughter such a thing? With no religion, on what would that admonishment be based? Seriously. If she "takes precautions," what do parents say to them to deter them from sexual promiscuity...when heading off to college, for example?

Or do they even give a shit?

As the mores that dictated sexual morality have loosened and disappeared in our culture, the divorce rate didn't go down. It more than doubled. The most enduring and most likely some of the happiest marriages were generally the ones in which the wife and often the husband were virgins on their wedding night. Sexual promiscuity has not improved the chances for a good marriage but has cheapened marriage and added a whole lot of other uglies that were mostly rare in the mid 20th Century and before.

 

[ding]

As the mores that dictated sexual morality have loosened and disappeared in our culture, the divorce rate didn't go down. It more than doubled. The most enduring and most likely some of the happiest marriages were generally the ones in which the wife and often the husband were virgins on their wedding night. Sexual promiscuity has not improved the chances for a good marriage but has cheapened marriage and added a whole lot of other uglies that were mostly rare in the mid 20th Century and before.

That's called the predictable surprises of normalization of deviance. Normalization of deviance occurs when a people lower their standard of conduct and normalize their deviance to the standard such that they forget why the original standard existed in the first place.

Standards exist for logical reasons and when we deviate from the standards the reason the standard existed in the first place will make itself known through failures.

 

[BreezeWood]

Sexual promiscuity has not improved the chances for a good marriage but has cheapened marriage and added a whole lot of other uglies that were mostly rare in the mid 20th Century and before.

the inability to separate is what cheapens marriage over all other considerations and is blindly endorsed by the three desert religions as similarly those religions manipulations and coercion to maintain their enrollments by threats and public vilification.

 

[Foxfyre]

the inability to separate is what cheapens marriage over all other considerations and is blindly endorsed by the three desert religions as similarly those religions manipulations and coercion to maintain their enrollments by threats and public vilification.

I'm sorry but I have absolutely no idea what point you are making here. But have a great week.

 

[initforme]

Divorce is difficult and needs to be made easier to achieve since right around half of all marriages end in divorce and that trend isn't going to stop anytime soon.

 

[luiza]

who would that be ...

the exemplars were openly who they were and blessed by the heavens for their repudiation of moses and his false commandments, judaism.

could you be referring to yourself, the dishonesty association for your post - as well all three desert religions.

My version is exactly as it happened but as you are uninterested in academic scholarship you will doubtless continue as a Cultist .

That's the beauty of Cognitive Rigidity -- it gives Deep State very easy Sheeple pickings .

 

[otto105]

those four, mary jseph jesus and mary m were heavenly exemplars, the 1st century events - as a direct repudiation of judaism and the false commandments claimed by the liar moses ...

jesus is the religion of love, the religion of antiquity - as to repudiate all three desert religions of servitude and denial.

those who outlaw love are the greatest sinners of all - 49.

Jesus apparently is not a religion of spelling.

 

[Moonglow]

I'm 34 and single.

 

[Ringo]

 

[Ringo]