Now that there have been some changes to the CS, I might stop by more often.
We would be happy if you do NLT. But there have been no changes. The CS is pretty much as it has been from its inception: a place where everybody can be who and what they are and share what's going on in their lives. We rejoice with those who are enjoying success or good things happening. We provide moral support for those who are going through tough times such as a the loss of a beloved pet. And we laugh a lot and just enjoy each other and try to leave the drama elsewhere.
We discourage politics, religious discussions, or obviously controversial subjects because its just easier to keep the peace that way. Every now and then somebody will slip, and if everybody else will just cough and move on quickly, there is usually no harm/no foul. No need to stir up a big brouhaha or make something toxic that doesn't have to be. If it is a more serious in fraction, mostly it is handled with a gentle reminder or behind the scenes.
Those who presume to dictate who and what everybody else is required to be to conform to their personal preferences or those with such thin skin that they take offense at everything don't find very fertile soil here though.
What I absolutely won't tolerate are those who bring their personal vendettas into the Coffee Shop and disrespect other members. If such people won't back down or move on, we may have to have them removed. But over the four and a half years that the Coffee Shop has been in operation, we have roughly 125,000 posts and more than 5 million views and we can count the serious brouhahas have been few and far between. So we must be doing something right.
Some people just don't have it in them to be both courteous and tolerant. And yes, it is disappointing and sometimes hurtful when some turn out to be fair weather friends, and sometimes that will be those who have been supported and sheltered the most in the CS. But oh well. Each to their own and I think it is safe to say that nobody wishes ill of anybody.
So pour another cup of whatever warms your soul and on we go. . .